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Some half-million people live in the balmy Mexican city of Tuxtla Gutierrez, and tonight it looks like every one of them has shown up at a downtown square known as Marimba Park. Surrounded by dancers, musicians are beating out hip-shaking salsas, merengues and socas on the wooden slats of their ... Views: 2279
What I have discovered along my Spiritual journey is that it is only when I am consciously Connected and Aligned with the vibration of the Universal Energy first that the manifestation of everything I need occurs beyond my wildest dreams. This Alignment is the Key in the Law of ... Views: 3348
Written By: Lew Hamburger
It was Cherry Blossom time in Washington. I was on the phone in my office a few blocks from the White House when a secretary came bursting through doorway.
“Lew, the painters are fighting in the hall. Do something.”
I’m about 5’4’ and weigh about 145. “Do ... Views: 2337
We have worked hard all our lives, and now our retirements are threatened. Our investments are not what they should be, our job situations are shakier, our kids might be unemployed and need financial help. So what do we do? Work harder. Work longer. Worry more. Beat up on ourselves with ... Views: 1991
A mom called me saying she just wasn’t prepared for this empty nest. She read so many baby and teen books but nothing would help this sorrow she was feeling as an empty nester.
Change is vulnerable. Change doesn’t mean, even if you read and prepare, that you won’t have days of inertia and ... Views: 2449
A.T. "Al" Benelli, CFP, FIC
Recently our government released figures showing that the Gross Domestic Product (GDP) of our nation rose by 3.5 percent — the first increase in five calendar quarters.
The Dow Industrial average rose 200 points as various pundits declared the end of the worst ... Views: 1737
Written By: Lynn Wiese Sneyd
I was sitting on the plane, heading back to Milwaukee from Albuquerque. My husband and I had been contemplating a move to the southwest for some time and we had finally decided to take a trip to New Mexico to check it the lay of the land. Though we eventually ... Views: 1867
Written by: Janie Knetzer
When it comes to your dog’s health the best place to start is with what you place inside his bowl. If your dog is plagued by allergies and chronic ear problems, anal sac issues, itchy skin and red paws; it’s time to take a look at what’s not working for your dog. ... Views: 3340
written by Kathi Casey, ERYT, CPI
Ahh, Spring! Do April showers really bring May flowers? This Baby Boomer hopes so!
It’s that time of year again when we begin to see our daffodils and tulips, and that makes us want to open the windows and let the fresh clean air in and the stale winter ... Views: 2102
Today, I want to talk to you about the Medicare Hospice benefit. Now, I know that many of you reading this aren’t quite of Medicare age, but most insurances follow Medicare’s guidelines, so they are applicable in most cases.
Requirement number one; a physician, in his or her clinical ... Views: 2655
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***“Type R” Personality - by Submitted by Boomer-Living.com, the Official Guide to Baby Boomers
written by Michael W. Hinkle
As a newcomer to Boomer Living’s family of contributors, let me lay out my purpose in writing this column. My aim is to promote the spread of the “Type R” personality. The stage for this endeavor was set in April, 2005 when I retired after a twenty-five-year ... Views: 5279
You can meet the spectacular, special man who is going to be your life partner using online dating. I met the love of my life on www.match.com, so of course I recommend it to all my friends, coaching clients, in my workshops…really to anyone who will listen!
Here are three things I recommend ... Views: 2590
How many people do you know who have a daily spiritual practice; one that they’ve been doing for many years? Most of us are aware of devotional practices, but how many of us actually put any devotion into practical application? Counting myself, I might know of four or five people who have some ... Views: 1522
Do you believe you are financially comfortable? Possibly more than comfortable?
You were able to work less or not work at all while you raised families or cared for an aging parent.
That was then, this is now. This is the New Environment. You may not realize it but 78% of the job lay offs ... Views: 1543
What exactly does this mean: aging gracefully? Max Erhmann writes in his famous poem, Desiderata: Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
The definition of counsel in this quote means: “private, guarded thoughts or opinions.”
And take kindly, I ... Views: 2273
Baby Boomers have a lot of changes to contend with. There are some pretty major events, especially turning 50 and then the big 60. Plus many are coming up for retirement before too long, but one major event in a family is coming to terms with an empty nest.
