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Who’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ... Views: 1498
Dr Romance’s Happiness Tips Alone on Valentine’s Day?
There's no need to mope around. Having a plan that makes you happy is the best way to fend off the blues.
Gather your best friends around you and make some special plans to have a wonderful day.
Send valentines or ... Views: 1496
You may or may not be aware of this, but while a lot of women want to be beautiful, so many couldn’t be bothered putting the effort, time and commitment to color coordinating and matching their clothes, put some make up on and smile for the day. It sounds crazy, but it's true. Most women only ... Views: 1494
Knowing how to attract women is the cornerstone to any kind of success dating women.
You have to be able to cause a woman to feel attracted to you, if you want to be seen as more than just a friend or a nice guy. Most men are not able to do this with women they meet. Instead, they end up ... Views: 1492
Are you continuously disappointed in your relationships? Do people seem to leave you or let you down? Do you get taken for granted or used? This month, I invite you take a candid look at your behavior to see why love might be missing for you. If you seem to stay in patterns where love is ... Views: 1489
Your fear of being rejected because you are imperfect is exactly what is getting you rejected.
Yah…I know I’ve written about this a million times, but two recent experiences reminded me of how major this is. So here I am reminding you in case you still don’t get it.
Me…Popular? My Junior ... Views: 1487
Many people who look for Jewish girls often think that it is much harder to actually find them than it really is. The truth about finding single Jewish girls is that it is not all that tough for a man to do. There are many online dating sites that will give men the help they need to find these ... Views: 1482
If you happen to be a lady who desperately wants her love back instantly following a break up, there are several methods that can help you to definitely get your lover return into your life. Some of the tactics that may be adopted easily by an impaired partner can be found in the following ... Views: 1479
Online dating and chatting is a fine art that a lot of singles try to perfect. It can be quite confusing at first, but once an individual gets the hang of it, it can be pretty interesting and quite helpful. The rapidly increasing number of online dating site tells us only one thing: this is the ... Views: 1476
Good date ideas may be hard to think of when you’ve taken her out two or three times already. However, if good date ideas were that easy to think of, she'd probably be with another guy already. Being able to sweep her off her feet over and over again is exactly what separates the better than ... Views: 1474
Sometimes women get so busy that we stop taking care of self. Other times we get in a little rut. Here are 11 sassy ways to get your groove back on!
1) Go dancing out on the town- Going out to dance is such a hot way to get your groove on. You whole body gets involved and it is such a great ... Views: 1472
We all want love. We see evidence of this when we engage in relationships, make babies, build a happy home and career, when we do good work and make great art. These are all ways we choose to create and express more love around us and within us.
In our matchmaking program The Good Love™ for ... Views: 1472
These 7 steps to building relationships are critical to couples looking for long-term love and partnership. However, some of these tips are not what most of us think of first! These deceptively simple steps are most effective in improving and maintaining your trust and connection together in ... Views: 1468
“The spiritual path is a process of clearing away everything that is not you, clearing away the blocks to love.”
Sharon Gardner, Unfolding Journey
There are times in each of our lives when we throw up our hands and ask why me? Many get bogged down in frustration, anger, and blaming of ... Views: 1468
When I was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. She was what ... Views: 1467
Yes, I spoke to two people today, one man and one woman and I suddenly realised that one of the things both men and women do is take it all too seriously!
The girl I spoke to is at a great time of her life, the world is literally her oyster, she is free to go wherever she wants, do whatever she ... Views: 1467
Your dating success and learning how to be confident with girls are interrelated. Confidence means you have an undying belief and trust in yourself or your abilities. If you don’t trust and believe in yourself, how do you expect her to believe and trust in you? Follow these guidelines about what ... Views: 1463
Divorce is tough for many reasons. Not only are we dealing with the emotions and logistics and finances, but after the dust has settled, we may feel like our life's plans have changed direction. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not ... Views: 1462
We believe the primary purpose of all love relationships is opportunity for spiritual growth, yet few seem to share our belief considering the three common questions about a new relationship partner that often lead to love life suffering.
It’s understandable why people today approach love ... Views: 1459
It is difficult in coping with break up. However, when you cope with break up, it is very important to think that you really can move on despite the hurt and you can really let go of that love. Even if time will only tell that you are healed, patiently wait as time will also heal all the ... Views: 1459
A “new trend” in dating is on the rise: “THE STAY-OVER RELATIONSHIP”. Men & women pack up their bag and “move in” with their date (“partner”) for two or three days. If you are taking part in this new trend you can make use of your “stay-over relationships” for your personal growth and ... Views: 1459
Have you ever asked yourself this question: What are my rules for dating and relationships? What are my boundaries, what must I do, and what must I have? And what will I simply not tolerate in myself or in others?
Too often I talk to women who stayed in unfulfilling relationships or have a ... Views: 1457
The most frequent problem I hear from single clients is that of how and where to search for a partner. Many of them have been searching for a long time, without success; others have been afraid to go out and search at all.
Most of the horror stories you have heard about dating occur when ... Views: 1457
This week I decided to take a trip to North Carolina to visit my mother. On my journey, I decided to stop at Wendy’s and grab a bite to eat. I ordered a double stack with cheese, paid the lady at the window, and drove off. As I bit into my burger, I noticed that it had pickles on it. I love ... Views: 1456
First off, remember men, you don't have to be a "10." This chapter isn't about the numbers game, so I'm not going to waste your time telling you how to be what some narrow-minded women think you should look like in their eyes. What you have to offer a well-to-do woman is YOU along with your ... Views: 1452
Have you ever been interested in, or worse, in love with a man and he leaves for no apparent reason? Maybe it’s because you’re a High Maintenance woman and don’t realize it.
Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. Let me explain why it’s one of the worst ... Views: 1451
More than 60% of the people residing in western countries are affected by STD’s. The most common STD among them being herpes. With these thousands of herpes dating sites have come into the scenario to help people for dating with herpes.
Due to lack of knowledge on herpes, many people who ... Views: 1441
I wish there was a graph that let me know what was my fault and what was his problem. Is it my own crazy thinking that takes over at any damn time it pleases OR is there “REAL” proof that he is pulling away and NOW he’s just not that into me?
Last week we went out two nights and one of those ... Views: 1441
Internet dating is considered as a globally accepted platform for meeting your partner. The schedules are so busy that you may not have much time for yourself and so this is very hard for you to lure some time out of that daily routine and find your soul mate. So professional dating agencies in ... Views: 1440
Myths abound surrounding the topics of sex, promiscuity, and spirituality.
Consider this anonymous feedback we received from "Emily": "So two guys who obviously aren't into commitment write about what a less-than-desirable ideal sexual commitment is, with no thought of feeding the kids. How ... Views: 1440
When someone’s uses online dating, the can have the need to create the perfect profile. And as they want to create a good impression, it could be said that this is to be expected.
Fortunately, it is not going to need to take them very long to create the right profile. They might have rough ... Views: 1439
Are you going through a difficult split and wondering how you're going to get your ex back? Well you definitely need to start with a game plan and actually think before you act. We tend to get caught up on our emotions and making unwise decisions based on how we now feel and that's just the ... Views: 1439
Happy Valentine's Day!
Dear friend, all of your relationships stem from your relationship with yourself. So here are a few secrets to developing healthy relationships.
•Appreciate and learn to love yourself.
•Don’t ask others to love you first.
•Respect yourself and make positive ... Views: 1438
It’s true that almost everyone wants to be engaged but do you know why some people are still single? Do you know that in almost every cases of this issue, many people stay single based on how they go about living their lives and the manner in which they interact with other people which gave ... Views: 1438
Occasionally relationships come to a natural conclusion, maybe you both simply drifted away from each other and maybe you had different goals in mind. It is not so bad in these situations when it just feels like time to move on. It can be extremely difficult however if your relationship does ... Views: 1437
Whilst every man is a unique individual, they do embrace basically the same prerequisites concerning chicks. You need to first pinpoint what that person is curious about and what he frowns upon.
You will need to know his passions and tendencies and so forth, in order to compel a guy to fall ... Views: 1436
Have you ever been in a relationship and everything was peaches and cream at the beginning? As time passed by, it seemed that the relationship started to take a nose dive to a place you never thought it could go. You find yourself silently wishing that he would stay out longer or roll your eyes ... Views: 1432
Please let me introduce you to a new message board which is aimed at women, although I am sure that some men will it quite fascinating too. It relates to everything to do with relationships, psychology, emotions. It is great for anyone who is deep and intense and who enjoys writing and ... Views: 1432
Introduction
There is much talking about burnout from work. But burnout also happens when you feel exhausted from endless dating - yet you keep dating nonetheless. This is counter-productive, since you don’t project happiness to your date, but fatigue; not empowerment, but desperation; not ... Views: 1430
If one was to find themselves in a position where they feel down, they could feel the need to get in a relationship. They could believe that being with someone else will make their life better, thereby allowing them to feel good about.
A Pattern
There is the chance that one is used to ... Views: 1430
You may see yourself as someone who loves “taking care” of your partner. You do “all you can” to pamper, give and be there for him/her. But is it really “love” or are you driven by insecurity and a deep unconscious need to be loved?
“LOVING” and “LOVING TOO MUCH”
Do you, each time you ... Views: 1429
Although someone could pay attention to their own needs when they are single, this could be something that changes when they are in a relationship. It could then be said that one will have a sense of self when they are single and end up losing their sense of self when they are not.
Two ... Views: 1427
From the start, first, you want to see if you're attracted to the other person. You wait to see if you find him attractive, funny, or witty. You probably don't look too deep at the beginning; you just want to see if there's an attraction.
Aside from just wanting to have a good time, and see ... Views: 1427
First, let us clarify the purpose of a date: When is on a date with you, it means that she feels attracted to you, otherwise she wouldn't have wasted her time. Also, if a girl agreed to meet you, it means she has some level of comfort and trust towards you, and she's not afraid of you raping her ... Views: 1426
Dear Dr. Romance:
I read your Dr Romance Blog and a small paragraph on "10 Reasons to Dump a Guy." I'm trying to find out why I can't find a woman, or better put: why I cant I spark the interest of a woman? I'm 40 years old I was never married nor do I ... Views: 1424
It’s been a long time and you're ready. I understand. Here are your 5 tips towards having what you truly desire in a mate.
1) This is the first thing you should know: You can have what you want. Give yourself permission right now.
2) Secondly, don’t believe the hype. All men aren't bad ... Views: 1423
When it comes to dating, the world is radically different to how it used to be in the past. Now, one can still meet people in the real world, and there are a number of ways that this can take place.
Everyday Life
If one was to go shopping or if they had to do something whilst they were ... Views: 1423
As people have become more accustomed to owning and having instant and easy access to computers and the web it is becoming increasingly popular to turn to websites for information, help, advice and sources of knowledge. There are online courses,
advice columns, problem pages, agony aunts, ... Views: 1422
"So what's the secret for a good marriage? asked my single friend, Ellen.
"Choose wisely and learn what it takes to stay happily married," I blurted out. Yet many of us first need to believe that we can succeed in marriage.
Marriage has changed in recent decades. In general, women no ... Views: 1422
When you first try to attract beautiful women, you might find yourself running into problems. For example you might find that she is not into you or is not willing to take the next step and get sexual with you. These of course are just a few of the things that could go wrong during an ... Views: 1421