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- *** How To Let Go of Anger Like a Woke Monk - An Anger Management Expert’s Top 5 Tools to Manage Anger *** - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2018 from Dr. John SchinnererWhile the short-term problems created by anger are bad enough, consider some of the long-term effects… Negative Effects of Anger The negative effects of chronic anger are far-reaching. People who lack the ability to manage their anger have a higher chance of the following… Low ...
Views: 7484(2 votes) - ***DEPRESCULINITY: THE NEW TYPE OF DEPRESSION IN MEN - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.You always knew there ought to be a name for it - the state of mind suffered only by men, related to women and or work... and not be fully living. I have a word to coin. One that's likely been in your life at some point, if only for a day, or a week, or a month. It blocked your ability to ...
Views: 6392(3 votes) - ***Do Talk To Strangers - The Power of Projection in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The most impassioned, powerful time of a physical interaction with a woman is early on in dating, when you don't even know each other as more than strangers. Ironically, it is also the most fickle, fragile, and potentially confusing time - one of missteps and miscommunication because it is so ...
Views: 4384(1 vote) - ***Expert List for Narcissistic Survivors - Youtube Video - Laney Zukerman Empowerment & Relationship Coach, Best-Selling Author ~ Lessons for an Urban Goddess & The Urban Goddess Lesson - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachHi Selfgrowth Friends, Since I have been receiving a high volume of readers who are interested in more information on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Surviving Relationships with Narcissists, I have created a brief Youtube Video. I have spent many hours reviewing experts on Narcissism and ...
Views: 3915(1 vote) - ***HUFFINGTON POST NEWEST ARTICLE BY LANEY ZUKERMAN EVERYDAY HEROES - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachCheck out my newest article on THE HUFF POST Everyday Heroes and How to Make an Extraordinary Difference WE NEED MORE EVERYDAY HEROES AND YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN YOUR OWN COMMUNITIES RIGHT NOW. LEARN THE SIMPLE YET POWERFUL WAYS YOU CAN CHANGE THE WORLD ONE PERSON AT A ...
Views: 2269(1 vote) - ***Machiavelli’s 4 Universal Dating Tips for Men - by Submitted on May 27, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Machiavelli and his book, The Prince, may be among the most notorious and derided authors and works in history - attacked by the church from day one, and to this day, synonymous with deception and cloak-dagger-politics, espionage and subversive trickery. A closer read may reveal something ...
Views: 7038(1 vote) - ***The 5 Women Who Will Ruin Your Game - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.They are the bane of your social life - ruining your best efforts at attracting women. And they may not even know they're doing it. Of course you know who I'm talking about, even though we tend not to complain about it or mention it to others - especially women. Especially THOSE women. Why ...
Views: 8691(3 votes) - ***The Number One Sexual Attractor - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Recently, I came across some stunning actual scientific findings from evolutionary psychology regarding a man’s ability to attract and date quality women who are right for them. After all, men worldwide want to find what works for them to become more accomplished in this area; to actually have ...
Views: 4251(1 vote) - ***The One Universal Flaw, Excuse and Game-Changer in Dating - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Maybe you are a guy who has been searching for "that one thing" you could change to have better attraction and dating with women. It turns out that there is one amazing skill you have, which we could lock eyes on as a universal concept that ultimately makes you sink or swim with ...
Views: 4437(2 votes) - 12 Signs of Low Testosterone - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2019 from bhagwan mehtaLow testosterone Testosterone is a hormone produced by the human body. It’s mainly produced in men by the testicles. Testosterone affects a man’s appearance and sexual development. It stimulates sperm production as well as a man’s sex drive. It also helps build ...
Views: 2253(1 vote) - 3 POWERFUL WAYS TO OVERCOME COVERT EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2018 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachCovert Emotional Manipulation can be crazy-making. It is often subtle, intermittent and doesn't come with any warning signs early on. It is often after many months or years, you may begin to "catch on" that you are being covertly emotionally manipulated! You may begin to doubt your ...
Views: 2343(1 vote) - 3 Ways to Make a Man ADDICTED To You - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2021 from Sahib BerwalDo you want to keep your man’s eyes on you and only you? Would you love to make him absolutely addicted to you? If so, you’re in the right place. As you may or may not already know, there are certain things women can do to hook men. The good news is that these have nothing to do with looks, ...
