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- 5 Text Messages That Will Help You Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2012 from Brad BrowningSo you want to learn 5 text messages that you can send your ex boyfriend to get him to regret leaving you… and turn the tables completely. The beauty of texting is that it doesn’t convey a lot of neediness… so if you play your cards right, you won’t look like a jealous or clingy (which is a ...
Views: 32097 - How to Get Your Wife Back When Nothing Else is Working - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannDid you know that divorce rates are the highest that they have ever been in America? Don't feel like you're alone – you're far from the only abandoned husband who wants to learn how to get your wife back. The percentage of married couples that get divorced has been steadily increasing for the ...
Views: 22222(1 vote) - How to Get a Leo Man to Forgive You - 3 Tips That Help - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2013 from Gillian ReynoldsYou've done it. You've gone and ruined a wonderful relationship and you don't know what you can do now to fix it. That sounds a lot like what you're dealing with at the moment, doesn't it? You and your Leo man have had a falling out and you've taken all the blame on yourself. It's ...
Views: 19624 - 3 Reasons Why You Should Avoid Discussing the Past in Arguments - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2011 from Fred TracyOne of the mistakes we all make in our arguments and disagreements with loved ones is bringing up the past. How many times have you been talking to your partner about an important issue, in a pleasant tone, only to have them raise their voices and complain about events that happened ages ago? Or ...
Views: 19286 - 6 Divorce Effects on Men You Should Know - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Kyle MorrisonDivorce is probably one of the hardest and most difficult situations anyone has to go through. While it would be somewhat unfair to say that women get the upper hand in terms of surviving divorce because of the numerous resources and documented pieces of advice that they are able to utilize, ...
Views: 18273 - 3 Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tips To Make Her Regret Leaving - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2010 from Andrew HunterSo, you've been dumped and now you want to make your girlfriend jealous so she'll go on bended knee to get you back. Of course, I don't know how your breakup came about, but maybe it was a little too hurtful and she needs to really understand that. Maybe you want her back in a way that she ...
Views: 17325(5 votes) - How to Forgive Your Mother’s Betrayal: So You Can Truly Stand in Your Power - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Brenda AdelmanMy mother died in 1995. As many do after someone dies, I put her up on a pedestal. It’s only now, fourteen years later, that I have begun to look at the affect the unhealed parts of our relationship have had on me and the unanswered questions they have left for me. Would we have resolved our ...
Views: 15333(1 vote) - What Does "Taking a Break" in a Relationship Signify? - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Andrew HunterHave you ever heard those words before? “We have to take a break.” It hits you like a bucket of frozen water. Taking a break inside a relationship regularly means doom for couples, however it really doesn’t have to. What does “taking a break while in the romantic relationship” really ...
Views: 14796(3 votes) - 7 Steps To Healing Your Wounded Child - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2010 from Evelyn LimThe "wounded child" is an archetype containing negative emotional patterns of our youth. You have a blocked or damaged archetypal pattern when you allow your wounded child to run your life. You find yourself attracting the same repeated pattern of negative experiences in your adult life. You ...
Views: 14614 - Can Couples Get Back Together After A Break Up? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Mika MaddelaOnce a couple breaks up with each other, one of the top questions they usually ask is "do couples get back together after a bad parting of ways?” The answer to this question is not really clear and usually depends on how your relationship ended. Of course, some couples managed to get back ...
Views: 14571 - *** How Radical Forgiveness Works - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2008 from Colin TippingOrdinary forgiveness is 'letting bygones be bygones'. A certain willingness to forgive is implied but the belief something wrong happened is never questioned. “You did that to me, but I’ll let you off the hook and forgive you.” Research based at Seattle University, WA ...
Views: 13554(6 votes) - Forgive a Cheating Wife - How to Move on From the De-Masculation of Infidelity - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannRight now, you don't understand how it's even possible to forgive cheating...Is every man who's ever repaired his marriage after an affair really just jading over their feelings of jealousy and betrayal? Or do you believe that full forgiveness really is possible? That you and your wife can ...
