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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dear Dr. Romance: I am a Native American woman who has been abused and betrayed - by Submitted on Oct 30, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a native American woman who has been abused and betrayed by my husband. He was my coresearcher and advisor for several ...
Views: 1155(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: She is verbally abusive to me - by Submitted on Oct 30, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a retired police officer who found his wife sneaking around with another man 3 years ago. We have 3 kids. I cook and clean and up ...
Views: 1237(1 vote) - 3 Best Ways to Enhance your Boring Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2020 from Rea SetiaRelationships are complex. One day you’re feeling all drenched in love while other days you start questioning your relationship. All new relationships are fun and exciting in the beginning. But with the advent of time, they can often seem dull and boring. In such a scenario, it is important ...
Views: 497 - Get along, get on the same page, get things done - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2020 from Emma ViglucciUnfortunately, the feeling of being stuck and feeling hopeless in one’s relationship is not uncommon. Many partner’s feel they are not compatible, they don’t enjoy each other’s company, and can’t see a future together… A sad state of affairs. Partners get to this point because they get ...
Views: 722 - Mature relationship vs. immature one - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2020 from saad qaziRelationships are termed mature or immature. Either they love or they don’t. They fall prey to your beautiful eyes or they don’t. They love you or they don’t. There is no grey area. Immature Love can be turned into a mature one. There are some indicators that distinguish the real deal from the ...
Views: 633 - Life is full of fake friends and fake people, here is 20 sign that will help you to identify them - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2020 from EVERYDAY READPhoto by Chang Duong on Unsplash[/caption] Can't Deny...!! Our life is full of fake friends and fake people who seem to our best caretaker but in reality, they are only for fulfilling their purpose. We are so social. We want and need to have people around us for our life, for our culture, ...
Views: 804 - Webcam nowadays - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2020 from Ikhraaf QaiserSome years ago, it would be incredulous to think that you could watch ‘models’ perform to your pleasure or a group of people over a webcam. Now, different webcam sites have platforms where most models can create a personal profile or a broadcast channel to entertain their audience by stripping, ...
Views: 844 - 6 things to consider when buying a new computer - by Is your computer very old?
Is it too slow, or is your memory full, that you are considering buying a new computer?
Before you go to the computer store, let me show you 6 things to consider when buying a new computer.
1. Computer brand: When you buy a new computer, the first thing that ...
Views: 172 - 5 Signs You Are In An Abusive Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2020 from Dr. Anne Brown1. Physical Abuse In theory, in this country, no one can touch you as adults in any way (physically or sexually) without your permission. At the horrendous end of the spectrum of physical abuse are the stories we hear about the beating, burning, rape, mutilation, sex slaves, etc. and at the ...
Views: 1206 - Gear up for the game with NFL Sportswear and Jerseys - by With football fans gathering around the weekend's highlights, sharing Fantasy Football news and getting ready for Monday night games, now's the perfect time to take a look at your equipment. Whether you're looking for cold weather clothing to look your best for the games, tail threads to sport ...
Views: 182 - Embrace the art of self-care for increased self-regulation and resilience - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2020 from Emma ViglucciIt’s amazing how often I hear that people don’t have the time to do self-care… When their lives literally depend on it… I’m not sure if they look at self-care as a luxury – like having a spa day or laying on a chaise eating bonbons – that they shouldn’t have? But really, in this day and age to ...
Views: 670(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Throughout the years, there has been financial infidelity - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband and I have been married for over thirty years. Our children are ...
Views: 621(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I have never met him and he lives in another country - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I stumbled upon your article ...
Views: 677(1 vote) - Relationships: Can Childhood Trauma Cause Someone To Lose Themselves In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone is in a relationship, the ideal will be for them to be in touch with who they are and to express their true-self. By being this way, being close to another person will have changed them, but it won’t have caused them to abandon themselves. Therefore, when they are around the ...
Views: 564 - How to avoid becoming servants… and the mystery of lost socks. - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2020 from Valeria TariAs women, we may often think, that by completing all the chores at home, we are embodying the essence of femininity, and in spite of all the running around, we receive no appreciation, and still lack happiness. The answer is very simple. A positive opinion of a woman does not correlate to ...
Views: 760 - What is not feminism- shaadee.pk perspective? - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2020 from saad qaziIt was seen on the roads across Pakistan that thought provoking rallies came out to support women rights, restorative justice, and economic justice, against harassment, in the favor of favorable work laws, implementation of labor laws, security for the housewife, recognition of women’s ...
Views: 592 - What To Do When You Can't Be With Grieving Loved Ones Or Friends - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2020 from Marina PalWe all know that death is inevitable. But once it arrives and takes away a person you love, only then you’ll realize how devastating it is to know you won’t be able to spend the rest of your days with that person again. But what if it is a loved one or a friend within your circle who ...
Views: 455 - How to Kick Out Toxic People from Your Life? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2020 from Jaclyn TengA happy and stable life is a combination of a lot of things. It means that you have to take care of more than one thing in your life to make sure that you have stable mental health and happy life at the same time. We all know that life can be unfair to us sometimes, but we try to tell ourselves ...
