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- The Dynamics of Modern Marriages - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Sam VakninUntil recently, couples formed around promises of emotional exclusivity and sexual fidelity, uniqueness in each other’s mind and life, and (more common until the 1940s) virginity. Marriage was also a partnership: economic, or related to childrearing, or companionship. It was based on the ...
Views: 1754(1 vote) - "I am Terrified that S/he will Abandon Me! I will Do Anything to Avoid It!" - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Sam VakninClinging and smothering behaviours are the unsavoury consequences of a deep-set existential, almost mortal fear of abandonment and separation. For the codependent to maintain a long-term, healthy relationship, she must first confront her anxieties head on. This can be done via psychotherapy: the ...
Views: 2063(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I Believe He's a Good Man at Heart - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband left to be with a much younger women. The problem became obvious in our marriage three years ago. I thought It would be something we would surpass. I was confused and did not act until one Friday night he did not come home to sleep. He came back that Saturday ...
Views: 2007 - What Do I Do after My Wife Had an Affair? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Jacob Elichmann"My wife cheated on me; I'm struggling to cope with her affair and I can't get the images out of my mind! What do I do?" Do you feel nothing but rage when you imagine your wife breaching your love and trust with another man? Perhaps just knowing that your wife is cheating has left you in ...
Views: 9826 - Do You Need Signs of a Cheating Wife to Confirm Your Suspicions? - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannOne of the hardest things a husband like you will ever go through is learning about your wife's affair. If you find yourself suddenly picking up on signs of a cheating wife, then this article might be one of the most important things you ever read. "What signs my wife is cheating should I ...
Views: 10125 - Lost Trust in Your Partner? CORE Strategies Help You Regain It - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2012 from Daniela RoherLoss of trust in a love relationship can come about as a result of infidelity, a partner lying about money, one partner failing to be a loyal ally when needed, and many other ways. Regardless of the cause, when couples are faced with the dilemma of rebuilding trust after a betrayal, there are ...
Views: 1705(1 vote) - The Signs Of Unfaithfulness In The Marital Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2012 from Daryl CampbellOf course nobody wants to believe that unfaithfulness in the marital relationship will happen to them. This is something that usually happens to Hollywood stars, politicians and even acquaintances of yours but never you. But at this moment in time your own intuition is letting you know that ...
Views: 1675(1 vote) - Find Out If Your Mate Is Cheating By Keeping Track - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2012 from Daryl CampbellIs it really becoming more and more daunting to catch a spouse cheating? In many ways the response is yes. There are a number of avenues an unfaithful mate has at their disposal. One of them is not surprisingly the internet. You can easily communicate over the net and then set up a secret ...
Views: 1200 - Dr. Romance Video: Infidelity -- Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2012 from Tina TessinaIf video doesn't load, click here. Discovering your partner has been unfaithful is a shock. Your first instinct may be to run, but if you have a shared history, children and finances, you may wonder – should you stay or go? Dr. Romance shows you how to decide. When you get ...
Views: 2473(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I Give Up on His Love? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: We'd been really close and intimate. I thought we were going to be in a special relationship soon because he told me we were having something special. No matter how tired he was, he'd had his dinner with me. He got paranoid every time I threatened to stop ...
Views: 1927(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is He Cheating on Me? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Is he cheating on me? Or am I just being paranoid? Me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. A couple of weeks ago we broke up and then got back together after a week. When we broke up he kept texting me, asking “Are you happy?” and ...
Views: 1930 - Infidelity: Concrete Actions to Take - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Joe JamesA relationship or even a marriage can survive an infidelity from a cheating partner. However people need to realize that healing from unfaithfulness in a relationship is tough and excruciating work from both the cheating partner and the cheated person. Both parties must be fully committed to ...
