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- How To Make Him Emotionally Attached To You So He Can't Let You Go - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangHow many of you are confronted with a situation that the guy you are dating and attracted to is not really ready to move your relationship to the next level? Or that he hasn't taken down his profile from the dating site yet after a few months seeing each other? It feels scary for you now that ...
Views: 46483(4 votes) - The Ultimate Guide To Texting And Making Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you have a new guy in your life and are in the early stages of courtship, chances are good you will be texting him and he will be texting you. Flirty texting is fun, but if you aren't careful, you can unknowingly put a huge damper on his attraction. If he is pulling away from you, one of ...
Views: 40047(5 votes) - Do's And Dont's Of Texting A Guy That Will Make You Stand Out From The Rest - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2017 from Katarina PhangText messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man. Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ...
Views: 38380(6 votes) - Understanding Male Psychology Will Help Get Him Back And Fall In Love With You - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangEighty percent of men are distancers and 80% of women are pursuers. Women have 10-15 times more oxytocin (the bonding hormone) than men, and men have 10 times more testosterone (go-getter hormone) than women: so based on that chemical proportion alone, it's obvious women need more closeness than ...
Views: 36445(3 votes) - ***Why Less Is More In Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe key of dating an emotionally unavailable man who wants to take things slow is to let him set the pace. Expect that he will go hot and cold. Mirror him in everything he does. When he's hot, reciprocate that, this is your time to establish bonding. When he's cold, also keep a distance. ...
Views: 32660(3 votes) - When Your Man Dumped You, This Is What You Have To Do - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2017 from Katarina PhangAre you a dumped girlfriend? What does it take to move on after a guy has broken up with you? Do you want to move on, but are paralyzed by sadness? Here is a dumped girlfriend guide to moving on. While Still Mourning, Do Realize That You Can Still Seduce Your Ex Back. Here's How: The ...
Views: 27724(2 votes) - How To Raise Your Testosterone Levels Through The Roof With The Endocrine Diet - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2011 from Plato PowersIt's no secret that back in the day men had much higher testosterone levels then they do today. There simply had to be something that motivated men to hack their way through the wilderness, and assemble a civilization. If one is a fan of old photographs, it is not uncommon to find snapshots of ...
Views: 26269(2 votes) - ***How To Get A Man To Pursue You And Make Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2017 from Katarina PhangIt is in our nature as a woman to want to feel cherished by the man we love. We want to be wooed and pursued, to be made to feel special, adored and to be treated like a princess. The question is how far would a man be inspired to satisfy our primal needs as a woman? He's Really That Into ...
Views: 25817(2 votes) - What To Do If Your Man Rarely Initiates Sex: Make Yourself An Irresistible Sex Goddess He Worships - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangI want to address an important issue from my reader, about guys who lose their sexual mojo when they're settled with you (something that isn't very uncommon -surprise, surprise- which is the main reason why my marriage fell apart). So here it goes: I have been with the same man for almost 3 ...
Views: 24687(5 votes) - Mother Enmeshed Men: What Causes It? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to understanding what enmeshment is, it helps to look at what boundaries are. Boundaries are what create a sense of individuality between people. And although we are all physically separate, it does not mean that we are emotionally separate from another person. This becomes what ...
Views: 23858(2 votes) - ***How to Play Hard To Get The Correct Way - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Katarina PhangThere is an excellent discussion going on in my private group: "For years we read from women that we should play hard to get. There are countless books written by women on this topic. What are your thoughts on why women believe we should play hard to get and men believe we should not? Do you ...
Views: 23054(5 votes) - My Boyfriend Wants To Take A Break- What Does That Mean - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe college aged daughter of a close friend of mine recently asked her mom "my boyfriend wants to take a break, what does that mean?" Her daughter was confused, heart broken and a little angry and was looking for advice. If you're in the same situation here are a few tips than can help you ...