Views: 12989 - Discover How to Convince Your Wife Not to Leave You - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannAll relationships have their ups and downs, and there are always times that things will seem very bleak. But somehow, at least so far, you've always managed to get her back. But now you're afraid that this time will be different, that somehow your relationship is so damaged that there is a ...
Views: 12471 - How To Get My Ex To Forgive Me And Get Him or Her Back - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreHow To Get My Ex To Forgive Me; Are you regularly asking yourself, "how can I get my ex lover back"? Do you continually look at your emails, texts or gifts that your ex lover, boyfriend or girlfriend gave you? It's not rare when you've broken up with your lover and you ask yourself questions ...
Views: 11879 - A Love Letter To Your Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2010 from Dawgelene SangsterWhen was the last time you took time out of your busy schedule to write your spouse a letter? Not just a list of to-dos or a grocery list, but a love letter saying how much you appreciate them and value having them in your life. We get caught up in everyday life, that we allow our marriages to ...
Views: 11795(3 votes) - My Ex Is Already Dating, How Can I Get My Ex Back? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Owen SkytonThis question get repeated a lot of the times and more often then not it’s the first question people ask after the break up. “Can I get my ex back if my ex is already dating?” I don't want to stall here – YES, you can get your ex back even if he or she is already dating someone new. Will ...
Views: 11548(4 votes) - The Transformative Power of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from Joan Breiner, M.Ed. and Susyn Reeve, M.Ed.One of the gifts of being a co-creator of WITH Forgiveness is that I have the opportunity, on a daily basis, to expand and deepen my capacity to forgive by practicing what I preach! One afternoon, I was home watching some documentaries. The first and last one, I watched that day was, “Jesus ...
Views: 11049(4 votes) - 5 Signs Your Girl Might Give if She Wants You Back - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2010 from Andrew HunterHow your ex has conducted herself since you broke up may give you an idea about whether or not she wants to come back to you. It’s a pretty sure bet that she’s not going to be direct and tell you this plainly, but rather you can tell through her actions and behaviors. They only suggest that ...
Views: 10455(2 votes) - Definition: Forgiveness - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2008 from Douglas PakForgiveness is the process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger against another person for a perceived offense, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution. This definition, however, is subject to much philosophical critique. Forgiveness may be considered ...
Views: 10293 - The Universal Law of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2008 from Amanda ButlerImagine waking up one morning and there is a glow about you, burdens of the past have been lifted, the heaviness of your heart has been lightened. You no longer are filled with pain, grief, anger, or resentment, and your spirit feels free to live once again. You feel an energy that allows you to ...
Views: 10101(1 vote) - Boundaries: Why Can't Some People Take No For An Answer? - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to being successful, it is often said that one shouldn’t take no for an answer and that they should keep going. As if they were to give up after they experience negative response, they are not going to get very far. It is then going to be in their best interest to be ...
Views: 10066 - ***What Is Radical Forgiveness? - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Colin TippingEveryone agrees that forgiveness is a good thing to do. Besides the fact that it holding onto anger and resentment makes you feel horrible and robs you of your life force energy, the link between high blood pressure and other health issues is well proven. Moreover, the research shows that ...
Views: 10035(2 votes) - On the Brink of Breaking Up? What To Do Next - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Donna Marie ThompsonOn the Brink of Breaking Up Your Relationship? If you are now facing rocky times in your relationship, you could very well be on the brink of a break up. What can you do to bring it back? The first step is to take inventory - what is going on in your relationship and why? It is critical ...
Views: 9900 - What Do I Do after My Wife Had an Affair? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Jacob Elichmann"My wife cheated on me; I'm struggling to cope with her affair and I can't get the images out of my mind! What do I do?" Do you feel nothing but rage when you imagine your wife breaching your love and trust with another man? Perhaps just knowing that your wife is cheating has left you in ...
Views: 9826 - How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back After Telling Me She Needs Some Space - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversHow To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back After Telling Me She Needs Some Space; How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space? Probably the biggest question guys ask themselves, especially with women-led breakups, because most involve something to do with needing more space. A complete ...