Views: 786(1 vote) - Thailand travel: best things to do in Bangkok - by When in Bangkok, make sure you don't miss out on these Bangkok highlights:
The National Museum is on Na Phra That Road, a short walk from Khao San Road.
The National Gallery is located opposite the National Museum on Chao Fah Road, a short walk from Khao San Road and displays classic and ...
Views: 219 - Saying sorry is killing you. - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2020 from Martha BodyfeltWant to feel better? Then quit apologizing! Ever been in a situation like this before? You don’t pick up the phone in time and when you call the person back, the first words out of your mouth are “I’m sorry.” You bring store-bought cupcakes to your friend’s party and you utter “I’m ...
Views: 884 - Adopt a relationship enrichment mindset and lifestyle - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2020 from Emma ViglucciDo you often feel you are alone and unsupported - that your partner is out to lunch, or they are prissy about getting their hands dirty…? Do you feel you have to take care of everything, or things don’t get done? Do you bicker over everything and the silliest things can spark a massive fight? Do ...
Views: 624 - Intimacy: Can It Take A Relationship For Someone To Realise They Are Emotionally Disconnected? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow that someone is in a relationship, it could be crystal clear that it is hard for them to connect to how they feel. Up until this point, it might not have even occurred to them that this was the case. Or, if they were aware that this was a challenge for them, it might not have stood out in ...
Views: 549 - 4 Reasons Why Young Men Prefer Mature Women - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2020 from Candy ButlerMany people think that most young men like young girls, but the fact IS often contrary to imagination. In fact, most young men like mature women. Why? 1. The charming appearance of mature women With the development of society, science and technology has brought great changes to life. Many ...
Views: 642 - Dear Dr. Romance: Perhaps we should have ended it sooner - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm currently going through a divorce after more than twenty years of ...
Views: 635(1 vote) - Master your mind, master your day… - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2020 from Emma ViglucciWhat is the key to an awesome day? Yes, we can say that all kinds of good things happening to us would make the day awesome. But I dare challenge that notion as we don’t want to be at the mercy of good things happening randomly to us for us to have an awesome day. When good things happen, let’s ...
Views: 652 - What to Do After Being Falsely Accused of a Sexual Assault - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2020 from Kalyna KapurThere are several crimes in this world for which each day innocent people are charged with. If for some cases, misjudged or suspects are let go, many wrongful accusations and charges end up getting administered in the system. There is a difference between being targeted as a suspect due to the ...
Views: 617(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: What is the right love to last a lifetime? - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am writing this letter to you because I really want to know what is the right love to last a lifetime? I am frustrated right now. ...
Views: 590(1 vote) - How can I make my wife happy? - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Dada BhagwanWe all have heard the saying “Happy Wife, Happy Life”. Marriage is wonderful, but it takes work. When the wife continuously experiences respect, that’s when one is considered to have learnt to become a perfect husband. There will be some rough patches along the way, and there will be days when ...
Views: 493 - 5 Phone Habits That Are Ruining Your Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2020 from Carren DarioIn the modern era of digitalization, the smartphone plays a very crucial role in every aspect of life. The smartphone makes our life easy but do you know? There are also some destructive effects of smartphones. You may or may not be aware of these destructive effects of your phone habits. ...
Views: 568 - Do You Need Self Improvement if You Want to Have a Healthy Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2020 from Kalyna KapurWhen it comes to love and relationships, things are never as simple as we want them to be. Both you and your partner end up having expectations with each other. Having expectations is not a bad thing, but when they are not communicated to your partner, and you keep building them up at your end, ...
Views: 481(1 vote) - Relation problem solution - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2020 from VEDICA ASTROLOGERSIn the Vashikaran process there are several reasons of performing procedure: 1. Vashikaran method is generally practiced to win love and control all activities of lover/beloved. 2. It is equally effective in enhancing the compatibility between husband and wife. 3. The practice of Vashikaran ...
Views: 549 - Dr. Romance: Reluctant to Marry Again - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2020 from Tina TessinaWhen a relationship that probably began in hope and joy has ended in failure, grief and pain, It's very understandable to be concerned about repeating an action that was so hurtful. Here are some Happiness Tips for recovering from divorce. Dr. Romance’s 3 tips for letting go of the ...
Views: 673(1 vote) - What do you know about England? - by If you, like me, did not grow up in this country, then you know about England what most people around the world share: not much. Everyone knows Queen Elizabeth and her gossipy family, the beetles, Sherlock Holmes and the amazing stories of Charles Dickens.
After many years of studying this ...
Views: 189 - Eight Apparent Signs that you are in a Toxic Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2020 from Kalyna KapurIt is a matter of fact that when you are in a healthy relationship, you bloom and grow in your own way. A healthy relationship is built with love, trust, and compromise. Everything seems to work out when you are in a healthy relationship. You share every detail, cover your partner’s weak points, ...