Views: 22070(3 votes) - He’s Distancing Himself! – What Does it all Mean? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational ...
Views: 21455(5 votes) - How To Cultivate Emotional Attraction So You Can Keep The Man You Adore - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen are visual creatures, while looks will get you in the door, in the long run it is emotional attraction that will keep him glued to you. What is emotional attraction to a man? It is everything in a woman that makes him feel supported, accepted and respected because all of that is the ...
Views: 20146(3 votes) - ***He Says He's Not Ready For A Relationship, Should I Agree To "Friends With Benefits" Instead? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangA fan wrote me a heartfelt email: Hi Katarina, me and my bf of almost 2 years broke up about 3 and a half months ago. It was not a bad break up, but he felt like he could not handle the pressure of a full-blown relationship. In the time that we have been apart I have learned a lot and recently ...
Views: 20111(8 votes) - ***He's Probably Not Emotionally Unavailable After All: Beware Of Mislabeling - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangFreedom, separation, aggression, conquest, goal seeking and sex are the basic nature of testosterone. You’ve seen how many wars and conquests have been waged by men since the beginning of time. That’s the side effect of testosterone. It has also contributed to so much magnificence in the ...
Views: 18725(3 votes) - The Ultimate Guide To Texting A Man Without Killing His Attraction To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangText messaging is one of the most powerful ways to flirt and build attraction and to lay a great foundation for a lasting relationship with a man. Unfortunately, many women are at a loss for how to properly leverage this technology to make a man feel intense level of attraction toward her ...
Views: 18709(5 votes) - How To Become A Goddess That Men Adore By Not Pining For Any Man - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangSome women get really hurt from just a few month fling? Why? Because they invest too much, too soon in the relationship and have soaring expectations of it. They buy into the fairy tale they concoct themselves that this is it: he's the One and they're "in love" not realizing that the dizzying ...
Views: 18366(5 votes) - How To Inspire Him To Commit Without Having The Talk - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ...
Views: 17328(4 votes) - Do You Need a Love Spell to Get Your Ex Back? - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangMaybe you’ve tried every strategy that you can think of to lure your ex boyfriend back into your arms and back into your life but it just doesn’t seem to be working. You have tried playing hard to get; you’ve tried obsessing over what he’s doing and calling every hour; you’ve showed up ...
Views: 16218(3 votes) - What Is Feminine Magnetism™ And How You can Attract The Man Of Your Dream With It - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangHow does a woman attract amazing men who will give them what she wants: love, commitment, adoration? By being a happy, independent, secure and self-confident woman. Your looks will get you in the door but to keep a man attracted to you for the long haul, you have to have those inner ...
Views: 15891(3 votes) - My Boyfriend Left Me - Do I Want Him Back? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangWow, what a punch in the stomach. You were just dumped. It can be a shock, even if all the signs were there. Now comes the hard part, what to do next? If you've just said 'my boyfriend left me, what should I do now?" the answer might not be what you expected! As humans it is our nature, ...
Views: 15779(5 votes) - ***From Casual To Committed: Secret Of Capturing His Heart through Personal Transformation - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangA lot has changed since the publication of my book. I shared my personal story dealing with an emotionally unavailable man (EUM) I was seeing at the time. The friendship was great -we couldn't have bonded any tighter- but true to my own integrity as an author and coach (as per my own advice ...
Views: 15608(2 votes) - What Men Really Need To Want To Commit To A Woman - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you think men just want to lead a bachelor life without any concern in the world while having you on the side because it's convenient to him, you are mistaken. Do realize that both men and women want to love and be loved. Both genders want a great relationship as it is our inherent need. ...
Views: 15248(4 votes) - Why Men Act The Way They Do And How To Attract Them Back To You - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen are biologically different to women, and yet so many women seem to have no idea why their partners act the way they do. The very biological differences that draw so many people together are also sometimes the very things that can drive them apart. Biologically, men have almost the ...