Even if you have sometimes wished ... Views: 1329
Active Living is about how we choose to ‘live’ our lives every day. It includes all the movements that we create, for accomplishing tasks for ourselves & others in our family, our work, recreation, plus everything that we “perform” for making “living” the content of our daily life.
We live ... Views: 1288
Answering the $1 Million Question: Is He In To You?
At least half of all the emails I get from wonderful women who are over 40 and looking for love are about the same question you’ve probably been asking since you were a teenager: “Is he in to me?”
Often the answer is: If you have to ask, ... Views: 2032
If you're going to be a successful dater (which means you have fun and meet good men), an essential tool is the ability to empathize with the men you meet. Empathy is not feeling sorry for someone. It's being able to put yourself in their shoes and understand their experience.
I believe that ... Views: 2830
Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment.
If you're going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ... Views: 2404
Newsflash: Women constantly push really good guys right out of their lives without even knowing it. We do it by behaving in ways that, until pointed out by someone else, are a complete mystery.
Finally having this pointed out to me in my early 40s was a huge part of my transition from a ... Views: 2727
This week I spoke with my client, “Sue,” who recently entered the online dating world. Right off the bat she had scoped out a profile she really liked and emailed him. He seemed interested, attentive and pretty fabulous on paper. The next thing you know…she has a date!
When they met in real ... Views: 3207
If so, you are certainly not alone. Also, women are more apt to extend this date then men. Women earning $75,000.00 or more have a six out of ten chance of delaying retirement.
Those are high numbers and now there is even a term for this. If you are one of the six, you are part of the ... Views: 1433
The answer is probably a resounding “No.” Or maybe you’re not even sure what that Crucial Conversation is.
This conversation is about how you are going to live the rest of your lives together as a couple. On one hand, this may sound pretty simple but when you really dig in and start talking, ... Views: 1460
Has your work ever interfered with your ‘other life?’ That ‘real’ life that does not include work, even if it’s work you love? What I mean is true leisure. Not thinking about, planning about or doing anything even close to work.
I am talking especially for those of you entrepreneurial types. ... Views: 1614
The term boomerang kid emerged during the tough economic cycle that forced grown children back in with their parents. The boomerang, an instrument used by aboriginal people in Australia is thrown in the air only to return back to the sender.
While grown children returning home can be a ... Views: 2575
Do you remember when you were a kid and your parents or anyone else that was at least 2 years older then you told you to “start acting your age?” Well guess what…they had it all wrong. It’s time to stop acting your age!
Act your age. What does it mean? Slowing down, getting ready to retire, ... Views: 1116
If anyone was going to succeed at retirement it is was Al. An accomplished artist, we first met at a Christmas party of a mutual friend. He was eagerly awaiting retirement as an administrator from a large California university. He was looking forward to entering a new career as an artist. ... Views: 2447
There comes a time when each one of us must admit that, no matter how hard we try, we can no longer do it all. That is especially important when it comes to the subject of caring for our elderly parents.
Let's consider a hypothetical situation of Carol who is divorced, her children and ... Views: 1255
What we experience in life can be viewed from many different viewpoints. Some of those viewpoints can be catabolic (destructive or negative), in their makeup. When you feel that you are a victim, lethargic, angry or stressed about a situation, you are experiencing catabolic energy. When your ... Views: 1262
I was having morning tea with friends and family on the weekend, and it was such a delight to catch up and be reminded of the love we share. As we sipped coffee in the sunshine at Nobby’s Beach
Sinking into the compassion of extending love while basking in the warmth of communion, the depth of ... Views: 1710
The March 2011 quote of “Motivation” that appears on the Absolute Transitions website is courtesy of the 3rd President of the United States, Thomas Jefferson. Jefferson was quoted as saying “In matters of style, swim with the current. In matters of principle, stand like a rock.” It isn’t ... Views: 958
Are you a Twitter follower? You'll see lots of Tweets about short term memory loss. Usually after a weekend partying, hitting the books for exams, going through a stressful relationship break up or just too much of everything!
