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- How’s your back-end? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2014 from Kathleen GageOne of my favorite shows is - America\'s Got Talent. I really enjoy watching raw talent come up from the ranks. There\'s great talent and there\'s... well, let\'s just say, less than great. Week after week acts are eliminated until one stands victorious as the winner. The mere fact that a ...
Views: 1488 - I Am Unwanted In My Marriage. My Husband Doesn't Want Me Anymore - Tips and Advice That Might Help - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI very often get emails from wives who confide that their husband doesn't want them anymore. This can be a loaded phrase. Sometimes, what the wife means is that the husband no longer seems to be attracted to them physically. Other times, the wife means that the husband no longer wants to be ...
Views: 701 - I Don't Understand What My Separated Spouse Wants From Me. We Aren't On The Same Page. - by Submitted on May 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneOne of the most common topics that I get asked about is how to read or interpret "mixed signals" from a separated spouse. Even when you're trying very hard to be open and to "go with the flow" as far as your separated spouse is concerned, it can be difficult when you both get frustrated with the ...
Views: 902 - I Don't Want To Give Up But My Husband Says Our Marriage Isn't Working: How To Work Around This - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife whose husband had been constantly telling her that their marriage "just wasn't working" for him anymore and that he was thinking about exploring other options. Needless to say, this wasn't what she wanted to hear. He'd been talking about separating, staying with ...
Views: 420 - I Feel Like My Husband Doesn't Care About Me Anymore. Does My Marriage Even Stand a Chance? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a woman who outlined pretty dreadful living conditions with her husband. She described a spouse who had pretty apathetic and cold. From the way that the wife described the situation, it seemed as if he either treated her with annoyance or pretended that she didn't exist. ...
Views: 707 - I No Longer Feel Loved By My Husband. What Do I Do? Tips That May Help. - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI get a lot of correspondence from wives who worry that their husbands are no longer are "in love" with them. These same wives are usually no longer receiving the affection or the affirmations that make someone in a marriage feel loved. These women will often tell me things like "it's almost as ...
Views: 800 - I Think A Midlife Crisis Made My Spouse Leave. How Do I Know If I'm Right? Look For These Signs. - by Submitted on May 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany of the wives who read my articles believe that at least part of the motivation behind their separation is their husband's midlife crisis. However, there is always the worry that the midlife crisis has become a catch-all for most unhappy husbands. Nonetheless, some wives rush to put their ...
Views: 1293 - I Think My Husband Hates Me: He Says He Doesn't Like Anything About Me. How Do You Respond To A Hateful Statement Like This? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who have recently been stung by something horribly hurtful that their husband has said. Sometimes, this happens during an argument or in the heat of the moment. Other times, their husband appears to be only attempting to be honest and not intending to hurt his wife. ...
Views: 617 - I Thought We Were Doing Better After My Husband Moved Out. But He Doesn't Know If He Wants To Stay With Me For The Rest Of His Life - by Submitted on May 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneOn the day of your marriage, you envision growing old with that man standing at the altar with you. The idea is that the two of you will navigate life's good days and bad days together. On this day, virtually none of us envision that this ideal is not actually going to happen. That's why it ...
Views: 2127 - I'm Ready To Be The Wife My Husband Deserves And Work Harder To Save My Marriage. My Husband Doesn't Care. He Thinks It's Too Late. - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2020 from Leslie CaneSometimes, you are fully aware that it is going to take a whole lot of work to save your marriage and you take responsibility for that. You are prepared for that. And you fully intend to follow through with any promises that you have made to your spouse. Perhaps you have gotten to a point ...
Views: 626 - Increase Your Business by Providing Out Promotional T-shirts - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2020 from kingof seoThere are lots of times when you will dsicover people wearing exciting looking T-shirts with styles and words which interest you as you move by. These T-shirts which in the beginning view seem to be your average looking T-shirt are in fact promotional Tshirts. Unlike the standard T shirts which ...
Views: 1292 - Increasing Competence as a Dad - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2011 from Armin BrottDear MrDad. I'm a new father. I haven't had much experience with infants and I want to be involved in my daughter's care, but every time I try to pick her up, she starts to fret. How can I feel more competent? A: Few things can make a man feel less like a man than feeling incompetent. And ...