Views: 14441(4 votes) - 14 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Sulagna DasguptaAre you of late wondering if something has changed in your relationship? Does it seem to you that your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore? Is it possible that he’s cheating on you? This article brings to you fourteen powerful signs to tell if he’s cheating. 1. Use your woman’s intuition: You ...
Views: 14088(2 votes) - Q&A: She Doesn't Love Me Anymore - How Should I Fix This? - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDid your girlfriend recently tell you she was questioning her feelings for you? Perhaps, she told she isn't in love with you anymore. Either way, I know that right now you're feeling hurt and confused. If you are experiencing the heartache of a potential breakup, please check out some frequent ...
Views: 13834 - Reuniting With Your Beloved Is Never This Easy If You Know Which Emotional Hot Buttons To Push! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangHave you had a relationship with a man that has unfortunately always been on the on-and-off track? Wanting him back is a completely normal reaction to a breakup, regardless of whether the feelings come right away, or over time. Here are some proactive tips for turning your ex to be in love with ...
Views: 13577(4 votes) - Oprah's advice to women about men -- from Tuchy's book "Oprah In Her Own Words" - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Carl Tuchy PalmieriOprah Winfrey– “If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.” —“Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship ...
Views: 13422(3 votes) - Why Your Boyfriend Is Jealous Of Your Sexual Past (And What To Do About It) - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2016 from Jeff BillingsIf you’ve found yourself in a relationship with a jealous boyfriend, it can be quite a confusing and exhausting experience as you probably know. Especially when he’s not jealous about guys in the present, but about guys in the past. A man who gets all angry and upset about his girlfriend’s ...
Views: 13204(1 vote) - What Must I Do If My Ex Is Dating Someone Else? Don't Worry, It's Not Too Late - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaLife is hard enough without going through a difficult break up. Losing someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. It only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else. If you are in this situation then following may be the answers you are looking for. Q: ...
Views: 13157 - ***Managing Expectations Goes A Long Way In Keeping Your Man Attracted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen have a love-hate relationship with their mothers. They love their moms to death, yet they loath the feeling of being mothered (i.e. being told what to do/not to do). Now they are adults and live on their own, they don't need another woman -and much younger at that- replacing their mother's ...
Views: 12393(3 votes) - The Ultimate Solution To The Puzzle: Why He Disappears/Dump You And How To Get Him Back - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangI've received so many requests for advice from women who are desperate because their men either broke up with them or became more and more distant and less willing to keep in touch or show affection. I can relate to that. I have had my share of similar experience in my 20's when a man whom I ...
Views: 12367(5 votes) - ***Is He Really Not That Into You Or Are Your Expectations Too Skewed? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMy editor Brenda who helped me edit my book out of her gratitude for the advice I have given him in the past dealing with her own emotionally unavailable man, told everyone how profoundly transformational my book is. She thinks this book is an excellent rebuttal that every woman should read to ...
Views: 12131(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Need A Women’s Approval? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhile a certain amount of approval seeking is part of relationships; when it is out of control and taken to the extreme, it can create dysfunctional consequences and unnecessary pain. And when this happens, a man’s mental and emotional wellbeing is going to suffer. However, in order for a man ...
Views: 11944 - Relationships: Why Do Some Men Pull Away After Sex? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperWhen two people come together with the intention of having a relationship or just the desire to spend time together, it is generally going to lead to them having sex. And this could be something that both of them equally want to experience or something that one of them is more attached to than ...
Views: 11893 - Men Fall In Love And Want To Commit To Happy Women - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangBeing a relationship coach and dealing with breakup issues a good chunk of time, I have a lot of anxious female clients/readers who are on the brink of a nervous breakdown because they feel their world is falling apart: i.e. their men seem to fade into the state of indifference. They panic and ...
