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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- The Way to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back From A new Boyfriend - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2012 from Michael LoisWhen your ex girlfriend begins dating somebody else right after a breakup and also you nevertheless have feelings for her, it puts you in a real dilemma. Do you attempt to put her out of your thoughts and just move on or do you formulate a technique to win her back? Understanding how you can ...
Views: 7838 - How to Attract Your Wife Again - by Submitted on Oct 16, 2011 from Mika MaddelaAre you trying to win your wife back? For whatever reason, you and your wife are not on good terms, there is still a chance in making your marriage work. Our relationships with our partners are among the most cherished things in the world, when our relationship suffer-- we suffer. So if you want ...
Views: 7818 - How Quickly Do Men Fall In Love? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2008 from Yangki Christine AkitengThe most asked question by women of all ages is: “Is he in love with me?" I have a different take on what is “love’ and what is not, but for the sake of answering this question, I’ll use the word “love" to mean romantic attraction and sexual chemistry. Romantic ...
Views: 7812 - Is Your Boyfriend Tired Of You? My Boyfriend Is Tired Of Me What Should I Do - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks RobertIs your boyfriend tired of you? Maybe he hasn't come right out and said that to you directly, but you can read between the lines. The man isn't as into you as he once was and it's painful. You miss the days when you felt utterly adored and cherished by him. Now you wonder if he's on the verge of ...
Views: 7795 - 3 Blaring Signs Your Ex Wants You Back - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterBreaking up is not something I wish upon anyone, even my worst nemesis. It can cause you to have all sorts of emotions. It happens a lot to people, wanting to know if your ex wants you back or having second thoughts about you. Especially if you there weren't any signs of a breakup. These clues ...
Views: 7777(8 votes) - How to Bring Him Back When He Is Slipping Away - Ways to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Charles UadialeThe question of how to bring him back when he is slipping away is one a lot of women are searching an answer to as soon as they can sense an emergent distance between them and their boyfriend. Everyone have an inner natural feeling once it is about the man we love. Slight alterations in him can ...
Views: 7752 - Hair Loss Can Be Caused By Stress and Emotional Silence - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dr. Jeanette RaymondNia was stunned when her perfect relationship ended Nia was on top of the world. Her job was going well, and she had the best boyfriend any girl could ask for. He was attentive and affectionate. He was interested in her ideas and opinions. He showed respect for her family traditions. She felt ...
Views: 7737(1 vote) - How To Deal With Difficult People - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2007 from Brenda LeeAs a contractor/consultant in the corporate world, I was often employed for only a few months at time; therefore, I went in and out of different work situations quite frequently. To me, the frequent change, while sometimes stressful, was also exciting. On a practical level, I was faced with ...
Views: 7720 - Sexual Magnetism: Pheromones - The Scent Of Sex - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSexual Magnetism: Pheromones – The Scent of Sex By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra All this time you thought it was sculpted muscles, dazzling smiles and fast cars that were surefire babe magnets. Well have we got news for you. What really drives women wild ...
Views: 7713 - How To Use a Sneaky Powerful Reverse-Psychological Trick To Get Your Ex Back and Give Your Relationship a New Lifeline! - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2013 from Jeff ThomasEnding a relationship with someone is tough to say the least and is without a doubt among the hardest ordeals you can go through. If you are currently in a midst of a break up, you are probably dealing with every emotion related to ending a relationship: sadness, frustration, discouragement and ...
Views: 7712(4 votes) - Three Attributes of Someone Slow to Anger - by Submitted on May 07, 2010 from Greg BakerThe key to control of your anger is to be slow to anger. No one can turn anger on and off like a light switch. But having a very, very long fuse is the key to anger management. There are three attributes that are common, however, to someone that is slow to anger. GRACIOUS People who have ...
Views: 7689(3 votes) - Rejection Sensitivity, Irrational Jealousy and Impact on Relationships - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from MONICA FRANKAs a child Cynthia's hyperactive behavior often annoyed others. Her teachers frequently reprimanded her in school. The other students called her "stupid" and refused to let her join them in activities. At home, her father criticized her and beat her with a belt whenever her parents received a ...
