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- What is Adult Dating? - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2010 from Tamara WilkinsAdult dating involves consenting adults meeting either personally or else interconnecting on the internet for a common purpose (usually sexual). There are various purposes or else styles that adult dating entails. Some examples are those who seek interracial dating, others swinging, dogging, ...
Views: 1704(4 votes) - Who Really Cheats - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2010 from Womens Recreation, Inc.It seems like everyone wants to know who is more likely to cheat and what the signs are. Well the plain truth of the matter is that you absolutely have no control over the actions of another person. They will cheat if they want to. Whatever they want to do, they will do it. Don’t take it ...
Views: 1576(4 votes) - 3 Ways to Determine If He Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2010 from Andrew HunterWhile human beings live on the planet earth, you will see cheaters in our midst. It may not be right, nonetheless it is a sad truth. Say you guess that you may not be the sole woman involved in your man's world, listed here are a number of clues he is sneaking around behind your ...
Views: 1096(3 votes) - Dealing With Affairs in the Christian Community - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Martez LaytonI have been in the Christian community all of my life, but I cannot remember one time ever hearing someone teach on affairs in the church. I remember hearing about preachers cheating, the deacon cheating and the church secretaries cheating but never hearing or seeing this issue being dealt with ...
Views: 4253(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Why this compulsion to cheat? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm looking at myself and asking the question, "Why this compulsion to cheat?" What will it take to keep my eye from wandering around? I'm divorced, technically, but trying to make amends with the ex. I love my kids, and an absentee father just doesn't fit my taste. I'd ...
Views: 2690(5 votes) - 14 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Sulagna DasguptaAre you of late wondering if something has changed in your relationship? Does it seem to you that your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore? Is it possible that he’s cheating on you? This article brings to you fourteen powerful signs to tell if he’s cheating. 1. Use your woman’s intuition: You ...
Views: 14088(2 votes) - 3 Things Successful Couples Do to Keep Their Marriage Strong - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you constantly ask yourself "how in the world am I going to save my marriage?" Are there times when you feel like saving your marriage is a long shot? Is it getting to the point where you can hardly think straight, sleep at night or worse, can't perform your job well? If any of these ...
Views: 1909(2 votes) - Cheating Spouse Signs - Going it Alone - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Daryl CampbellWe know that marriage is not going to be like it was when we are dating. Everything seems heightened during the courting phase of the relationship. We are so in tune with each other and the level of fascination about the other person never stops growing. We want to know what they are doing, ...
Views: 844(2 votes) - Dating a Married Man - Make Him Yours or Get out of this Addiction Fast! - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Sally WebbDating a married man aka being the other woman is one of the hardest thing in the world. I remember couple years ago I let myself blindly get involved in a relationship with a cheating husband. I didn't like him at first and no matter what excuse I threw to myself, it's nothing to do with how ...
Views: 46276(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I caught him at the movies with her - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been married for 15 years. At the present time we are seeing a Marriage counselor for our really rocky marriage. I know its going to take some time. We are working on trust, understanding, caring, appreciation, and a few others, all the essentials of a marriage. But a ...
Views: 1464(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: Is it appropriate for him to still have her in his life? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older ...
Views: 1288(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: To this day I am not sure why he became so angry - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr Romance: I hope you will be able to provide me with an insight. I was in a relationship with a man I genuinely loved and wanted future with. Our relationship was lovely to start with but after a few months problems started to emerge: another woman told me he was in a ...
Views: 1083(2 votes) - Dr. Romance on 10 signs a guy is cheating on you - by Submitted on May 25, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: Telling a guy you won't stand for cheating is a waste of time. Instead, be open and accepting, and encourage him to talk about his sexual exploits. If he's cheated before, he probably will cheat again. The best protection against cheating is to have open and frank ...
Views: 1590(2 votes) - Forgiveness - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Michelle GottliebForgiveness. That can be a very tough concept. When someone has hurt you, should you forgive them? Do you want to forgive them? What happens if you choose not to? What happens to you if you chose to forgive? I have worked with many couple where there has been infidelity. This is a very ...
Views: 1610(2 votes) - Is It Possible To Stay Lovers For Life? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from hanna brulskaIs It Possible To Stay Lovers For Life? For twenty years Sharyn Wolf, LCSW has been a marriage counselor and psychotherapist practicing in Manhattan New York City. She is considered a relationship expert whose advices and suggestions have supposedly helped married couples to build successful ...