Views: 1619 - Initiations, Trust And The Mature Masculine - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2021 from Joanna IntaraI know it seems like she’s nitpicking at you, and you’re taking it personally and ready to run for the hills. But really, she’s probably feeling self critical of herself and needs you to just love her and support her to get underneath the judgment to what’s in the heart instead. This post is ...
Views: 847 - Internet Porn Addiction: Not An Easy Nut to Crack - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenI've been sitting in a room talking to addicts for 25 years. All kinds of addicts. I've participated in the enormous struggles of alcoholics to get sober, cocaine, heroine, methamphetamine, food, love, nicotine, sex...all kinds of addictions. My conclusion, culled from clinical experience, is ...
Views: 2564 - Is He Your Knight in Shining Armor? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Karen CardMost men want to be the “Knight in Shining Armor.” When the Knight arrives to save the “Damsel in Distress,” he expects that he will have to work hard. To win the affection of the Damsel, the Knight knows he must be brave, work hard and slay the dragon. He is willing to put forth this effort ...
Views: 4578 - Is It Business? Or Is It Personal? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2013 from Annabelle DrummBy Annabelle Drumm Over the last few of weeks I've been hitting the online dating websites. Rather than being highly discerning I thought I would run it more like an Open Audition and I've discovered something really interesting. So far I've talked to men from all walks of life... plus a few ...
Views: 1402 - It’s Never Too Late To Find Your Mate - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2020 from Rita MartellI’m cruising around the world with 1300 people I don’t know. For the next four months, I’m living in a community of neighbors of all ages from multiple countries who have multiple reasons for making this journey. For some, it’s their first world cruise, and for others, it’s their 7th or 8th. ...
Views: 966 - I’m Fine!…And You? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2012 from Geoff LaughtonHow many times have you heard this when you ask someone how they’re doing: “I’m FINE! And you?”…and, you simply KNEW that you were being fed a line of hooey? How often has that happened to you with men as opposed to women? Perhaps, in these times, it’s an even more important question to ask, ...
Views: 1815 - Just Another MAN-ic Monday - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2013 from Dwayne KlassenAccording Wikipedia the word, Manic means: affected with, relating to, characterized by or resulting from. It's a perfect word to describe what many men are feeling in this rapidly changing world. For our purposes today we'll use the word MAN tongue-in-cheek in Manic. The reason is, men have ...
Views: 1568 - Key Tips to Keep Your Man Interested - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2013 from Smith BarlayTired of dating and looking for a more committed relationship? The challenge is, how can you find a worthy fellow and keep in interested in you when every other female is on the prowl for him? You can't very well lock him up. Start By Loving Yourself This is a really effective method to ...
Views: 1313 - Latest and new news on computer technology - by Technology has seeped into all aspects of our lives today. And keeping up with the latest emerging technology is becoming more and more important in today's scenario. If you are in the field of information technology, you have to be aware of the latest trends in technology. Being in the ...
Views: 267 - Little makeover will help you appeal men more easily - by Submitted on May 30, 2011 from Marina JanakievskaPerhaps men are the true hunters, granting to lots searches that is in their nature, but on other side, women are the ones that want to appeal, some of them with their skills and personality, some with their look… That is the cause why people made up high hills, makeup, hair shades, mini skirts, ...
Views: 1256 - Love Advice from Male Astrology - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Chris ReynoldsIt's amazing just how much impact the astrological traits of our ruling Planets have when it comes to those key relationships as well as our love lives. In this article I wanted to further explore astrological lover’s traits and compatibility, within the male relationship realm. The male ...
Views: 1301 - Luxury travel in England - by Historically, previous and not half as high to strong as people do, England is up there with Europe's very best countries to visit. From London's bright light to the ever - inviting green landscape, England, as they say, simply has it all.
Luxury travel in the country is especially rewarding. ...
Views: 265 - Marriage prediction by date of birth: Marry your loved one using free marriage prediction - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2020 from specialist astrologerMarriage prediction by date of birth is a very unique astrological constraint which can predict the complete details about your marriage. If you are planning for marriage then free marriage prediction can help you to lead a happy marital life. Marriage is consider as a very holy tradition in ...
