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- Anger Management Course: The Many Benefits - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2012 from Joe JamesThere are many reasons a person may pursue an anger management course. He or she may be feeling overwhelmed at work or at home and subsequently begin lashing out at other individuals. A person may also simply feel that his or her rage is out of control and choose to seek professional ...
Views: 1700 - Family Therapist: Finding the Right One - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2012 from Joe JamesSome people may dread the idea of going to counseling, generally due to a variety of different reasons. Even so, there are those who know what a little outside help can provide, particularly when a household can't see eye-to-eye on certain thing or in general. Fortunately, many find that using a ...
Views: 1091 - Couple Counseling to Better Your Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2012 from Joe JamesIt happens a lot in relationships. You reach a point where you don't know how to solve problems to everyone's satisfaction and your discussions seem to make things worse. Situations like this can be helped immensely by going for couples counseling. There are many different types of counselors ...
Views: 949 - Anger Management Techniques You Should Know - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2012 from Joe JamesAnger is an emotion that people feel when some one has wronged them or a situation does not go as expected. This is a normal feeling, but becomes abnormal or bad when it causes people to do or say harmful things to others. When it comes to such a point that an individual finds he cannot control ...
Views: 2012 - Anger Management Class:Goals and Objectives - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2012 from Joe JamesAn anger management class is very effective for those who experience difficulty in controlling negative emotions. Parents, executives, teenagers and even elementary age children can benefit from learning how to deal with aggression and hostility in an effective manner. These classes can be taken ...
Views: 10827 - Anger Management Techniques for Women - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2012 from Joe JamesWomen can become a slave to their tempers if they do not deal with what is bothering them. Getting mad is a natural emotion all men and women experience, but handled in the wrong way could lead to many unhealthy habits. Learning a few anger management techniques will help you to lower your blood ...
Views: 2146 - How a Couples Therapist Helps - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2012 from Joe JamesA couples therapist helps people who have decided to live together indefinitely, although they may not be formally married. The fact that there is no legal contract between them can shift the emphasis in psychological issues. With legal restraints removed moral and personal issues take on a ...
Views: 1035 - Marriage Counseling: A General Guide - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2012 from Joe JamesMany couples in today's world choose to have marriage counseling. This is very popular with both, couples who have been married a long time, and newlyweds as well. Not everybody realizes that they have to work at their relationship to make it work and struggle with certain aspects. This is why ...
Views: 1310 - Anger Management Class: Sorting Out Your Options - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Joe JamesPeople who are not able to effectively control their rage would do well to look into enrolling in an anger management class. Uncontrolled anger damages families, destroys relationships, and causes many far-reaching issues. Understanding what goes on these kinds of conditions is the first stage ...
Views: 1734 - Infidelity: Concrete Actions to Take - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2012 from Joe JamesA relationship or even a marriage can survive an infidelity from a cheating partner. However people need to realize that healing from unfaithfulness in a relationship is tough and excruciating work from both the cheating partner and the cheated person. Both parties must be fully committed to ...
Views: 1723 - Anger Management Techniques and Skills - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2012 from Joe JamesAnger is usually one of the most common and destructive disillusions. This usually inflicts on people minds on a daily basis. To control it, one needs to recognize its side effects to them and other people around them and learn to appreciate the advantages of being patient during difficult ...
Views: 1605 - Anger Management Class: Sorting Out Your Options - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2012 from Joe JamesPeople who are not able to effectively control their rage would do well to look into enrolling in an anger management class. Uncontrolled anger damages families, destroys relationships, and causes many far-reaching issues. Understanding what goes on these kinds of conditions is the first stage ...
Views: 1650 - Marriage Affair: Common Problems You May Face - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2012 from Joe JamesA marriage affair breaks the commitment made by both partners. There is nothing heartbreaking than finding out that the one you love is actually having extra pleasure outside your union. Extramarital issues include those activities like extramarital sex, infidelity and adultery. Adultery ...
Views: 1180(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity and Moving Forward - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity is now possible. Infidelity is by far, according to statistics, the leading cause of divorce throughout the world. For those people in marriages, you will agree that it is very difficult, almost impossible to survive betrayal. It is for this very reason that most marriages ...
Views: 1914(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity: Baby Steps - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity is never easy, no matter how forgiving any couple may be. Adultery remains the worst offense that any spouse can commit against his partner, since it is a direct assault upon every single principle of the marriage union. In many cases, the offended spouse is so wounded that ...
Views: 2147(1 vote) - Coping With Infidelity: Some Ideas On What To Do - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity may be difficult, but it can be accomplished if you refrain from making common errors. Couples may fix the destruction caused by the extramarital relationship by following certain methods. This process may reinforce the bond between you and your partner, enhancing your ...
Views: 1490 - Surviving Infidelity and Saving Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity is by far, according to statistics, the leading cause of divorce throughout the world. For those people in marriages, you will agree that it is very difficult, almost impossible to survive betrayal. Surviving infidelity is now possible. It is for this very reason that most marriages ...