Views: 2559(2 votes) - Managing the Emotional Aftermath of the Affair - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Andrew HunterIf your husband cheated on you, then you know only too well how devastating this sort of news can be to your life and your emotional well-being. In an instant, your self-esteem and confidence can be shattered, the foundation of one of the most important parts of your life--your marriage--is ...
Views: 882(2 votes) - Pornography: Why You Must Not Look – 8 Tips for Overcoming This Evil - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Matthew TooneEach of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ...
Views: 17239(4 votes) - Thoughts About Confronting The Other Woman - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes it feels so good to be bad and say, “I know I might regret it, but what the hell!” Sometimes crossing the line can make you feel justified… especially if you have been wronged by the person really close to you. And nothing can push you to be a bad ass than being a victim of ...
Views: 5445(2 votes) - Three Most Important Phases To Recovering From Affair - Fixing A Relationship After Cheating - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2011 from Brenda StewartThe best way to recovering from affair is to have a predetermined plan so you can follow right from the beginning. Knowing what to do and more importantly when to do it is the key to rebuilding your relationship on a stronger foundation. Basically you need a good step by step plan that you can ...
Views: 1610(2 votes) - Top 5 Infidelity Signs To Know If Your Boyfriend - Husband Is Cheating - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Brenda StewartIf you are convinced that your husband is cheating on you, the first thing you should do is to think about what made him act like that. Maybe it was because your behavior, daily problems, the fact that you are together for some years now and monotony began to emerge or maybe working in excess or ...
Views: 1983(2 votes) - Typical Signs Of Cheating In A Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2010 from Jessica AndrewsThere are numerous Signs that can signal a partner is Cheating in a Relationship. Should your partner work late without any explanation, has more meetings and other functions than normal, or is heading out with friends more often than ever before, there's a good reason to be concerned. Also ...
Views: 1131(2 votes) - What To Do When Your Husband Is Having An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Brenda StewartRebuilding a marriage after an affair is a very daunting task that need a lot of efforts from both partners. Even if your husband cheated on you if you really want to rebuild your marriage then you have to understand that this process can only be done in two. If you don't know what to do when ...
Views: 1646(2 votes) - Why are Partners Unfaithful - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2009 from Marty TashmanWhy are Partners Unfaithful Over the years I have been asked “Why did he/she do it” below are reasons that partners make the choice to go outside the marriage. This is a list of 13 of the most common reasons that people go outside of the marriage for an affair is not a justification, it is ...
Views: 1628(2 votes) - Why People Have Marital Affairs - by Submitted on May 10, 2010 from Peggy FergusonWhy, when most people believe in monogamous marriages, and that affairs are "wrong", are so many couples struggling to recover from infidelity? Most people do not intend to have an affair and most couples never would have believed that it would happen to them. Affairs happen in the marriages of ...
Views: 2419(2 votes) - Women Who Step Out on Their Man - The Four Main Causes - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterMen have little control over whether or not their women step out on them - it's their perception of the state of the relationship, and not the reality, that motivates them. Your qualities as a companion - as a lover - are immaterial. If a women decides that her relationship is less than ...
Views: 1671(2 votes) - 3 Dangerous Relationship Killers That Could be Driving Your Husband into Another Woman’s Arms - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Andrew HunterDo you feel like your relationship isn’t the same it used to be? Sure, maybe those butterflies from when you first started dating aren’t there anymore, and that’s normal. But if it seems like you and your spouse are just out of synch or if some serious conflict is threatening to tear your ...
Views: 4055(3 votes) - Are You Crazy, or is He Cheating? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2009 from Lisa DailyThe weird hang-up calls. The erratic work hours. The stories that just don’t quite add up. You have the gnawing, sickly feeling that your man is cheating on you. But how do you know for sure? Finding signs of cheating is like pulling a stray piece of yarn in a pair of socks. It only takes one ...
Views: 1518(3 votes) - Do Men Cheat More Than Women? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Mack TacticsSo who cheats more, men or women? This is a popular and controversial question. There aren't any exact statistics available on this, and the numbers would surely be innacurate, anyway. This is because when it comes to people admitting their cheating in polls and surveys, men tend to inflate ...
Views: 16524(3 votes) - HOW TO GET OVER YOUR PAST (AND PAST YOUR HURT) By Mort Fertel - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2009 from Mort FertelHas your spouse neglected you? Rejected you? Emotionally abused you? Are you struggling to get over the pain of an affair? If you're having marriage problems, the chances are good that you need to put some hurt behind you. It's one of the most common questions I get. "Mort, I want to ...