Views: 7685(2 votes) - Why Man Is The Person In Charge In A Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2013 from Carl JeremyMan is a predator. Man is the person in charge in a relationship From times of antiquity man have been the leader in the relationship. Man would go out and hunt for food while his partner would stay in the shelter of the cave and look after the children. The man is the predator - the ...
Views: 7667 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am a married man infatuated with a coworker half my age - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a happily married man in my mid-forties with 2 small kids who has become overwhelmingly infatuated with a 22 year old co-worker. She is friendly but certainly not coquettish and there is no suggestion she reciprocates. I have no intention of trying to pursue ...
Views: 7659 - Make Your Ex Boyfriend Beg For Your Attention - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2016 from Joan RiversMake Your Ex Boyfriend Beg For Your Attention; When your ex boyfriend is ignoring you it does something to the way you feel about yourself. This is the man who could not see enough of you and begged you for attention. When all of that stops and he walks away, you begin having self doubts and ...
Views: 7655 - Should You Ask a Man Where You Stand With Him: How to Ask a Guy Where the Relationship Is Going? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2017 from Banks RobertShould you ever ask a man where you stand with him? Most of us believe the answer is a resounding yes. It's not. As much as we'd like to know exactly what our man thinks about us and the relationship, asking him point blank is actually one of the biggest mistakes a woman can make. Typically when ...
Views: 7642 - How Often Should a Boyfriend Call You? Should You Talk To Your Boyfriend Everyday - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeThe question of how often should a boyfriend call you isn't the easiest to answer. It seems that most women have at least one female friend who has the ideal boyfriend. He's the one who calls several times a day just to see how she is. Looking at her relationship it can make the rest of us ...
Views: 7636 - Dear Dr. Romance: She started pushing me away and becoming distant - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 almost 6 months now. We hit it off from the very beginning and fell in love a couple months into the relationship. Both of us are independent people and level headed, but there's a deep connection between the two ...
Views: 7628 - Disadvantages of Love spells - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2011 from Christina XioEvery one alive has the presence of love their lives. Love itself is uniquely different concept which describes it self as something that cannot be described while a person is restricted within the logical reasons. A man simply might love a woman because he frequently gets to meet her at the ...
Views: 7628 - The No Contact Rule - Does It Work Well? - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Mika MaddelaPeople are usually scared the first time they find out about the No Contact Rule. This is understandable. At first, it really does feel counter intuitive. Not contacting your ex so you can get them back. You feel as though you should be with your ex right now rather than far away from them so ...
Views: 7628(1 vote) - How to be Vulnerable - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2008 from Trudy-Ann EwanFear of the unknown creates a rigid, tight-fisted hold on our lives. Not knowing what may be on the other side of the wall is very unnerving. It is easier to be content and comfortable with the known than to put ourselves at risk of feeling discomfort with the unknown. There are several ...
Views: 7618 - How To Make My Ex Love Me Again - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2019 from Tiemo DonaldHow To Make My Ex Love Me Again If you broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you may be wondering, how to get your ex to fall back in love with you? My advice; Get your ex back with dignity and self-esteem. First off, remember to be nice. You might think that goes without ...
Views: 7600(1 vote) - Relationship Sabotage - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2009 from James LeGrandYou may be pushing your partner out of your life. Your fears, guilt, doubt, past experiences and feelings of unworthiness may drive you to doing and saying terrible things to the one you like or love. Whether you are doing this consciously or unconsciously, you could be pushing away the ...
Views: 7590 - He Says He'll Call But Doesn't: He Said He Would Call But Didn't Should I Call Him - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeBeing in a relationship can run the gamut from being fulfilling to frustrating. The problem is that it can change from one to the other in the short span of a few minutes or seconds. Many women find themselves involved with a great guy who has one major shortcoming. He can't seem to pick up the ...
Views: 7575 - My Boyfriend Wants A Break- What Do I Need To Do? - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIn the arms of the man you love the most, you"re the happiest you've ever been. He"s just the best thing that has ever happened to you and you two plan to spend the rest of your lives together. But one day, this magnificent life is devastated when he tells you he wants a break. If your world is ...
