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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Couples, How to Stop Verbal Abuse in its Tracks - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Geoff FarnsworthFrustration and anger can lead to mean-spirited, disrespectful communication. We sometimes reach the breaking point and say hurtful or belittling comments, often while raising our voice. For example, Sarah is watching TV with her husband Erik. A commercial for a fast food company comes on and ...
Views: 8727(2 votes) - Using the Law of Attraction to find True Love - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2019 from Leon EdwardIt is natural for everyone to want to find a special someone to share their life with. Everybody dreams of one day meeting their real soulmate – someone who shares their dreams and ideas and someone they feel totally happy and comfortable with. For ...Using the Law of Attraction to find True ...
Views: 8717(4 votes) - ***Self-Validation - How to Validate Yourself - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from Margaret PaulFrom the time we are born, we need validation. Loving parents offer consistent validation to their children, validating their feelings, their perceptions, their gifts and talents, their particular form of intelligence, their interests, their kindness, caring, and intuition. You are very ...
Views: 8716(4 votes) - ***5 Ways to Spice Up Your Valentine’s Day (with or without a partner) - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2016 from Valeria ChubaValentine’s Day is a holiday few of us like but most of us feel compelled to participate in. Many people I know, friends and clients alike, resent the commercialism of this holiday and its authoritative “celebrate or else” feel. It’s true that no one likes to be told to be romantic and ...
Views: 8706(3 votes) - Dreaming About a Special Person - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2011 from Christina SponiasDreams about love are very common. If you are in love with someone you will surely have many dreams about this person. The unconscious mind is very generous; it sends you all the information you need about the special person in your own dreams. This happens because the main function of the ...
Views: 8688 - How To Deal With A Break Up - 3 Ways - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangSo the relationship is over and you're wondering how to deal with a break up. Maybe it's the first break up you've had that really upset you. Or maybe it's not your first and you're looking for answers because even after all this time you still don't know how to deal with a break up. When a ...
Views: 8685(4 votes) - The 10 Universal Laws of Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2011 from Judy WidenerYou may have heard about the Law of Attraction, also known as Karma, one of the universal laws that govern the human experience. Here’s my take on the universal laws that govern relationships. The Master Law: Cause and Effect, or Flash Karma This law poignantly plays out in your ...
Views: 8685(5 votes) - Is He Dating other Women? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2008 from Renee Piane/CampanellaDear Renee (Love Mechanic), I met a man at one of your Rapid Social events and I wanted your advice. Is there any way to find out if he is been seeing or dating other women with our scaring him away? He calls me regularly and we date two nights a week and one weekend night. We have fooled ...
Views: 8675(1 vote) - Using Psychology To Make My Ex Boyfriend Desire Me Again - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversUsing Psychology To Make My Ex Boyfriend Desire Me Again; When your boyfriend broke up with you, a thousand things went through your mind. What did you do wrong? What made him stop feeling desire for you? There are so many questions, but you think there is no way to answer them. That's where you ...
Views: 8649 - What to Do If Your Ex Calls You During No Contact - by Submitted on May 12, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf you’ve been dumped, you probably know about the No Contact rule whether or not you’re trying to get back together with your ex. Basically all you do is you completely stop contacting your ex for one month. This gives you the time to heal and get your own emotions under control. But what ...
Views: 8630 - How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back If He Seems Distant? A Simple Way To Win Him Back! - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Charles UadialeHow a guy actually feels concerning you is hardly ever revealed from what he says. You may be feeling like your ex boyfriend is moving aimlessly farther and farther away from you emotionally? perhaps you have before now ended the relationship moreover you are speculating what you can execute to ...
Views: 8619 - Taurus Daily Horoscope- Taurus Personalities and Blood type Influence - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2011 from Amyas LucettaTaurus daily horoscope suggests that Taurus personalities are very patient, organized and thoughtful. A Taurus person with blood type A is often highly cautious and organized. They prefer to provide enough time and thought before jumping to a decision. Taurus people with blood type A are ...