Views: 1750 - The Top Five Reasons Spouses Cheat - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Daryl CampbellIt feels like you can't go a single day without hearing about some celebrity or politician mixed up in some sort of marital affair. They are fully aware that in this time of camera phones, twenty four hour news and the world wide web that they are watched more closely than ever before. That does ...
Views: 1563(1 vote) - Infidelity: Whose Fault Is It? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2012 from Lara StewartIf your lover has cheated, you are far from alone. Experts estimate that as many as one-third of people cheat on a significant other at some point in their lives. Infidelity can be devastating, and can leave you wondering: is there any way I could have prevented this? Who is to blame for ...
Views: 4612(1 vote) - Three Errors In Catching A Cheating Mate - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Daryl CampbellDiscovering cheating in marriage is not an easy thing especially when your wife or husband is doing whatever it takes to cover their activities. For example your instincts tell you to examine their laptop. Yet every time you make an effort to do that it is wiped completely clean or maybe ...
Views: 1207 - Surviving Infidelity and Moving Forward - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity is now possible. Infidelity is by far, according to statistics, the leading cause of divorce throughout the world. For those people in marriages, you will agree that it is very difficult, almost impossible to survive betrayal. It is for this very reason that most marriages ...
Views: 1937(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity: Baby Steps - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity is never easy, no matter how forgiving any couple may be. Adultery remains the worst offense that any spouse can commit against his partner, since it is a direct assault upon every single principle of the marriage union. In many cases, the offended spouse is so wounded that ...
Views: 2177(1 vote) - Coping With Infidelity: Some Ideas On What To Do - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity may be difficult, but it can be accomplished if you refrain from making common errors. Couples may fix the destruction caused by the extramarital relationship by following certain methods. This process may reinforce the bond between you and your partner, enhancing your ...
Views: 1513 - How to Affair-Proof Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Sharon RivkinAccording to statistics, 45 or 55 percent of married women and 50 to 60 percent of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship. An affair is one of the most difficult challenges a couple can face, and nothing destroys a marriage faster than marital ...
Views: 2252(3 votes) - Surviving Infidelity and Saving Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity is by far, according to statistics, the leading cause of divorce throughout the world. For those people in marriages, you will agree that it is very difficult, almost impossible to survive betrayal. Surviving infidelity is now possible. It is for this very reason that most marriages ...
Views: 1153 - Coping With Infidelity: Some Basic Steps to Take - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity can be a daunting task, but it can be done if you avoid the common mistakes. There are ways that couples can repair the damage caused by the affair. These methods can strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, improving your marriage in ways that might not have ...
Views: 1278 - The Wordallogic, "Hell No I Don't Want Them Back, But I Lost Myself When We Broke Up!" - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa WordHell No I Don’t Want them Back, but I Lost Myself When We Broke Up! by Aleasa M. Word *****ANY REPRINTS OR USAGE OF THIS ARTICLE MUST NOTE THE AUTHOR****** I remember going through a break up and talking about my situation over and over to my intimate circle of people (sorry I wore your ...
Views: 1493 - How to Avoid Being A Robot Salesperson - by Submitted on May 24, 2012 from Belinda SummersEven though salespeople tend to memorize scripts or read off of them, don't let your customers know that you are reading from a script. Instead, change the tone and the way you speak when you talk to your prospects for a higher chance of getting a sale. There are those salespeople who focus ...
Views: 1895 - Surviving an Affair: Some Thoughts - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Joe JamesThe shock and pain that accompanies surviving an affair is something that over half of all marriages experience. The betrayed party suffers exceptional feelings of worthlessness and rage, often choosing to abandon the marriage altogether. There are, however, many parties who decide to remain ...
Views: 1314 - Marriage Affairs: Definitions and Reasons - by Submitted on May 21, 2012 from Joe JamesMoney issues, health problems and misunderstandings about children are some of the common issues that arise in marriage affairs. If these problems are not well dealt with, they can see the union going down the drain. All the parties involved basically have to work towards this. There is ...
