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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dear Dr. Romance: Am I wrong for asking for more time for us? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2021 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I've been in a relationship for 6 1/2 years with a man I can see myself marrying and growing old. The first 4 years we were on our long distance relationship because I was in college in another state. We then lived together for a year to realize we could work out in ...
Views: 646(1 vote) - What are the Irresistible Charms of Mature Women? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Candy ButlerTime takes away the youthful face of a woman, but it cannot take away the mature charm that a woman has accumulated during her growth. The charm that a mature woman exudes is the carving of time, the gift of time, and the unique light that young girls don't have. Therefore, women do not have to ...
Views: 672 - Intentional habits to glide into the New Year with ease - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Emma ViglucciHappy New Year! The promise of new beginnings is just beyond alluring, is it not? Whether you are rocking it or are struggling, a new ride is just fun! We’ve had a heck of a 2020, and though there is light at the end of the tunnel 2021 is off to a slow start. I say we go with the flow, with ...
Views: 791 - Who Is A Sociopath? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Dr. Anne BrownWho is a Sociopath? "Sociopaths/Psychopaths are fun, exciting, seductive, charismatic, impulsive, sexy, AND unfortunately, individuals diagnosed with an anti-social personality disorder." — Dr. Anne Brown What does this mean to you? After you have been drawn into their world, then you ...
Views: 804(1 vote) - Work from Home and Relationship Woes: Making it Work - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2021 from Clarissa LearyA Work from home job can be difficult under the best of circumstances, but when a relationship at home isn’t working, it can be even harder to manage running your own business. Pent up frustrations and all-out brawls can hinder creativity and hamper your energy for work. How can you manage the ...
Views: 670 - When sex toys become therapeutic - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2020 from Kelly JojoWhen it comes to sex toys, the thought immediately goes to the vibrator, which is undoubtedly the most famous sex object, but within the large family of sex toys, there are an infinity of other objects: lubricants, handcuffs, condoms details, pornography, etc. Their goal, however, is the same: ...
Views: 695 - Dear Dr. Romance: Why Can't I Spark the Interest of a Woman? - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read your Dr. Romance Blog. I'm trying to find out why I can't find a woman, or better put: why I cant I spark the interest of a woman? I'm 40 years old I was never married nor do I have kids. Its pretty dam aggravating. I haven't even had date ...
Views: 592(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: His Clutter Drives Me Crazy! - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I found you online when i googled "How to Live with a Slob". My husband and I are opposites in the area of how to keep a house -- i am very clean and he is, well, not at all. The clutter drives me crazy! It is just one more issue that impacts our relationship. ...
Views: 598(1 vote) - What is Mahabhagya Yoga in astrology? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2020 from Sri Tulasi'Mahabhagya Yoga' is a god blessing… There are many Raja Yoga in astrology. And they all have their importance. But the most special of these is Mahabhagya Yoga. Mahabhagya Yoga is yoga beyond Raja Yoga. The person born in this yoga is especially blessed by God. As the name of this yoga ...
Views: 856(1 vote) - End-of-year vision, strategy and intention (Step3) - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2020 from Emma ViglucciWow, we made it. The end of 2020… And, what a year it has been. Are you excited to close what some are calling the “lost year”? I actually refuse to look at it this way and choose instead to look at it as a Transition Year into our Best Self, Best Relationship and Best Life… To that end, we’ve ...
Views: 682 - 10 effective ways to move on after a breakup - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2020 from Mann GhattOne of the toughest things in anyone’s life is breakup. It hurts when that special person is no more part of one’s life. Those conversations, text messages, and memories of the person keep haunting. Breakup is a great void and hurts badly, irrespective of the reasons why the breakup happened. ...
Views: 635 - What It's like Being Married to Someone Who Has Herpes - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2020 from Jessy JohnsonUsing protection if you have to use protection if you should use protection even though you have herpes, we're diagnosed with herpes. We think I'm going to have to use a condom with my husband with my wife. What if I want to have kids all about fun, so the short answer is no, you do not have to ...