Views: 9592 - The Pros and Cons of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2012 from Susan PeabodySome people believe forgiveness is important and others don’t. In his book Alcoholics Anonymous, author Bill Wilson (the co-founder of AA) discusses forgiveness and says its necessary for sobriety. He calls it “letting go of resentment,” not forgiveness, and says it’s not done to please ...
Views: 9216(1 vote) - What to Say to Your Ex Boyfriend to Get Him Back - Win Him Back With This - by Submitted on May 15, 2016 from Patrick UadialeAre you struggling with what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Finding the right words to say in a situation like this can be a struggle. The problem is that this is generally a highly emotional and tense situation for both of you. It's far too easy to take one step further only to ...
Views: 9144 - It's That Time Of Year - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Laura YoungThe last two months of the year usually finds us in a frantic state of shopping, decorating, cooking and traveling, so is it any wonder we are more stressed than cheerful. Having so many "to do" lists, we are wound up and too exhausted to enjoy that which normally makes us happy, as in ...
Views: 8938(3 votes) - How to Forgive Your Father’s Betrayal So You Can Have More Love in Your Life Now - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Brenda AdelmanDid you know that if you are angry, un-forgiving and resentful of your father you are actually hurting yourself? Think about it for a minute. Who holds that anger in their body and mind? You or him? This energy becomes toxic to the person feeling it and usually shows up as depression (which can ...
Views: 8776 - Psychological Tips to Get Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend to Reconcile with You - I Want My Ex Love - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreSaying “I want my ex boyfriend back” and “I want my ex girlfriend back” are mere statements. I heard someone say I want to reconcile with my ex, but I don’t know what to do. “I don’t know what to do”. Have you tried everything possible to reconcile with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend? Is ...
Views: 8453 - Resentment - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Lisa PhillipsWhen we feel resentment we believe that someone, or something has wronged us in some way. When we feel resentful, we tend to feel negative emotions such as anger, spite, hurt and irritation. Examples of Resentment include: • Feeling angry against a person or group of people whom you feel ...
Views: 8363(11 votes) - Will My Ex Boyfriend Ever Want Me Back? Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2010 from Charles UadialeWill my ex boyfriend ever want me back again? This is a familiar question with women who are still in love with their ex boyfriend. You've probably spent a lot of time wondering what caused the breakup. However, there's nothing you can do about the issue. You can only move on with your life. ...
Views: 8301 - Feeling Guilty about ending your Marriage? Secret Tips to Let Go of Guilt - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2015 from Nicola BeerGuilt is a painful, uncomfortable and often lingering emotion that many individuals I work with suffer from. You will learn about John and Dana’s experience today, and at the end are my 3 secret tips to letting go of guilt. Take John’s case, after many years of endless agonizing and ...
Views: 8238 - Consider Separation as a Part of Your Marriage Counseling Process - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2009 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamCan a marital separation save a marriage? Usually my opinion is: it depends… Whether the separation will help or hurt the marriage is unknown, unless you know the couple, have listened to them and assessed their mental state. Needless to say, a professional marriage counselor should ...
Views: 8215(3 votes) - Why No Contact Rule is Essential in Getting Your Ex Back - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from Mika MaddelaYou may under estimate how important applying the no contact rule is if you want to get your ex back into your life. It's better to refrain from any forms of contact with your ex for at least a month, especially if you think you have a chance of getting back together. If you're skeptical about ...
Views: 8183 - Relationship Breakups - How To Stay Friends - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangRelationship breakups don't always mean that the person you're breaking up with needs to be cut completely out of your life. Many people continue to have warm and satisfying friendships with their exes by making sure that their relationship breakups are done without hurting anyone more than ...
Views: 8180(4 votes) - How To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back By Doing The Right Things - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoWhen a relationship turns sour, it proves bad for all involved. Men do not only need to deal with the issue of breaking up, they must handle their own egos. If you are trying to figure out the proper way to win your ex girlfriend back, you will find it's not impossible but it isn't a simple task ...