Views: 1169(1 vote) - Following The Marital Affair - Three Questions That Must Be Asked After An Extramarital Affair - by Submitted on May 21, 2012 from Daryl CampbellThere exist sadly lots of questions you will need to reply to after finding out your wife or husband was being unfaithful. Because of your mate's selfish actions your entire universe was rocked to the foundations. Through no fault of your own you are struggling with another person's garbage and ...
Views: 1360 - Is Cheating Your Sign to End Your Marriage? - by Submitted on May 16, 2012 from Martez LaytonThe golden rule in marriage is, "if you are ever caught cheating on your spouse the marriage is over." For years this was the same way I felt. Although married; for over 20 years, I remember those infamous words even from my days of dating. Since that time I have come to realize from personal ...
Views: 4182(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity: Basic Tips - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Joe JamesFor couples who have experienced spousal cheating firsthand, surviving infidelity can be one of the biggest challenges they'll ever face. The act of physically cheating on one's spouse is such a violation of every aspect of the marital bonds that many couples simply choose divorce rather than ...
Views: 1293 - Surviving Infidelity: Moving Forward - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity, which is one of the most painful betrayals imaginable, may seem like too much to ask when the affair is initially exposed. The trust that a person places in a spouse or partner, particularly after years of being together, is shattered beyond repair. Wronged spouses must ...
Views: 1271 - What Causes Infidelity In Marriage - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Deborah LindstromOur marriages are constantly being confronted with different challenges. Are we finding answers? Are the problems being curbed or rising? It would be difficult to actually answer this question without examining the state of lot's of marriages we have in our society. This issue would be addressed ...
Views: 1272 - Marriage Counselor - Dealing With Infidelit - by Submitted on May 09, 2012 from Deborah LindstromThe question of how important our marriages actually are has arisen lot's of times. A lot of people have observed that the society as a whole is a reflection of what is happening in the homes since the homes are small units that make up the society. What we can therefore deduce from this is that ...
Views: 1079(1 vote) - Building Your Marriage While Coping With Infidelity - by Submitted on May 09, 2012 from Deborah LindstromWhen we hear couples taking their wedding vows, there is generally the segment where they vow to be faithful. No one promises to be untrue in their marriage. Despite the vows, lot's of marriages continue to experience this challenge. When this occurs, a level of instability gets into the ...
Views: 1026(1 vote) - How to Cope with Depression - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDepression is one of the most awful things to get a handle on because you can be feeling dreadful yet to the outside World you look alright. You may have been feeling fine six months ago and now you are telling them that you wish you were dead, you are suicidal, you cannot get any enthusiasm to ...
Views: 1674(1 vote) - Girl Forum - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceThere is a brand new forum for girls which I would love to bring to your attention. Even if you are not a female and you are interested in relationships, adultery, infidelity, cheating, divorce, lust, love, relationships, breaking up, finding a mate and all that goes with it then you will enjoy ...
Views: 1792 - Paternity? Sibling? Grandparent? Avuncular? What Type Of DNA Test Is Right For You? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2012 from Maura LMany people have questions about their family tree and if they share a biological relationship with someone. Today, it is easier to find out than ever! More and more DNA testing is available at affordable prices so you can get the answers you're looking for. The question is.... who do you do the ...
Views: 1978 - Be Cautious With The Truth After An Affair - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Daryl CampbellReestablishing two way communication following infidelity is vital. There is no real marriage should the two of you are merely speaking with one another about family activities. Although this is definitely important it should not be the sole item keeping the spousal relationship together. A ...
Views: 1546 - How To Cope With Infidelity - Marriage Therapy - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Deborah LindstromWe live in a time that has been tagged the information age. Information has always been the difference between success and failure. Any subject on which you possess some information unknown to others would be one that you would standout. In your marriage, the right information equips you to ...