Views: 8573 - ***Have an Amazing First Date: Success Tips and Strategies - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2016 from Valeria ChubaAre you currently dating, or about to start dating? Then you absolutely need to listen to this new episode of the Get Sex-Smart podcast. Dr. Valeria Chuba and sex coach Sarah Martin share expert tips and strategies on how to have a great first date. This includes: choosing the right location for ...
Views: 8569 - Five Ways to Deal with an Emotional Hangover - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2011 from Adele McDowellEver have one of those weeks when there is palpable, anger-inciting tension between you and a family member? Or you have had a crushing misunderstanding with one of your dearest friends? Or there is an incident at work that has had you mumbling obscenities under your breath and double-checking ...
Views: 8567(5 votes) - Making Your Ex Jealous - Guaranteed Method To Get Back Your Boyfriend - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2011 from John VickiMaking your ex jealous is one of the fastest ways to get the attention of your boyfriend after a break up. The best time to do this is immediately after you break up, when he is actually keeping tabs on you. You might think he has moved on to greener pastures and done with your relationship, ...
Views: 8562 - How OverFunctioning Could Be Ruining Your Relationship According to Rori Raye - by Submitted on May 08, 2011 from Sarah MichaelsA key aspect in the success of a relationship, according to Rori Raye, is the balance of the feminine and masculine energy. One way that we, as women, drive a relationship into imbalance is by overfunctioning within the relationship. Put very simply, overfunctioning is doing too much. Rori ...
Views: 8556(1 vote) - The 3 Best Ways to Stop Your Husband From Cheating and How to Keep Him in Love With You Forever - by Submitted on May 18, 2012 from Jack HutsonI bet a lot of you ladies out there worry whether you husband is cheating on you or not. I don't know if he is, but what I do know is how you can prevent it from happening and how you can become the ONLY woman he's interested in. I'm not going to lie to you and tell you some fairy tales about ...
Views: 8538(1 vote) - What Is an Emotional Affair, and What Does it Mean For Your Marriage? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2013 from Jacob ElichmannWhat is an emotional affair? To put it simply, it is an affair of the heart. An emotional affair is emotional affection without physical affection. It is when your wife enjoys talking to someone else, being around someone else and flirting with someone else more than she does with you. She is ...
Views: 8535(1 vote) - Overcoming The Fear of Committment - by Submitted on May 07, 2009 from Brenda Shoshanna"Most women ultimately want their relationships to lead to marriage. They feel they need a man to make a commitment in order to feel secure. This need can scare men away, making them feel like an object, as if they’re being used for a woman's security. No man wants to feel as if he's being used. ...
Views: 8473(1 vote) - Why Won't My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Take Me Back - Maybe You Are Making These Mistakes New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreWhy Won't My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Take Me Back - Maybe You Are Making These Mistakes New Ideas. Maybe you are sitting there confused about why your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend wont take you back. You have tried everything short of outright begging and nothing seems to be working - ...
Views: 8469(1 vote) - Top Eight Characteristics Of True Friends - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2010 from Sharon MikrutOver the years, I have observed people who are real friends and people who claim to be friends. As I get older, I truly believe the old saying that you can count your real friends on one hand. So, you may be asking what makes a person a real friend. I have identified my top eight characteristics ...
Views: 8466(6 votes) - Relationships: Why Are Some People Emotionally Unavailable? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has a relationship with another person, ideally, their body, heart and mind will be shared. This means there will be a physical connection, an emotional sharing and an intellectual exchange. But this doesn’t always take place and this means that one could have a relationship ...
Views: 8463 - 641 Will He Come Back If I Ignore Him? Win Back Your Ex With the No Contact Rule - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2015 from Patrick UadialeWill he come back if I ignore him? You've been wondering about this, haven't you? There's so much information about the no contact rule and how well it works when it comes to regaining a man's attention. You're skeptical though. You can't imagine cutting off all contact with a man you're so ...
Views: 8462 - How you can Win a Boyfriend Back After being dumped 5 Steps they are driving Him Crazy in love with You Again - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2012 from Michael LoisPerhaps you have just split up together with your boyfriend? You may not wish to discover how you can win a boyfriend back? Without a doubt, the very first factor you'll need is really a plan. It does not need to be a really complex plan but you will have to put some thought behind ...