Views: 1128 - Coping With Infidelity: Some Basic Steps to Take - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity can be a daunting task, but it can be done if you avoid the common mistakes. There are ways that couples can repair the damage caused by the affair. These methods can strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, improving your marriage in ways that might not have ...
Views: 1254 - Surviving an Affair: Some Thoughts - by Submitted on May 22, 2012 from Joe JamesThe shock and pain that accompanies surviving an affair is something that over half of all marriages experience. The betrayed party suffers exceptional feelings of worthlessness and rage, often choosing to abandon the marriage altogether. There are, however, many parties who decide to remain ...
Views: 1297 - Marriage Affairs: Definitions and Reasons - by Submitted on May 21, 2012 from Joe JamesMoney issues, health problems and misunderstandings about children are some of the common issues that arise in marriage affairs. If these problems are not well dealt with, they can see the union going down the drain. All the parties involved basically have to work towards this. There is ...
Views: 1146(1 vote) - Infidelity Advice for Those Considering Cheating - by Submitted on May 15, 2012 from Joe JamesMy best piece of infidelity advice is to not do it. Infidelity is something that can happen to anyone. The life gets hard, the years are passing by and people sometimes need to see if they are still desirable and wanted. There are many reasons for it, or so called reasons, in most cases, but in ...
Views: 1002 - Surviving Infidelity: Basic Tips - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Joe JamesFor couples who have experienced spousal cheating firsthand, surviving infidelity can be one of the biggest challenges they'll ever face. The act of physically cheating on one's spouse is such a violation of every aspect of the marital bonds that many couples simply choose divorce rather than ...
Views: 1272 - Surviving Infidelity: Moving Forward - by Submitted on May 10, 2012 from Joe JamesSurviving infidelity, which is one of the most painful betrayals imaginable, may seem like too much to ask when the affair is initially exposed. The trust that a person places in a spouse or partner, particularly after years of being together, is shattered beyond repair. Wronged spouses must ...
Views: 1245 - Infidelity:Possible Root Causes - by Submitted on May 02, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity often comes as a result simple problems that are often unattended to. Poor communication skills or repeated ignorance makes a spouse mad and easily tempted to cheat. This may eventually lead to a severe breakup or separation. The couple should equally work together to nurture their ...
Views: 1867 - Infidelity: How Partners Can Recover Together - by Submitted on May 02, 2012 from Joe JamesFinding out about an infidelity and deception by a love partner can be quite disheartening and a very painful experience. However, when one discovers about their partners unfaithfulness, they have two options, one is to leave the relationship and never look back or to seek help so as to be able ...
Views: 1113 - Anger Management Techniques: Slow Down and Think - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2012 from Joe JamesAnger management techniques are important in living peacefully in the society. This is because people have issues managing their rage and this leads to problems. Irritation is a very strong emotion that results as a result of displeasure in a certain issue. In most causes annoyance is caused by ...
Views: 1422 - Anger Management Class: Finding the Aid You Need - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2012 from Joe JamesFamilies and couples that relate together consistently have to deal with anger problems from time to time, which makes an anger management class a useful and important resource. The unity of a family can be destroyed when outbursts of temper are not properly managed. An anger management class ...
Views: 1550 - Coping With Infidelity: Some Basic Steps to Take - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2012 from Joe JamesCoping with infidelity can be a daunting task, but it can be done if you avoid the common mistakes. There are ways that couples can repair the damage caused by the affair. These methods can strengthen the bond between you and your spouse, improving your marriage in ways that might not have ...
Views: 1294 - Anger Management Techniques: An Individualized Approach - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from Joe JamesFor those that are trying to find different anger management techniques, the information presented in this article will help you out. People might feel angry over a variety of situations that come up in their life. Stress, lack of sleep, or an overwhelming amount of work may all result to ...
Views: 1109 - Infidelity: Coping with The Relationship Crisis - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from Joe JamesInfidelity can lead to the end of marriages, but dealing with such problems could prevent the marriage from crumbling apart. When the chemistry of love between two individuals comes to a standstill, there must have been progressive conditions that neither partner was willing to admit. Dealing ...
Views: 1052 - Anger Management Class: It Really Can Help With Your Anger Issues - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2012 from Joe JamesTaking an anger management class can help you resolve anger issues. Courses can help people deal with rage, frustration, domestic violence and passive aggressive behaviors. Whether you are attending classes because they are court ordered or you are attending voluntarily, the courses can help you ...
Views: 1111 - After an Affair: How Do You Rebound? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2012 from Joe JamesHow do you rebound after an affair? If one holds onto grudges, it is hard to look at your spouse the same way. Recovering from an affair can be devastating. If a husband or wife has neglected their spouse and the spouse then wants to look elsewhere for love, cheating is not the answer. It is ...
Views: 3115 - Anger Management Class for Court: All You Need to Know - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Joe JamesAn anger management class for court is really no different from one that you would take voluntarily. They would teach techniques to deal with stress and how to empathize as well as to improve communication. However the practitioner does have to be licensed and there must be a structured ...
Views: 1933 - Surviving Infidelity: Steps in the Right Direction - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2012 from Joe JamesTaking positive steps can be the key to surviving infidelity. After discovering their spouse has been cheating, many people will lose control of their emotions and increase the pain of the situation. A better solution would be to turn to those closest to them and not give up on life. There is no ...