Views: 7571 - My Ex Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Wife, Husband Won't Forgive Me - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreThere is no one who has been in a relationship breakup that wouldn’t get depressed, unless he or she really didn’t love his or her ex. Well the end of the story can be fore told, if you love your ex and you really miss them, you can get them back into your loving arms. Love cannot be denied. ...
Views: 7557 - How to forget someone you see everyday - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2013 from Kevin ChonyuiBefore you came across this article you must have tried all you can to forget some one you see everyday but can't get a solution. This article will eventually bring an end to all your emotional pains so you will be happier and healthier as before. You might be a victim of breakup and you are ...
Views: 7554(1 vote) - Ideas To Get An Ex Boyfriend’s Attention Again - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreDrawing an ex boyfriend close to you starts as you make him pay attention to you. Ideas To Get An Ex Boyfriend’s Attention Again. Sometimes you may have to get his attention away from any new girlfriend he may be having. Many a times when you try to get an ex boyfriend’s attention, you may think ...
Views: 7532(1 vote) - How To Make A May-December Love Affair Work - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2008 from Sharon BellIt is not uncommon to find young persons falling in love with individuals that are a decade older than they are. Although you see such relationships in Hollywood and even in the movies, many are still unconvinced that such a strong passionate bond can truly occur between two people whose ages ...
Views: 7524 - “How honest should I be about my past?”: Relationship Advice for those Tricky Situations - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsJake was a party guy in college. He stayed up late, was the life of every social event he attended and was never without a date. In fact, Jake had a lot of dates and sexual partners during this wilder time in his life. Now, 5 years later, Jake has settled down a bit. He still lives life to ...
Views: 7521(5 votes) - 9 Playing Hard To Get Strategies That Keep Him Or Her Interested - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2008 from Yangki Christine AkitengOnce you've piqued a man/woman's interest enough for him/her to be attracted to you, how do you keep him/her there? One way to enhance the attraction and keep his/her interest is play hard-to-get. Playing hard-to-get when done right is much more important than most people think, realize or are ...
Views: 7512(1 vote) - The Best Ways to Deal Assertively with Conflicts - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2020 from Vivian HarteConflicts are normal in all relationships, even loving ones. It’s vital that these differences are resolved. If not, the feelings between you and your partner will gradually diminish. Different personality types handle conflicts in different ways, and the way they argue depends on their ...
Views: 7505 - *** Emotional Dependency vs. Emotional Freedom - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Margaret PaulWhat is Emotional Dependency?Lydia consulted with me because her relationship with her husband, Andrew, was falling apart. Andrew had moved out, stating that he could no longer tolerate Lydia's neediness and constant pull on him to make her feel loved and secure. Now that they were separated, ...
Views: 7502(6 votes) - *** How To Let Go of Anger Like a Woke Monk - An Anger Management Expert’s Top 5 Tools to Manage Anger *** - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Dr. John SchinnererWhile the short-term problems created by anger are bad enough, consider some of the long-term effects… Negative Effects of Anger The negative effects of chronic anger are far-reaching. People who lack the ability to manage their anger have a higher chance of the following… Low ...
Views: 7484(2 votes) - Learn How Rose Quartz Crystal Can Help You Find Love! - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2013 from Mandy GatlinRose Quartz is widely known as the love stone because of the gentle vibrations it emits to help open one's heart. Anyone who uses rose quartz may feel that it provides them with a sense of inner peace and self worth in matters pertaining to the heart or relationships. This stone, which is found ...
Views: 7483 - We should all live for others - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Wayne Kehl"Life becomes harder for us when we live for others, but it also becomes richer and happier.” Albert Schweitzer Albert Schweitzer was perhaps, one of the greatest minds of the twentieth century. He lived from 1875 to 1965. During the course of his long life he was a doctor, an ...
Views: 7469(2 votes) - Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When She Just Wants to Be Friends - A Must Read! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2011 from Charles WealthYou are probably depressed at the moment. Your girlfriend says she is not interested in the relationship anymore, but she just wants to be friends. However, you still love her and want her back in your arms. What you must understand is that, it’s extremely hard to get your ex girlfriend back ...