Views: 504(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: twice I have been let down by this man I so love - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance:My partner whom I have been in a relationship with for the past year has changed and let me down twice. We were first friends for several years & became a couple for the last year. We both fell in love instantly and desire to live together to build towards a good ...
Views: 697(1 vote) - The secret to cultivating resilience - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from Emma ViglucciAs we are transitioning into Back2School and the Busy Season, we are to step up our game to keep up with the faster pace, fuller schedules, and additional demands. And, as we are trying to rescue what’s left of 2020... Yet, we are going into the season already exhausted, depleted, and burnt out. ...
Views: 704 - 9 things to Do to Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from Jaclyn TengWhether you have been married to someone for ten years or have been dating them for the last few weeks, your relationship will go through rough patches at different times. Keep in mind, a good relationship is built with respect, love, and is based on mutual understanding. So if you want your ...
Views: 790(1 vote) - Want to feel more confident? Don't be afraid to piss people off. - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from Martha BodyfeltThis is the #1 thing you must do to stick up for yourself. Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends. In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words... Don’t be afraid to piss people off. Strong women will end up ...
Views: 784 - +91-8968620218 How to get back your girlfriend from another guy - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2020 from Rohit SharmaWhat do you do if you want your ex girlfriend back, but she has a new boyfriend and she hates you? If you've ever lost your ex-girlfriend to another guy, even if it seems impossible, it can be like a heartbeat. Just thinking about her with the other guy can tear you apart from top to bottom. But ...
Views: 643 - How can one get rid of emotional attachments? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2020 from Dada BhagwanHumans are emotional beings. We often use our emotions, in conjunction with our intellect, to make sense of the world around us. From choosing our friends to deciding what to do over the weekend, we exercise the option which makes us feel happy, excited, valued or cared for. But there are ...
Views: 516 - Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2020 from Dave ShieldsAre you and your spouse not seeing eye to eye on much anymore? Find out in this guide whether it's time for marriage therapy and get that spark back. Staying in a long-term, committed relationship is one of the most difficult things human beings demand of themselves. When you live ...
Views: 2235 - Our First Threesome In New York - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2020 from Morgan ShellMy wife and I recently went to New York for a long romantic weekend break and we stayed in a very plush hotel which my wife loved. To say that she was delighted with my choice of hotel would be an understatement. So that night when we unpacked our cases and sat on our huge kings size bed ...
Views: 839 - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: 11 Things Married Women Want - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2020 from Tina TessinaFor you men who ask, "What Do Women Want?" Here are Dr. Romance's 10 Things Married Women Want: Women value intimacy, safety for themselves and their children, and emotional connection. Therefore, they long for the following qualities in a man: 1. Good Judgment Good ...
Views: 696(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: At first I was hurt, but now I'm irritated. - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I do not like my job, I have two more classes before I complete my masters in HR to move to a better position and recently passed the PHR certification. I was talking with my boyfriend about the environment at the company and how they are always threatening to fire people as ...
Views: 619(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am allowing my narcissistic ex to run circles around me - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I am mindful that I am allowing my soon to be controlling, narcissist ex (civil law attorney) to run circles around me, just as we did when we were married. After attending a divorce group session at my local church, they recommend that I set up some specific boundaries and ...
Views: 684(1 vote) - Struggling right now? How to let go of unmet expectations - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2020 from Martha BodyfeltSo I’ve been hearing this one thing a lot from readers and clients of mine who are trying to move the hell on... “It wasn’t supposed to be like this.” “We were supposed to grow old together.” “I was supposed to retire in a few years, but now I have to go back to work because of the ...
Views: 849 - Five Forces That Hinder or Enhance Togetherness: Part 6 - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2020 from Ronald Ross"NO TRESPASSING.” Secreting of the true self: Fear, sin, low self-esteem, insecurities, etc. cause us to hide/protect our true self. My college roommate (who was raised by a single mom) and I shared many secrets. We were so close that we were the "Best Man" at each other's wedding. One day ...
Views: 750 - What is the reason of quarrels between husband and wife? - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2020 from Dada BhagwanFights between husband and wife happen due to ignorance and as a result of their past karmas. In today’s world, the majority of couples have daily fights for years together. This is mainly because of their past karmas. In their previous life, they may have made highly negative intentions ...
Views: 658 - Five Forces That Hinder or Enhance Togetherness: Part 5 - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2020 from Ronald Ross“Everyone in your family is a _________.” Cultural/social differences “Ron, would you like to knock me up?” a rather shy single female British schoolteacher asked me one afternoon. I was puzzled by her request but sat quietly for a few moments until I figured out what she meant, and it wasn’t ...
Views: 917 - How To Build A Long-lasting Relationship? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2020 from Eva LongersA long-lasting relationship is a healthy relationship. A healthy relationship brings joy to everyone around them. Stable relationships are beautiful, strong houses, which take time to build. It requires specific materials to come together brilliantly. So many people want a long-lasting ...
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