Views: 1312 - Masculinity: Do Some Men Need To Embrace Their Masculine Nature? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is into self-development or if they simply stay up to date with what its taking place in the mainstream media, they may have heard people talk about how men need to embrace their feminine side/nature. This is because they are out of touch with this side of themselves, and unless this ...
Views: 2004 - Masculinity: Does A Man Need To Heal His Father Wounds If He Is Out Of Touch With His Masculinity? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, that’s if he was to take a step back and to reflect on his life, is that it is a challenge for him to assert himself. As a result of this, it can be normal for other people to walk over him. It is then not that other people will physically walk over him; it is that they ...
Views: 934 - Masculinity: Why Do Some Men Have A Strong Need To Be Desired By Women? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is straight, it could be said that it will be normal for him to have the need to be seen as desirable to the opposite sex. And while this could apply to women in general, it could have far more to do with the type of women that he finds attractive. Through being seen as desirable, a ...
Views: 1137 - Melt His Heart _ My Sweetheart Lost His Affection For Me - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2012 from Tony CimbaQuite a number of young women don't even have a notion about how to get a guy back after he has lost his affection for them. They just about consistently go about it the wrong way! Happily, there's truly an easy fix to the situation! Girls, does this sound somewhat familiar to you? You happen ...
Views: 5187 - Men Are Like Waffles - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2014 from Karen CardWhy is it so hard to figure out the opposite sex? Because our brains work differently. Men’s brains are really good at focusing completely on just one thought and women’s brains are really good at thinking many thoughts at the same time. This difference can make it hard to figure out what ...
Views: 2613 - Men's Sexual Health Treatment - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2012 from lincy thomasMen's Sexual Health Treatment Men's Sexual Health Treatment Male sexual health includes infertility problems, sexually transmitted diseases and erectile dysfunction. This article will focus on sexual dysfunction. Remedies include prescription or non-prescription drugs, surgery and ...
Views: 1684 - Men, Sex Addiction and Depression - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenMy work over the last fifteen years as a psychotherapist treating sexual compulsions has brought me into contact with men - and more men. They come to my consulting room wearing the mask of shame, humiliation, and confusion. Often, after a period of therapy, they come to a common link among ...
Views: 3969 - Mixed Messages During The Separation Or Divorce: He Says He Wants To Get Back Together In Front Of The Kids, But He Doesn't Act On It - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany wives have separated husbands who are saying one thing in front of the kids, but are then saying different things behind closed doors. Many times, the husband will put on a happy face or paint a positive picture about getting back together when the children are around. But, when the ...
Views: 575 - Monogamous Sex and Sustainable Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2011 from Betty LouiseAs we begin to understand the differences in the male and female brain regarding our sexual desires and libidos, it feels important to examine the way we view monogamy in a long term sustainable relationship. Monogamy, as defined by wikipedia, is one + marriage; a form of marriage in which an ...
Views: 2247 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Did A Man’s Father Play A Part In Why He Is Enmeshed To His Mother? - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2019 from Oliver JR Cooper. If a man’s life basically revolves around his mother and, therefore, he has the tendency to neglect his own needs, there is a good chance that he is a mother enmeshed man. He is then not going to act like an individual; he will act as though he is an extension of his mother. If he has the ...
Views: 1076 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Do Some Men Stay Attached To Their Mothers Out Of Loyalty? - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some men are able to break away from their mothers, there are other men who are unable to do this. When this doesn’t take place, not only is it going to cause the men to suffer; it is also going to cause the women in their life to suffer. However, if a man has turned his back on women ...
Views: 3937 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Feel Guilty When They Are In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to end up in an intimate relationship, he may find that he feels fairly comfortable. Perhaps he is with someone who he has a good connection with and is physically attracted to. There is then going to be no reason for him to keep this area of his life to himself, with him being ...
Views: 1484 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Go Off Sex When They Are In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperBefore a man has even got to the point where he is in a relationship with a woman, there is a strong chance that they will already be having sex. If this is not the case, it could show that he is religious. Conversely, it could be a sign that he is more traditional and wants to take his ...