Views: 1121(1 vote) - Marriage Counselor - Taking Care Of Infidelity In Marriage - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Deborah LindstromI really find it worrying that some people think infidelity especially with men is one thing that cannot be helped. I know this is wrong. Being true to your partner is one thing all married folks owe themselves. This view of mine doesn't ignore the obvious increase in infidelity in ...
Views: 990(1 vote) - Infidelity:Possible Root Causes - by Submitted on May 02, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity often comes as a result simple problems that are often unattended to. Poor communication skills or repeated ignorance makes a spouse mad and easily tempted to cheat. This may eventually lead to a severe breakup or separation. The couple should equally work together to nurture their ...
Views: 1890 - Infidelity: How Partners Can Recover Together - by Submitted on May 02, 2012 from Joe JamesFinding out about an infidelity and deception by a love partner can be quite disheartening and a very painful experience. However, when one discovers about their partners unfaithfulness, they have two options, one is to leave the relationship and never look back or to seek help so as to be able ...
Views: 1133 - Does Romance Matter? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDoes romance matter? It tends to be considered to be old fashioned now to be interested in charm, dating, getting to know someone and to use courtesy and court a lover. Holding hands, sending flowers, sending love letters and many other things can be a sign of living this lifestyle. But are ...
Views: 2089 - Training in Counselling - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceTraining in counselling... Many take this up as a new career but others can be drawn to it simply because they wish to understand themselves and their loved ones and give them the right hep when needed. It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their ...
Views: 1435 - Coping With Infidelity: Some Basic Steps to Take - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity can be a daunting task, but it can be done if you avoid the common mistakes. There are ways that couples can repair the damage caused by the affair. These methods can strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, improving your marriage in ways that might not have ...
Views: 1314 - Rebuilding Trust - Part II - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2012 from Darlene LancerSatisfying relationships are built on a foundation of safety and trust that you won’t be hurt physically or emotionally. Whether you trust too little or too much is influenced by your past, but once trust is broken, your sense of safety is in jeopardy. You feel insecure and may begin to question ...
Views: 2504(2 votes) - Infidelity In Marriage - 7 Things To Avoid If You Wish To Get Through Infidelity - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2012 from Daryl CampbellIt took awhile yet in the end your spouse admitted that they were having an extramarital affair. The news hit you like a ton of bricks. You had no inkling that something was going on and to be honest that is exactly how it should be. You didn't tie the knot with this person so you could spend ...
Views: 1659 - Infidelity: Coping with The Relationship Crisis - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity can lead to the end of marriages, but dealing with such problems could prevent the marriage from crumbling apart. When the chemistry of love between two individuals comes to a standstill, there must have been progressive conditions that neither partner was willing to admit. Dealing ...
Views: 1070 - The Top Five Ways To Never Overcome Infidelity In The Marital Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2012 from Daryl CampbellJust about every marriage has its share of peaks and valleys yet few things are as devastating like learning that your husband or wife was having an extramarital affair. You simply cannot bring yourself to accept the fact that this person you loved and swore to share your life with would do ...
Views: 1166 - After an Affair: How Do You Rebound? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2012 from Joe JamesHow do you rebound after an affair? If one holds onto grudges, it is hard to look at your spouse the same way. Recovering from an affair can be devastating. If a husband or wife has neglected their spouse and the spouse then wants to look elsewhere for love, cheating is not the answer. It is ...
Views: 3144 - 4 Common Myths Pertaining To Infidelity In Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Daryl CampbellNobody really wants to discover the individual they vowed to love through good times and bad is having a marital affair. The news by itself is devastating enough yet in addition to that there is a task which has to be confronted so that you can get a handle on this traumatic situation and get ...
Views: 1457(1 vote) - How to break abusive relationship - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiI decided to write this article due to the high number of comments I get from my daily readers. Some of them have been saying things like “I am tired staying with him, he does not deserve my love, I need a breakup” etc. My inbox is almost full with things like that and I am already getting ...
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