Views: 8461(1 vote) - Psychological Tips to Get Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend to Reconcile with You - I Want My Ex Love - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreSaying “I want my ex boyfriend back” and “I want my ex girlfriend back” are mere statements. I heard someone say I want to reconcile with my ex, but I don’t know what to do. “I don’t know what to do”. Have you tried everything possible to reconcile with your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend? Is ...
Views: 8453 - Secrets to Getting Along with Cancer, Leo and Virgo - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2010 from Christofer FrenchAstroMagnetism As a student of Astrology since 1975, I have listened to all the party talk about this sign and that sign and what they seem to be like. Of course, most people are talking about their particular Cancer, their most beloved buddy - Leo, or their hated parent - Virgo. When you ...
Views: 8453(3 votes) - If Your Man Is Distant Read This - Relationship Advice for Women - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Sarah MichaelsThis woman is experiencing the pain of her man withdrawing from her, and wondering what she can do to turn her relationship around. Let’s read her story, and then I will explain what this woman can do as Rori Raye has taught us in Have the Relationship You Want…. I have been seeing this guy I ...
Views: 8451(2 votes) - ***"I Just Want to be Understood." - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2010 from Margaret Paul"Seek first to understand and then to be understood." - Stephen CoveyHow often have you heard yourself say:"I just want someone to understand me.""I just want to be heard.""I feel invisible.""I just want to be seen."I know what it feels like to ...
Views: 8437(1 vote) - The best way to Win A person Back Right after being dumped - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2011 from Michael LoisIt is extremely rare for your feelings to all of a sudden vanish simply because you're splitting up with someone. Sometimes within the warmth from the moment a split appears such as the logical factor to complete. It is just following the dust has settled and you have had time for you to believe ...
Views: 8428 - 10 Best Ways To Recover To An Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Michael LoisCertainly love is the basis of a relationship. If you lost your boyfriend or girlfriend and want her back, then note despair. Crying in any way you can bring back your ex. You need to follow some strategies. Here las10 best ways to win back an ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend. Tip # 1. Be ...
Views: 8400 - Proven Tactics to Get Your Ex Back: Reversing a Breakup Using Reverse Psychology - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2017 from Michael BradAll is fair in love and war. If you want to get your ex back in record time, you may have to resort to some sneaky and underhanded tactics. If you think life is too short to be waiting around for your ex to make up their mind, you can certainly help speed up the process a little with these 4 ...
Views: 8375 - My Ex Boyfriend Is Dating Another Girl – Here’s What You Can Do And Get Him Back - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMy Ex Boyfriend Is Dating Another Girl; You're out with your friends one night and you get the shock of your life. You spot your ex-boyfriend across the room - but he's not alone. Some woman is draped on his arm like a sports coat and he's clearly enjoying the attention. Breakups are difficult ...
Views: 8367 - Secrets Of How To Get A Guy To Call More: How To Make Him Call You Everyday - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeSecrets Of How To Get A Guy To Call More: How To Make Him Call You Everyday One area of relationships that always seems to confuse women is the problem of when and if to call men. This is something that virtually every woman has a strong opinion on. Some women believe that you need to wait a ...
Views: 8357 - How to Make a Woman Feel Like a Woman and Make a Big Impression on Her - by Submitted on May 29, 2012 from Don DiebelToday's women are complex, strong and independent. They juggle careers, family, and a personal life of their own. So, how do you play Casanova to the modern day woman? The fact that she attempts to be every woman is exactly why you need to make her feel like one. I don’t care if she is the ...
Views: 8356 - Provoked to React? How to Deal With Negative Provocation in Yourself and Others - by Submitted on May 16, 2013 from Paul Hannig"Provocative" can mean many different things to different people. What I'm going to address in this article are those people who use negative provocation as a neurotic defense against their own feelings of rejection and alienation. Let me start by saying that both of my parents were somewhat ...
Views: 8354 - Naughty Things to Do With Your Girl - Sizzling Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2009 from Mark TaylorBeing in a relationship is definitely something you should look forward to --- the feelings are just overwhelming that you'll be crazy not to succumb to the passions of love. Having someone special in your life contributes to your mental and emotional growth and it keeps you inspired and ...