Views: 7438 - Why Do You Keep Taking Him Back? - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2007 from Emily SaarWhen breaking up becomes a monthly (or weekly) event, do you take him back repeatedly asking yourself, "Why am I doing this?" You're not alone. Let's begin by understanding the stereotypical male & female. Most little girls are raised with a baby doll in their arms, a play bottle to feed ...
Views: 7433 - Sleeping With Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend To Get Them Back - Will It Work-New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreSleeping With Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend To Get Them Back - Will It Work-New Ideas. Sleeping with your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend to get them back may seem like a good idea initially. A complete solution to get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up ...
Views: 7417(1 vote) - The Love Language of a Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of concern for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he ...
Views: 7414(5 votes) - Make Him Think about You All the Time: How to Make a Man Think about You Day and Night - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James UadialeWouldn't your relationship be amazing if you could make him think about you all the time? Most women secretly dream about this. The idea of our man being so completely crazy about us that he can't go more than a few minutes without thoughts of us invading his mind. It may be a wee bit ...
Views: 7409 - How to End a Toxic Friendship - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Eduard EzeanuSometimes, the best thing you can do with a friendship is to end it. Unfortunately, most toxic friendships are not easy to end, and you need the proper tools to fruitfully do so. Every once in a while you may realize that you’re in a toxic relationships with another person. The relationship ...
Views: 7383(1 vote) - How to Get a Guy to Love You Forever – 10 Secrets to a Great Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2012 from Ashley KayHow to get a guy to love you forever is what every woman wants to know. If you truly love someone, then you wouldn’t want to let him go and you’re content to spend you life with him. You want to cherish your time together and hope that this happy feeling will last. When it comes to “how to ...
Views: 7380 - Is My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Still Interested - How To Make Them Interested - New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreIs My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Still Interested - How To Make Them Interested - New Ideas. Asking yourself "is my Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend still interested"? If so, you are confused right now and don't really know where you stand with your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend. This is normal ...
Views: 7372(1 vote) - I Don’t Want To Be Lonely Anymore - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2011 from Jesse BirkeyI Don’t Want To Be Lonely Anymore We all have the desire to find someone special that we can share our life with. We want someone to be able to talk to when we are excited and to brag to when something great happens to us. We really want to do those things with someone that we know cares about ...
Views: 7364(2 votes) - What To Realize For Getting Your WIfe Back From Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Robert LeesIt took me a lengthy time to discover the correct path for the finest way to get my ex wife back again, and for quite some time, a lot of the time of 2 years it was quite very difficult avenue indeed. But immediately after realizing the way I was trying to win back the love of my wife was ...
Views: 7362(1 vote) - Why Your Ex Girlfriend Will Come Back - How To Reconnect With An Ex Girlfriend - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHave you just experienced a relationship breakup? Have you been making major mistakes that could be a relationship killer that you must stop doing immediately? Here’s why your ex girlfriend will come back. Check out this list of items that you may very well that you are mistakenly doing. If you ...
Views: 7357 - 3 Unnoticed Signs That He Wants You Back - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Mika MaddelaFinally, after overcoming the initial pain of a heartache, you and your ex have begun to speak to each other again. You're either hoping to get him back and save your relationship or just remain friends with him. However, your new relationship with your ex is confusing you, and you don't know ...
Views: 7354 - How to Argue with Your Mate Most Effectively - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2020 from Vivian HarteCouples who are most successful have learned how to argue effectively. Believe it or not, arguing in a caring fashion is a skill. Arguing can easily get out of control. You need self-confidence to bring up a topic you’re concerned about, and you need self-confidence to argue in a way that ...
Views: 7345 - An Introduction To Love - What Kind Of Love Are You In? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Diane BabcockWhat kind of love are you talking about? There are many forms of love that English has only has one word for which is 'love' and it gets bantered about indiscriminately. Greek has five, which are more descriptive: Desire – Attraction (epithumia) Longing – Romance (eros) ...
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