Views: 11816(4 votes) - 10 Qualities Men Want in Women - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2012 from Cynthia PriceIs it beauty, booty and brains? Ready, willing and able? Sexy, sweet and hard to get? What is the magic combination of ingredients men look for in a woman? Certainly all of the stereotypical traits are on most men’s wish lists, but once you break through the initial barrier and get his ...
Views: 11786 - How to Woo a Man - 6 Important Tips - by Submitted on May 12, 2012 from Richard CappsWooing is less of an art and more of a science. Whether or not it's your husband, boyfriend, lover, or a seeming "Unavailable Man," there are secrets that every woman needs to learn in mastering how to woo a man. Please reflect on a couple critical questions and thoughts: - Are you confident? ...
Views: 11241 - How You Can Use Texting To Transform Your Love Life and Make Him More Passionate and Romantic - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe amount of time we get to spend with our partners is less and less. Commutes are longer, people often spend eight or ten hours at the computer and in meetings. Our increasingly complex lives also come with a host of professional, personal, and hobby-related commitments. As a result, the ...
Views: 11076(5 votes) - How to Date a Nice Guy - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI constantly work with women who are tired of cycling through ‘bad boys’ or dysfunctional relationships. They want to find someone worth spending the rest of their lives with. The problem is that they may not be able to identify the ‘nice guys.’ Even if they can, there is baggage they cannot ...
Views: 10843(3 votes) - How To Decipher A Man: Does He Say What He Means And Means What He Says? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangMy male best friend from my home country recently, in a state of panic, IMed me, "Where are you? I need to talk. It's really urgent." When we finally talked he was shaking in anguish: he found out his wife was cheating on him with the next-door neighbor and the guy's wife informed him at 3 am a ...
Views: 10839(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Needy? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThere are many descriptions that can be used when it comes to how one goes about getting their needs met. While some are called needy, others are often called needless. However, no matter how one is described: what is clear is that everyone has needs. To be human means that we have needs. And ...
Views: 10622 - ***The Secret To Lasting Love and Commitment From The Man You Love - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ...
Views: 10427(2 votes) - ***Why Do Women Like Players? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It’s often asked to me why women like Jerks, Badboys, and Players, and while I teach that much of the reason rests in the fact that to the brain, arousal due to danger and threats can be easily confused with arousal due to sexual appeal, there is a bit of a difference between a guy who is a ...
Views: 10381(5 votes) - Sometimes It Takes Only One Person To Change And Save Your Relationship/Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you are feeling desperate because you are trying to save marriage alone, do not despair. There are many others in the same boat as you and such cries for help can be heard from both men and women alike. This is probably because they have made the same common mistake; entering a relationship ...
Views: 9954(3 votes) - My Wife Fell Out of Love With Me – Does This Mean Your Marriage Is Now Doomed? - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Jason NelsonAlright, so you’re saying my wife fell out of love with me, and you’re hurting. It does hurt, I know that. You’re feeling like your world is falling apart. You’re wondering how you’re ever going to be able to live without her again. You’re even wondering what you could have, or should ...
Views: 9560(1 vote) - Don't You Wish You Were Taught These Things About Men In High School? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe all fall hard, difference is some people know how to handle the end of relationship better than others. It's not the depth of the falling-in-love that hurts the most but the height of the expectations. The higher your expectation is, the more you hurt when it ends. And we all learn from ...
Views: 9457(4 votes) - How To Court A Woman - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2011 from Stella SinglesThis may seem self-explanatory, but as we all know not everything is as easy as it looks. Courting a woman is a process; there is no doubt about it. Time and effort and required to successfully gain the admiration and/or love of any young lady. The common problem that men run into, while ...
Views: 9399(2 votes) - The Unattainable Woman: What She Teaches Us. - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Tony MonterastelliQuestion: I have noticed throughout my life that the girls I was attracted to tended not to like me back. This has been especially problematic now that I am in my 20's, but it did occur a bit in my teens as well. I am starting to think that I will never get the women I'm interested in, or that I ...
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