Views: 1076 - After an Affair: Dealing with Grief - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2012 from Joe JamesLife after an affair can be heartbreaking even though its something that happens in many romantic relationships. The ramifications of the betrayal must be dealt with before a person can more forward in life. Learning how to rebuild a life after an affair takes patience, determination and a ...
Views: 2592 - Anger Management: How to Succeed - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2012 from Joe JamesHow does one succeed at anger management? It's important to recognize that angry feelings are common among all people. The way an individual handles an angry situation determines whether success in anger management has occurred. Though it can be difficult, there are several methods of handling ...
Views: 1159(1 vote) - After Infidelity: Love Can Endure - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2012 from Joe JamesAfter infidelity the pain can be excruciating, but it is not always so. A lady who owned a brothel had a married boyfriend whose wife did not mind him sleeping at the brothel. When customers called the lady sometimes left her boyfriend's bed, briefly hired out her body and then returned to her ...
Views: 1490 - Anger Management Techniques: Where to Learn Them - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Joe JamesThere are some of us who have a hard time controlling our temper and must learn additional anger management techniques so that we will not get ourselves in trouble. Many people have heard others say to count to ten when they need to calm down. Most people can do that successfully. Men sometimes ...
Views: 1100(1 vote) - Infidelity: What Does it Mean to You? - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Joe JamesA huge fear of many people in a relationship is the prospect of a partner's infidelity. We have all seen depictions of cheating, and the emotional upheaval it causes for the other partner, in movies, books, and magazines. Many of us have also weathered a spouse or significant other's infidelity, ...
Views: 1278 - Anger Management Class: It Does Make a Difference! - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2012 from Joe JamesAttending an anger management class can help you with emotional issues. These classes enable individuals to combat their tendency to reflect rage and to engage in violence towards others when they are triggered into acting out aggressively. These courses help people get a handle on aggression ...
Views: 1217(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity Means Taking Care of You First! - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2012 from Joe JamesThe first steps toward surviving infidelity are to not let the affair destroy or define you. When a person has been cheated on they can let their emotions get the better of them and make a bad situation worse. To avoid this, it would be smart of them to take comfort in others and not waste their ...
Views: 1156 - Anger Management Class: How to Find One - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Joe JamesPeople have many reasons to sign up for an anger management class. It could be that the individual wishes to change a problem that is causing conflict at work and home. Another common factor is legal issues that have led to a judge ordering the courses. Whatever the reason, a lot is gained by ...
Views: 1100(1 vote) - Infidelity: The Importance of Boundaries - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Joe JamesMany people who are in a relationship fear the potential for a partner's infidelity. All of us have seen cheating and the emotional wreckage caused by it portrayed in films, novels, music, and magazines. Many among us have also been subject to the infidelity of a significant other or spouse, or ...
Views: 1607 - Coping With Infidelity: Should I Stay or Should I Go? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from Joe JamesThere are several things people will do when they are coping with infidelity. Some are positive things while others are negative things. The positive methods that some people take come in the form of therapy or counseling. Negative methods might be drinking or a new addiction to drugs, gambling ...
Views: 1454 - Anger Management for Court: Important Facts to Know - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from Joe JamesThere is no difference between an anger management class for court and one you would voluntarily take. For it to be recognized the practitioner must have a license. A set curriculum must be followed and this would teach communication skills and anger management techniques and other things such ...
Views: 1532(1 vote) - Anger Management Class: Things to Consider Before Enrolling - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Joe JamesPeople tend to look for an anger management class for various reasons. Some may choose to do so in order to control their lives and relationships, so that they're more productive and healthy. Others may have to do so because of being issued a court order, often for receiving charges that relate ...
Views: 1038(1 vote) - Marriage and Infidelity - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2012 from Joe JamesMarriage & infidelity is a sentence that goes hand in hand. A lot of people are not interested in God any-more, apart from on their wedding day. However, if they gave God a chance they may find that their relationship lasts. Getting married doesn't count for anything nowadays. However, that ...
Views: 777(1 vote) - Surviving Infidelity: Common Causes and a Potential Cure - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2012 from Joe JamesWhen looking at current data it is evident that surviving infidelity within a relationship or marriage is diminished. The causes for this are because of feelings that run high in such occasions, for instance thoughts of frustration, regret, disloyalty, distress, remorse and sadness are very ...
Views: 826 - Anger Management Techniques: Some "Alternative" Approaches - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2012 from Joe JamesMeaningful anger management techniques are crucial for you to be healthy in body and mind.Bad habits are hard to break if one learns unhealthy behaviors from a family member growing up. Once a habit is learned it can be hard to let go of, but it can be done if one wants to. People have gotten ...
Views: 1312(1 vote) - Anger Management Class: Learn to Address Your Rage - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from Joe JamesWhen should you consider taking an anger management class? Well, as life gets more stressful, you might find it difficult to navigate through it without losing your temper. In extreme cases, you might actual hurt someone if you can't control your anger. Even if your behavior doesn't become that ...
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