Views: 1059(1 vote) - 5 Steps to Overcome Divorce & Separation Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2015 from Nicola BeerFear of an uncertain future can stop us from doing great things, and it can keep us holding onto things and habits that are hurting us. Today I will share 5 steps to deal with separation and divorce anxiety. I think it is fair to say, that the majority of us from time to time wonder what the ...
Views: 2435(1 vote) - A Relationship Guide for Men and Self Talk, think like a Child – Creating and Maintaining Social Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2020 from Brooke WhistanceBroadly speaking, humans can be divided into two groups based on their outward demeanors; reserved or social. Both these terms are not more than social constructs directed at an individual’s behavior towards a certain setting. By virtue of their existence, humans have an innate sense or ...
Views: 848(1 vote) - ANGER and our DARK SIDE ~ Do Not Fear It ~ Embrace It - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAnger and Our Dark Side ~ A force to be Reckoned With In my first book, Lessons for an Urban Goddess, I describe the importance of being in touch with both the light and dark sides of our nature. In order to live your life authentically and mindfully, it is imperative to regulate the ...
Views: 2211(1 vote) - Are you in a Toxic Relationship? Should you Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAre you in a TOXIC Relationship? Are you questioning if you should stay or go? Empowerment Coaching can help. Breaking away from a toxic relationship is very difficult. You may be suffering from emotional abuse, or you may be addicted to an unhealthy love relationship ...
Views: 2090(1 vote) - Arms and Altruism, The Practice of Selfless Concern for the Well Being of Others - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2013 from Enrique (Rick) RuizMany moons ago, our American founding fathers spurred a dialogue of constructive conflict that yielded a model constitution and a free republic. These innovators risked their lives in perilous times to give birth to a new nation. Some became very wealthy (e.g.- Washington, Franklin) while others ...
Views: 2040(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I get my husband into therapy? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance : I'm getting worried because my husband is drinking more, and laughing less. He works too much, he has lost interest in his guy friends and sports. He's gotten more tense, and is on edge and irritable. Sometimes he even yells at me and the kids. I think maybe he needs ...
Views: 1576(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I am a married man infatuated with a coworker half my age - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a happily married man in my mid-forties with 2 small kids who has become overwhelmingly infatuated with a 22 year old co-worker. She is friendly but certainly not coquettish and there is no suggestion she reciprocates. I have no intention of trying to pursue ...
Views: 1080(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I have become quite the online Romeo - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: Hi, I read a few of your articles. I always find your info helpful and interesting I have been divorced now going on 6 years, I am man in my early 40s, and have been internet dating consistently. Yikes! I never have trouble getting the ...
Views: 2362(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I need your help fast! - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am so happy I could find someone like you to talk to. I am a regular guy and I use your articles for my relationship and it has really helped me. But I am sending you this mail because I need your assistance and i need it fast. The problem is I have a very hot temper and it ...
Views: 1222(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I regret not telling her how I felt - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2017 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I was very attracted to a lady and I did things for her with out asking for any thing in return. She was single and I fixed her jeep, I put down new linoleum in her kitchen for her, we did go out together for drinks, dinner, dancing, movies as ...
Views: 2268(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I walked away when she needed me most - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a young man whose life has fallen apart because of the girl I love so much. I slept with her but then she betrayed me by telling every body she saw and I felt so bad and walked away from her when she needed me the most. I could count all the tears that run out of ...
Views: 2587(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: She is verbally abusive to me - by Submitted on Oct 30, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am a retired police officer who found his wife sneaking around with another man 3 years ago. We have 3 kids. I cook and clean and up ...
Views: 1237(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Why is my ex still calling me? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I was dating this guy for about 2 years. During the time that we were together we had some good times and bad. For one he was cheating on me with another girl then we got back together. During that time we worked hard to make the relationship work then I found out that ...
Views: 1454(1 vote) - Dilemmas of Codependent Men - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Darlene LancerThe dilemmas of codependent men aren’t talked about. Unlike women, men don’t discuss their relationship problems with friends and family. Instead, they internalize their pain. Many are in denial, suffer in silence, or become numb to their needs and feelings. They shun attention and try to do the ...