Views: 8348(1 vote) - 5 Steps to Building a Strong Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2009 from Renee ShupeHave you ever invested your time and emotions to build a relationship, only to see that relationship destroyed in a matter of minutes? When it was all over, and the dust settled, did you find yourself wondering, "What happened?" Whether the relationship is in your business or personal life, ...
Views: 8326 - Our Words Define Us More Than Our Actions - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Greg BakerWe think that our actions define us more than our words. But the reality is exactly the opposite. Our actions are important, but our actions are psychologically used to verify the truth of our words and not the other way around. Be careful what you say. This article attempts to prove that your ...
Views: 8301(1 vote) - Will My Ex Boyfriend Ever Want Me Back? Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2010 from Charles UadialeWill my ex boyfriend ever want me back again? This is a familiar question with women who are still in love with their ex boyfriend. You've probably spent a lot of time wondering what caused the breakup. However, there's nothing you can do about the issue. You can only move on with your life. ...
Views: 8301 - How to use a male psychology to get your ex boyfriend back - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2013 from Franklin FashayaBefore you even attempt on how to use male psychology to get your ex boyfriend back, it is important to first understand the male psychology itself. For it is true you cannot use what you don’t know. The male psychology involves a way of thinking, the feelings felt and the emotions expressed. ...
Views: 8298 - OLD FASHIONED RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLES THAT WORK - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2012 from Sam OwenWind back 20-30 years. People lived together as family or housemates, rarely as lovers. Those who were in loving committed relationships often chose marriage as a way of consolidating their commitment to one another. Children were created as part of the growth of a marital relationship. ...
Views: 8295(1 vote) - How to Be Mysterious for Your Man - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2013 from Uadiale AmberWhen a woman meets a man, many have the first instinct to give away the whole farm. Women want to reveal their innermost secrets with men, but in order to keep his interest, especially in the beginning of a relationship; you’ll need to be mysterious. Mysteriousness doesn’t mean that you have to ...
Views: 8287 - Change Your Marriage From Being Roomates to Lovers - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2007 from Ellen Kreidman, Ph.D.Change Your Marriage From Being Roomates to Lovers A marriage that is filled with love, romance, communication and passion is possible when you learn to demonstrate and verbalize your love on a daily basis. Many couples lose sight of what they did in the beginning of the relationship which made ...
Views: 8278 - Should You Have Sex with Your Ex Boyfriend to Get Him Back In Your Life? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Charles WealthA frequently asked question by a lot of women who are desperate to get back together with their ex is “should you have sex with your ex boyfriend to get him back?” usually, after a split up emotions still lingers. At times, you may think that you can win back his love by having sex with him. It ...
Views: 8275 - Top Ten Mistakes Men Make With Women - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandFinding a mate is one of the most fundamental aspects of life, but it is also a problem many people struggle with. Here are the ten biggest mistakes men make with women. Mistake #1: Pursuing women. Most guys will try all kind of things to get women, such as subtly hanging around a cute ...
Views: 8245(7 votes) - My Ex Boyfriend Is Confusing Me! How to Get Him Back For Good - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Charles UadialeMy ex boyfriend is confusing me! That statement is said by a lot of women, in general day after day. Ex boyfriends can be simply confusing once they are an ex as they were at the time both of you were together. All those confusing signs he is showing you’re sufficient to make you go crazy. The ...
Views: 8233 - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back What To Say And Do - New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreSigns Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back What To Say And Do - New Ideas. There are several signs that your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend wants you back. Some of these are more obvious than others and it is up to you to dig beneath all of the bravado and read into what your Ex ...
Views: 8229(1 vote) - What Do You Bring to the Relationship Table? - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2011 from Crystal DotsonMany times people say they know what they are looking for in a relationship, a spouse. Women and men say I want a person who makes a certain amount of money, has a certain job, looks a certain way, good credit, nice car, and educated. Someone who can help me accomplish my goals in life. ...
Views: 8220 - Get £50+ per hour as a trainee - Agony Aunt Jobs - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomFor every true professional paid agony aunt that is working and helping strangers and getting paid for their efforts there must be thousands out there that would like the chance to do it and many of them may well be suitable for this work. Working as an agony aunt though is not as easy as a lot ...
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