Views: 713 - End-of-year closure, clearance and celebration (Step2) - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2020 from Emma ViglucciYes, 2020 has been challenging. Yes, 2021 seems to want to start on a rough foot also… But we don’t have to let it! It is our job to create our best life regardless of what is happening out there, to the best of our ability… Today’s topic is the second step in putting a bow on it and launching ...
Views: 713 - "You Should Know What My Needs Are!" - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperThere will be times when it is possible for someone to know what another person’s needs are and times when it won’t be. That is, of course, unless someone has the ability to read minds; if they do, they will always know. But, if this ability is put to one side, another person will need to ...
Views: 569 - How People In Relationships Can Help Keep Each Other Mentally Healthy - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2020 from Marina PalMore often than not, people mask their true selves with outwards projections in the form of behaviors. And some of those behaviors might have evolved into all you know today. Take, for instance, a lady who is not happy with her physique and suffers from low self-esteem will dress in a certain ...
Views: 493 - “I Hate You, Don't Leave Me” - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperA number of years ago, I read a book called “I Hate You, Don’t Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality.” This is an old book, originally published in 1989, but I thought it was still excellent. I would say that even if someone doesn’t have a borderline personality or even know ...
Views: 647 - Dear Dr. Romance: They say I am a diamond as a man - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Thanks for sharing the great article "A Good Cry" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have a question about it: "....If you're trying to help someone cope with a loss, don't try to make the bereaved person feel better. It just ...
Views: 677(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I think she is really scared to go to therapy - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: To be honest I think she is really scared to go to therapyI have been many timesAnd I know it worksAnd I really want her and I to learn how to communicate stumped Dear Reader: she probably thinks you want to fix her, and that hurts her feelings. Ask her to go ...
Views: 638(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't think I want to be in this relationship after all - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am currently reading your book, The 10 Smartest Decisions a Woman can Make Before 40 and absolutely loving it. I have been married for a year and four months and we are going through a really tough time right now. I have suggested counseling and my husband ...
Views: 606(1 vote) - End-of-year, decluttering and minimalism (Step1) - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2020 from Emma ViglucciLast month of 2020! Let’s make it a good one! In this context, making it a good one means making the rest of the Holiday Season as magical as they can be, properly wrapping up this year, and setting up the new one for more success… Today’s topic is the first step in putting a bow on it and ...
Views: 665 - Searching for Your Soul Mate? Focus on Compatibility. - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2020 from Rabbi Simon JacobsonAll the stuff of the romantic stories that have been written for thousands of years goes back to the story of Adam of Eve. As the story goes, God created a single being, Adam, that in “their” wholeness contained both male and female. God then separated this being into two bodies, Adam and Eve. ...
Views: 641 - Bad Belief Systems You Must Lose if You Want to WIN - Part 11: Criticalism - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2020 from Ronald RossNo one likes a critic, but that doesn't stop many who criticize darn near everything that happens. Those folks suffer from a belief system that is personally and socially destructive. They believe that nothing is ever right or good enough. There are two kinds of critics – the kind we're most ...
Views: 608 - 6 Femininity Tips for Christmas - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2020 from Valeria TariHave yourself a calm little Christmas! Women shrouded in dark fog, with their heads down, stroll the street grimly. They’re shopping. "Are they really getting ready for the holiday, or do they just want to survive?" My heart breaks, because I know I’ve taken their burden upon myself at one ...
Views: 649 - 101 Steps to Perfect Wedding Photographs - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2020 from hassam khSo much will be happening on your big day (and it often goes by so fast) that the photographs you have of the event will be something you'll treasure and look back on for the rest of your lives. It's important to prepare properly, to get the best out of your day and your photographer. Here ...