Views: 3372(2 votes) - Ghosts of the Wheat Harvest - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Dan L. HaysIn the fall of 1990, I was meeting with two other men on a regular basis to explore our dreams and aspirations. Every two weeks, we would gather at a Chinese buffet and talk for several hours about things we’d like to do some day. It was around the time of the Men’s Movement, where men went ...
Views: 1635(2 votes) - He Doesn’t REALLY Want the Perfect Woman - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2021 from Sahib BerwalHe Doesn’t REALLY Want the Perfect Woman He Wants These 3 Things from You Instead… How much time do you spend trying to be the kind of woman you think men want? If you’re like most women, it’s a LOT. You spend all this time making yourself look sexy and attractive. All this time presenting ...
Views: 864(1 vote) - Help me sleep - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2013 from Ethan ChongDo you know that prevention is better than cure? In fact, if you prevent insomnia from happening on you, you can lead a better life! Today in this article, I will provide you some tips and tricks that can help you sleep in no time! (I used these methods to help me sleep before, so have no ...
Views: 1717(1 vote) - How do I know whether or not a man is serious about me? - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2020 from Valeria TariMany of us have first-handedly experienced that during the acquaintance period of a romantic relationship, the man leads us on, makes empty promises, makes us believe he will down the stars from the sky for us, and he stops at nothing in order to get us in bed with him. Once the particular ...
Views: 1327(1 vote) - How to Cope with Depression - by Submitted on May 05, 2012 from Rosemary PriceDepression is one of the most awful things to get a handle on because you can be feeling dreadful yet to the outside World you look alright. You may have been feeling fine six months ago and now you are telling them that you wish you were dead, you are suicidal, you cannot get any enthusiasm to ...
Views: 1674(1 vote) - How To Overcome Psychological ED - 4 Effective Techniques - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2015 from David CarrerasPsychological ED hits men of all ages, young and old. In younger men, psychological ED generally hits due to the newness of sex... it is all so overwhelmingly exciting, combined with the unfair pressure of being expected to know what they are doing (when deep down they know they are ...
Views: 6809(1 vote) - How To Raise Your Testosterone Levels Through The Roof With The Endocrine Diet - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2011 from Plato PowersIt's no secret that back in the day men had much higher testosterone levels then they do today. There simply had to be something that motivated men to hack their way through the wilderness, and assemble a civilization. If one is a fan of old photographs, it is not uncommon to find snapshots of ...
Views: 26269(2 votes) - How to stop Quarrels with wife? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2019 from Sri TulasiQUARRELS WITH WIFE When husband and wife are fighting verbally, it is generally superficial. They do not harbour any vengeance from within. If you were to interfere and come in between, they will get their work done but eventually they will always stick together. Fights that do not result ...
Views: 950(1 vote) - It Sucks When Nice Guys Finish Last - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris Chandra“Nice guys finish last” I’m sure many shy men can relate with this statement. I’ve seen over the years that shy men have an air of “I’ll always be nice no matter what.” They are easily forgiving of others regardless of what the situation is. Overly NICE guys also tend to remember things ...
Views: 1614(1 vote) - Kindness and Discomfort, A How-to - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2015 from Jeff SandersMy stepfather Dick (not a pseudonym) is incredibly kind. He is so kind it often makes others around him uncomfortable. His kindness enervates a room and can trigger others to tease or to create an opposing position. He is regularly, persistently and unceasingly complimentary. He sees the ...
Views: 1454(1 vote) - Learn to Reduce Your Stress in 8 SIMPLE STEPS! - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAs featured in the HUFF POST: Learn to Reduce Your Stress in 8 Simple Steps! Stress can make an unfortunate appearance at any time of year, but when we are challenged, tired, or going through a crisis, it can spike. Though we can’t “stop” stress from entering our lives, we can take ...
Views: 1712(1 vote) - Narcissist's Reactions to Deficient, Fake, Negative, Low-grade, or Static Narcissistic Supply - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2011 from Sam VakninThe narcissist presents to the world a facade of invincibility, equanimity, superiority, skilfulness, cool-headedness, invulnerability, and, in short: indifference. This front is penetrated in times of great crises that threaten the narcissist's ability to obtain Narcissistic Supply, or when ...