Views: 1618 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Do Some Men Only Have Casual Sex? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperFor some men, casual sex is something that they will engage in from time to time, while there are others who only have casual sex. When it comes to the former, this could be something that takes place after a man has just been in a relationship. Going with another woman, more or less ...
Views: 1574 - Mother Enmeshed Men: Why Don’t Some Men Break Away From Their Mothers? - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2014 from Oliver JR CooperFor many years, men have been seen as being one way and women as being another way. And part of this related to men being the ones who were independent and the women as being dependent. So a man would be an example of the masculine on the outside and on the inside and a women’s outer femininity ...
Views: 4639 - Mother Wounds: Does A Man Re-experience The Issues That He Had With His Mother When He’s In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is currently in a relationship, he could be with a woman who is often cold, distant and dismissive of his feelings. As a result of this, he could often feel angry and even hateful and low, invisible and worthless. Now, this might not be the first time he has been with a woman like ...
Views: 760 - My Difficult Father by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomMy difficult father by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc changed. I realised that my dad was a controlling and selfish, demanding fault finding man when I reached the age of twelve. I could never do anything right. One day when I was standing in the kitchen stirring the ...
Views: 982 - My Husband Says I'm Too Needy And He's Not Responsible For My Happiness. What Does That Mean For My Marriage? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneWhen you are struggling in your marriage, it is perfectly natural to want to analyze everything that your spouse is saying. After all, you know that you are on shaky ground, but you just don't know how bad things are or how bad things are going to get. So, you listen carefully to your spouse and ...
Views: 869 - My Husband Admitted He's No Longer Attracted To Me. What Now? Know That Attraction Isn't Always About Looks - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneRecently, I heard from a wife who was devastated. Her husband had sat her down and very matter of factly told her that he no longer found her attractive. He told her that this was a big problem because he felt that he needed to be physically attracted in order to remain invested in the marriage. ...
Views: 581 - My Husband Completely Neglects Me. I Know That I'm Losing My Husband - What Can I Do To Save My Marriage? - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife who told me that she could literally feel her husband slipping away from her. She said in part: "I know that I'm losing him. I can feel it. He just doesn't seem all that interested in me or the marriage anymore. I feel like any day now, he's going to tell me that he ...
Views: 1307 - My Husband Doesn't Love Me Any Longer But I Still Love Him. Can I Make Him Fall Back In Love With Me? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives whose husbands have told them that he no longer loves them. They often don't want to accept this and some doubt if it's even true. These women want to know if they have to accept this or if there is anything at all that they can do. I often hear comments like: "my ...
Views: 1410 - My Husband Doesn't Say "I Love You Back." Does He Love Me At All? - by Submitted on May 08, 2020 from Leslie CaneOne of the questions I am often asked is, "How do I know if my husband still loves me? Because he never tells me that he loves me anymore. Sometimes, when I tell him that I love him, he changes the subject or doesn't reply. He never shows me affection." While I can't know your specific ...
Views: 720 - My Husband Feels Like A Stranger To Me. What To Do When You Don't Know Who Your Husband is Anymore. - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently received correspondence from a wife who was feeling increasingly distant from her husband. Over the past few years, she had noticed some changes in him. And, these were changes that she didn't like all that much. She told me that her husband used to be easy going and laid back. Today, ...
Views: 726 - My Husband Filed For A Divorce In The Heat Of The Moment. He Is Furious With Me. Could He Possibly Calm Down And Still Care? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from folks who have been filed with divorce papers from a spouse who acted in the heat of the moment. Often, one spouse has done something to make the other so mad that they feel compelled to do something very dramatic in order to make a statement. Sometimes, this statement ...
Views: 635 - My Husband Filed For Divorce Suddenly But I Don't Want It And Am Running Out Of Time. What Can I Do?: Here Are Some Tactics To Try. - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from women whose husbands are hinting that they want or intend to file for a divorce. Sometimes, though, there is a more dire situation. I hear from wives whose husbands have just filed the paperwork to set the divorce in motion. Such was the case yesterday. I heard from a wife in ...
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