Views: 616 - How Do I Let A Sugar Daddy Spoil Me? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2024 from Anna GreenEvery sugar baby likes the feeling of being spoiled by a sugar daddy, but no one knows the issue of relationship. If you want a sugar daddy to "spoil" you, how can you do without these six traits? As a sugar baby who just came out, are you insecure, you don't know how to find a suitable sugar ...
Views: 1164(1 vote) - Its Easy to become a really successful Escort - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2020 from steven leeOften, people are put in a bad situation and desperately seek a quick way out. While this is an extremely normal occurrence, there are better choices than accompaniment. The most important thing to be a successful escort is to really want to do it. Because you like the work, the idea of it or ...
Views: 558 - Do You Really Know About Bisexuality? – Break the Rumors - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2020 from Candy ButlerBisexuality is a sexual orientation that is interested in both men and women. To some people, it may sound like a superpower - double the romantic option means double the chance, right? But in reality, bisexuality can be regarded as a somewhat embarrassing identity. Bisexuals are not straight, ...
Views: 630 - 7 Tips to Strengthen your Relationship with Your Spouse - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2020 from Sharon MartinHow to Strengthen your Relationship with Your Spouse? Marriage is the most sacred commitment you can have with another person. It entails making a vow to cherish each other through good times and bad. However, it is also natural that your relationship becomes strained at times. Maybe you feel ...
Views: 1250 - Numbing for coping with stress specially during the holidays… - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2020 from Emma ViglucciThe Holiday Season is here! This time of year is usually challenging regardless of how crazy the world is out there. What makes this season usually more challenging is that we trip into it and get sucked into the hecticness. This sets us up for chaos, being stretched too thin, overwhelm, drama, ...
Views: 746 - What does God say about unrequited love? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2020 from Dwivid SharmaI'm confident we've all been there at some time; we fall miserably for a man or woman who doesn't have similar affections for us. We lose time fantasizing about them and envisioning a coexistence, making a wide range of plans for the future while carrying on with their lives without us in it. ...
Views: 968 - loving - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhy did he leave me by Beth Shepherd psychic and therapist I met George six years ago and we hit it off instantly, he was everything I wanted in a man, sensible, bright, caring, loving, sexy, good looking, kind, great job, good with money, responsible and mature! I was over the moon and we ...
Views: 711 - What is Accurate Life Prediction by date of Birth? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2020 from Sri TulasiWhat is Accurate Life Prediction by date of Birth? Free accurate life prediction by date of birth and time is an astrological report based on Vedic astrology. This report gives you a detailed analysis of your life in various aspects. Want to predict my future online? then this report ...
Views: 867(1 vote) - Reasons Why Women Like to Date Older Men? - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2020 from Candy ButlerFor men and women of the same age, women seem to be much more mature than men. This is why normal men like dating women younger than themselves. Mature men have made some achievements in their career, so they can attract young women easier than young men. Meanwhile, they do not have the impulse ...
Views: 673 - 4 Ways to Find New Direction After a Devastating Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2020 from Meghan BelnapAre you newly single? Whether your relationship ended on a sour note or you're still best friends with your ex, saying goodbye can be devastating. After struggling through the stages of grief, there always comes a time when you want to put the past behind you. If you're ready to move forward ...
Views: 704 - Stop Expecting from others, You should Stop Expecting start accepting - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2020 from EVERYDAY READExpectation from others... This is an easily available feeling yet too costly in today's life. You should stop expecting from others as your expectation can lead you to heartbreak and irritation. You must know what can be expected and what you should not. You must discover things for what you ...
Views: 823 - Dear Dr. Romance: how do I forget that she is married and I am single? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a high school assistant and I fell in love with mother of one of my students. She doesn't know anything about and has some difficulty with her son's wife. I told her I want to help you to sort out your problem, but I have no idea how to help her and ...