Views: 6022(1 vote) - Relationship Coaching ~ 3 Reasons It Can Transform Your Life! - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachHi Friends, Relationship Coaching is empowering! It will help you transform your relationships (including the one with yourself!). Relationship Coaching is all the craze these days and you don't need to spend countless months or years in therapy. Here are 3 Reasons why it can ...
Views: 2118(1 vote) - Relationships and Conflict of Expectations - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHas your girl friend ever said this: “What does it take to get him to change” ? Or have you received advice from a friend saying: “You just need to train him how you want him to be”? As a Relationship Coach and the Heart Protector of Women I want to tackle the topic of trying to change ...
Views: 2426(1 vote) - Roland - A Guardian Angel to the Mayans of Guatemala - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Harold BeckerA few years ago, as I read through my morning group of incoming emails, I came upon a simple, yet unusual inquiry from a man in Guatemala. His name was Roland and he was from Sweden. He was seeking potential assistance from our organization, The Love Foundation, for a Mayan village that had been ...
Views: 2709(1 vote) - Seduction: From the Avenue to the Altar - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2011 from Jonathon AslayHas seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his ...
Views: 2174(1 vote) - Self-Compassion: Survival, Not Selfish - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2016 from Michael MantellEver travel with children or those needing assistance? Then you are quite familiar with the instructions flight attendants give passengers to put the mask on yourself first before helping others. Makes sense right? Perhaps Lama Yeshe said it best, “Be gentle first with yourself if you wish to ...
Views: 2688(1 vote) - SUPPORT GROUP - HOW TO DEAL WITH NARCISSISTS, MANIPULATORS, LOW EMPATHY RELATIONSHIPS - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship Coach*****If you believe you are dealing with a toxic relationship in your life (manipulator, narcissistic, low empathy) our empowerment & support group may be of help. We meet in Midtown Manhattan. Limited Seating. For more information contact me on Psychology ...
Views: 2228(1 vote) - The Effects of War on the Families of Soldiers - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Gayle Joplin Hall“I’m just trying to be a father, raise a daughter and a son, be a lover to their mother, everything to everyone…yeah, I’m real good under pressure being all that I can be…I just work straight through the holidays, and sometimes all night long…’cause freedom don’t come free.. I’m an American, an ...
Views: 2236(1 vote) - Top 5: how to boost your testosterone - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2021 from Rudiyr ToporWhy do men need testosterone, why is it dangerous and how can you raise its level? WHY DOES A MAN NEED TESTOSTERONE? "Testosterone" - as we communicate with each other, we call a whole group of hormones responsible for the formation and functionality of the male body - androgens. They give ...
Views: 862(2 votes) - Under Too Much Pressure, Ready to Pop Your Top? - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteFast paced life constantly under pressure? "I can't do it all to please everyone!" "There's not enough hours in the day." "I'm racing against the clock." These are but a few of the comments we utter in our stressed-out fast-paced life. Its true, even though we now have all kinds of ...
Views: 2183(1 vote) - What is Narcissistic Abuse? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2016 from Darlene LancerNarcissists don’t really love themselves. Actually, they’re driven by shame. It’s the idealized image of themselves, which they convince themselves they embody, that they admire. But deep down, narcissists feel the gap between the façade they show the world and their shame-based self. They work ...
Views: 2505(1 vote) - Why Do Bad Breakups Happen? - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2012 from Jesse MartinBreakups hurt as anyone going through one will attest to. Some people feel sad for a while, change some routines in their lives, reconnect with friends, and bounce back rather swiftly. Others, however, become entrenched in insurmountable sadness and gut wrenching grief. Why is it that some have ...
Views: 3387(1 vote) - Why is coitus always the most important for men? Why do they always want THAT? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Valeria TariAmong women, this question arises very often and not without reason, since nearly all of us have experienced this phenomenon. Men always want THAT! Yes, this is true, and it will not change either! Men expedite the development of a physical relationship and go to limitless extents in order ...
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