Views: 8093 - Why Men Are Afraid of Commitment (And How To Help) - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2012 from Brenda ShoshannaAfter a relationship ends, women ask what went wrong, again and again. In this revealing article we see that often it has nothing to do with the woman. The article explores some patterns and needs that cause men to run from relationships. It also offers specific guidelines and advice to help. ...
Views: 7908(1 vote) - 3 Blaring Signs Your Ex Wants You Back - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterBreaking up is not something I wish upon anyone, even my worst nemesis. It can cause you to have all sorts of emotions. It happens a lot to people, wanting to know if your ex wants you back or having second thoughts about you. Especially if you there weren't any signs of a breakup. These clues ...
Views: 7777(8 votes) - Forgiveness is a Choice, Not a Feeling - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2009 from Allison O'NeillWe have all had people in our lives that have pissed us off. The trouble is if years later we still haven’t forgiven them and moved on, it eats away at us – not them. If you can’t forgive a person they still have control over you. Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling. Some people will be ...
Views: 7598 - My Ex Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Wife, Husband Won't Forgive Me - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreThere is no one who has been in a relationship breakup that wouldn’t get depressed, unless he or she really didn’t love his or her ex. Well the end of the story can be fore told, if you love your ex and you really miss them, you can get them back into your loving arms. Love cannot be denied. ...
Views: 7557 - How To Bury A Bad Past - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2010 from Greg BakerThe greatest problem with a bad past is not that you made mistakes or did things wrong. It is that you can't go back and undo it. That is the most frustrating part about guilt and regrets. We are hands on people. We want to fix mistakes and right wrongs. But once the moment has slipped into the ...
Views: 7454(4 votes) - What To Realize For Getting Your WIfe Back From Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Robert LeesIt took me a lengthy time to discover the correct path for the finest way to get my ex wife back again, and for quite some time, a lot of the time of 2 years it was quite very difficult avenue indeed. But immediately after realizing the way I was trying to win back the love of my wife was ...
Views: 7362(1 vote) - 3 Unnoticed Signs That He Wants You Back - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Mika MaddelaFinally, after overcoming the initial pain of a heartache, you and your ex have begun to speak to each other again. You're either hoping to get him back and save your relationship or just remain friends with him. However, your new relationship with your ex is confusing you, and you don't know ...
Views: 7354 - How to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend- Must Do’s and Absolute Don’ts - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from Gery WriterIf you’re dreaming of the ideal romantic gesture that will sweep your ex girlfriend off her feet, or you are reeling from a breakup and desperately looking for a method to get your girl back, there’s one simple thing you should remember: you don’t want to scare the girl away! You will find no ...
Views: 7256 - How to Reconcile With Your Ex-Girlfriend - Get Her to Want You Back - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerThe hardest part of going through a breakup with your girlfriend is when you get the feeling that you want to be back with her. If you want to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend, then you probably are going through a lot of emotions right now. Sometimes she's all you can think about and then ...
Views: 7245(3 votes) - Advice To Reconcile With Your Ex Boyfriend After Breakup - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversAfter a breakup, the hardest thing you will face is to keep from pushing your ex boyfriend any farther away. You will be tempted to stay in contact with him and make sure he does not find another woman to take your place. However, this is a time when your emotions will be at their highest and ...
Views: 7182 - 7 Steps to Forgiveness - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2010 from Kristin RobertsonDid you know that forgiveness is good for you? The process of forgiveness has been shown to have both psychological and physical benefits to the person who is doing the forgiving. Shocking, isn't it? You may have heard the old axiom, "Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and expecting the ...
Views: 6923(6 votes) - Fastest Ways to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back - 3 Things to Speed It Up and Get Her Back - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Chris TylerYou don't want to be one of those guys that just talks about his ex girlfriend and how great she was all of the time. I think we all know at least one guy that is this way, and you certainly do NOT want to be him. No, you want to be one of the "lucky" ones, one of the guys that doesn't just ...
Views: 6828 - Positive Ways In Getting My Ex Back - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoI experienced an emotional breakup with my ex girlfriend. I would have liked to resume the relationship as soon as possible but I had to face the reality that this barely happens. My first instinct after the breakup was to call text and email my past lover. Fortunately , fact sat in and I ...
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