Views: 792(1 vote) - Dr. Romance: Dating after Widowhood - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2020 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance's 3 Tips for Finding New Love For a while after a relationship ends, you may not feel like considering a new relationship, which is probably good. Jumping right from one relationship to another usually doesn't work. A relationship that follows too quickly is called a ...
Views: 685(1 vote) - Do not change yourself for others But Always improve yourself [10 tips How can you be yourself] - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2020 from EVERYDAY READIn a world that demands continuous change. It is a big question that how do you be yourself and do not change yourself for others? Being yourself doesn’t mean you don’t need to change. You have to change to maintain yourself with this world but this change will need to be in your personality ...
Views: 943 - Holidays thoughts stressing you out? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2020 from Emma ViglucciWe know the Holidays and year-end can be stressful and triggering. We deal with this every year. But now we have the added pressure of a raging pandemic added to the mix. We have the sensitivities and aftermath of a close and tumultuous election. We have the flavor of what 2020 has been hanging ...
Views: 682 - Divorced and still angry? Here's that to do. - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2020 from Martha BodyfeltHey, so does this ever happen to you? It may have been months since your divorce ended, and you thought you were doing okay. You were picking yourself up financially, making your home your own, and trying some new activities and were feeling pretty good about yourself. But then it ...
Views: 897 - Drama and pain in uncertainty - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2020 from Emma ViglucciWith only two months left to 2020, still pending election results, a ranging pandemic and looming holidays, life can feel pretty stressful right about now. Our plates are full as usual and then some. We are still trying to recoup the year, weather this pandemic, and get stronger footing in our ...
Views: 605 - See How Synchronicity Can Signal The Next Chapters of Adventure You Seek With Others - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2020 from Kare AndersonCoincidences are often signs of synchronicity, yet they aren’t as obvious as some you may see, unless you are looking for patterns. Then you can notice what you are choosing to notice. Ironically I discovered Daniel Johnson’s article online about meaningful coincidences by accident because ...
Views: 714(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I had never questioned him about other ladies - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a couple of years into my relationship with many problems. I met my guy online ...
Views: 618(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I don't want to keep making the same mistakes - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a 51 year old divorced Mom who recently began seeing someone. I like him and want to pursue this relationship, but I don't ...
Views: 581(1 vote) - Renamed the UEFA Cup to Trial Goal-Line officials - by Next season's UEFA Europa League matches will be the first to try out a new 'five official' plan with two additional assistant referees, one behind each goal.
The proposed system, already tested at below-19 level, involves the use of the extra officials to assist referees with decisions such ...
Views: 154 - Why Kindness Can Open Hearts and Unexpected Opportunities - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2020 from Kare AndersonSunny Summer is past. The upcoming holidays are times of great loving and loneliness and we often don’t know who is experiencing which. For many it is a bit of both. For us all this can be a prime time for kindness, sometimes simply by sharing what we have. And kindness is often unspoken. ...
Views: 711 - Work from Home and Get Well Paid - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomPlease only come to us about this job if you are seriously interested and are able to give us at least ten hours each week... there is no expense to you and you do not need any relevant work experience but you do need to be kind and caring. Due to the virus becoming so devastating and ...
Views: 736 - Don't be afraid to piss people off. - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2020 from Martha BodyfeltWant to feel more confident? Then don't be afraid to piss people off. Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends. In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words... Don’t be afraid to piss people off. Strong women ...
Views: 818 - Is it easy to rent movies online? - by You may have never tried to rent movies online because you may think it is difficult or complicated. This can be especially true if you are not comfortable with computers. But it is very easy to rent movies online.
How do you rent movies online? You first have to sign up for an online rental ...
Views: 164 - Get back your connection and intimacy - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2020 from Emma ViglucciCouples that are experiencing a low in their relationship usually refer to it as having communication issues and not getting along. They bicker and fight, fights escalate and then there is shutdown, they don’t see eye-to-eye and can’t seem to get on the same page, they struggle to get their ...
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