Tweeters often joke about memory loss:
"Memory loss runs in my ... Views: 1529
Dating Advice for Women Over 40
It’s safe to say that when you’re over 40, the dating game changes significantly. You aren’t imagining it. In fact, the challenges of dating for women over 40 are so specific that getting good advice is critical to finding love with less heartache, pain, and ... Views: 6247
Do All Men Make You Mad? (FemiType #5: The Bitter Woman)
In an effort to help you understand the man side of this midlife dating experience, I’ve introduced you to The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat and The Wow-Me Woman: all FemiTypes* that send good men running.
Today I’m going ... Views: 2468
Why is it people believe they have to work until they are 65 before they can enter retirement? Why is it people have bought into this idea and wait sixty five years before they get out and live and do what they really want to do? Why do people think they can't retire young? Why do people think ... Views: 1440
One of the lessons that I had heard before, but which was reinforced with me over the last couple of weeks, is that sometimes you can easily overlook the resources available to you when they are immediately in front of you. That bit of wisdom came to light as I was marketing my most recent ... Views: 773
News Flash: We are facing a loss of predictability in a world with constant and accelerating change. I'm being just a bit sarcastic. These changes are not a news flash for any of us. It is a description of what we deal with every day. It would be difficult to live in the 21st century and not ... Views: 1281
Everyone knows you need it, especially if you are trying to build up your muscles, but what exactly is protein, how much do you need, and where is the best place to get it?
Well, each protein is a chain of amino acids that twists itself into a specific custom shape. Depending on the shape it ... Views: 1429
Giving Up the keys - Who Should Do the Talking?
(Part 2 of a 5 part series discussing the delicate issue of asking an elderly parent to retire from their driving career)
In our previous article “Talking Sex and Talking Driving” we discussed six possible reasons why emotions and ... Views: 1329
It is hard for anyone to watch someone that you love deteriorate from the Disease of Alzheimer's.
The once vivacious individual that you always knew is still there-somewhere. The problem is that it may only be for a fleeting moment at eventually not at all.
Is it hard for them as ... Views: 6248
Tai Chi-Qigong is practiced around the world by a wide variety of people and ages. Originating as one of the martial arts, Tai Chi and Qigong originated in China centuries ago. Its values include tranquility, harmony and reflection.
The practice of Tai Chi and Qigong helps relax the mind ... Views: 3569
We spend a large portion of our day in the sitting position; yet why is it so uncomfortable to sit all day? Unfortunately, the human body is not designed to remain permanently in one place. It is designed to constantly move, so any prolonged sitting is naturally going feel uncomfortable. To ... Views: 1390
I have a new best friend!
That would be my iPad2. Seriously.. IT IS!
Whoever said us "old" people cant' figure out technology? I am here to tell you, no matter your age, you can still learn!
My 81 year old father and my 70 something mother (you're welcome mom!) have learned to navigate ... Views: 1019
When I was twenty-two, I was befriended by a woman named Doris who was thirty years older than I was. Although Doris was then a fifty-two year old woman, she did not feel it was inappropriate to befriend me.
She did not operate with the social belief that she should choose her friends only ... Views: 3348
Have you ever had one of those days where you think, “I wish I knew how to do this, or I wish I would have gone there, or I wish I would have tried doing that?”
Whether it is something like rock climbing, or learning a language, or getting a degree, it is never too late to do it. If there is ... Views: 1761
Kava is a mild liquid intoxicant and a large element in Fijian culture. And it’s legal. This is the liquid drug or beverage of choice in most of Melanesia and Polynesia. Kava or kava-kava’s scientific name is (Piper methysticum) (Piper: Latin for 'pepper', methysticum: (Latinized) Greek for ... Views: 1940
Creative juice seems to be very when represented when it comes to lefties. Think Mozart, Beethoven, Michelangelo. So why does the lefty guitarist need a wee bit of help. What is their problem?
Some of the most creative people of all time were known to be left handed. Leonardo da Vinci, ... Views: 788
Once upon a time... not that very long ago, really, green was pretty much just a color - people just naturally paid more attention to money, not the environment, and "going green" meant changing you kitchen's color scheme. But no more: we're all trying to save money and be eco-friendly these ... Views: 983
I love being a baby boomer.
We grew up at a time where the birth of Rock and Roll came into our lives and maxi dresses, bell bottoms and “Huckapoo” shirts were the rage.
The word “computer” was not even a word in our vocabulary until early adult hood. But thank goodness for the internet ... Views: 1141