Views: 3209(3 votes) - Is it an affair? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2009 from Dana VinceThere is the obvious definition of an affair, having sex with someone other than your spouse. But are there different types of affairs? And now that we have the Internet, how does that add to the problem. One of the ways to define an affair is to ask the question, is what you are doing ...
Views: 1764(3 votes) - Is It Possible To Salvage Your Marriage After Infidelity Has Occurred? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2010 from George FellowsThe emotional wreckage that comes after the discovery of an affair, makes it tough for couples to work towards rebuilding their marriage after infidelity has occurred.However your marriage after an affair can also become a relationship that is stronger and more loving than it was before. Read on ...
Views: 2651(3 votes) - Relationship Advice for Women - Surviving Infidelity & Emotional Affairs - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2009 from Sarah MichaelsSurviving infidelity is a touchy subject in any relationship that has experienced it - and many women seek relationship advice in order to deal with this heart and deal breaking occurrence. Whether or not the infidelity is a physical affair, a breach of trust or an emotional affair, the ...
Views: 3943(4 votes) - "I am Terrified that S/he will Abandon Me! I will Do Anything to Avoid It!" - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Sam VakninClinging and smothering behaviours are the unsavoury consequences of a deep-set existential, almost mortal fear of abandonment and separation. For the codependent to maintain a long-term, healthy relationship, she must first confront her anxieties head on. This can be done via psychotherapy: the ...
Views: 2063(2 votes) - 2 Critical Ways to Save Marriage After an Affair - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Mika MaddelaIt's probably safe for me to assume that you're trying to overcome the turmoil you're going through because your partner chose to have an affair. I am so sorry for how these past few days, weeks and months have been for you, I know it hasn't been easy. But do no lose hope, because with work and ...
Views: 1137(1 vote) - 21 Signs of an Affair That Cheating Husbands Are Compelled to Do - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2011 from Andrew HunterDo you think your husband may be cheating on you? I know the frustration and worry that something like this can cause. I’ve been there myself. Let me share a few things that a cheating partner can’t help but do. These are small things that can easily get overlooked, but these are the trail ...
Views: 1575(1 vote) - 3 Important Phases For Dealing With Infidelity - Surviving An Affair Solution - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Brenda StewartAfter finding out about the affair, it is common not to know where to start the healing process and once you learn how to deal with infidelity, surviving an affair will become much easier. Because you are experiencing a crisis after your spouse cheated on you it is hard for you to begin saving ...
Views: 1779(2 votes) - 3 Important Rules For Surviving An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Brenda StewartWhen a couple is surviving an affair they are struggling with regaining the trust because after one of the partners has cheated, the other one is doubting about the cheater's ability to heal after the affair and repairing the relationship. After a spouse has cheated the task of rebuilding the ...
Views: 1267(2 votes) - 3 Signs of an Affair - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Andrew HunterIt can be a truly devastating experience to discover that your husband is having an affair. Your mind is flooded with all kinds of haunting images of him with the other woman, you want to know the details of what happened, and you can barely get through the day with all the thoughts that swarm ...
Views: 1026(1 vote) - 3 Tips to Prevent an Affair in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2009 from Susie and Otto CollinsJanet can't believe how far apart she and her husband Mark have grown. To Janet, her husband seems nothing like the man that she married almost 20 years ago. That man wouldn't have had an affair. To be fair, she has changed as well. When Janet looks at the way she sometimes acts when ...
Views: 1644(2 votes) - 4 Soul Mate Mistakes: Avoid These or Suffer - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMost singles want to find a soul mate, but aside from the common romantic assumptions about this elusive magical bond, they generally don't stop to think about the spiritual purpose of soul mates or the true meaning of the term. Thanks to movies, TV, and romance novels, the perception of a ...
Views: 4123(1 vote) - 5 Crucial Elements Of Moving On After An Affair - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterForgiving an affair is a real challenge Few events in your life will be as devastating as learning that your partner has been cheating on you. Many couples will decide to end the relationship at that point, but those that decide to try to stick it out and make it work may find themselves in a ...
Views: 8013(2 votes) - 9 Steps to Forgive an Emotional Affair Without Going Insane - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannAre you struggling to put the past behind you? What if I gave you a simple instruction manual on how to forgive an emotional affair? It's common knowledge that the lies, deception and subsequent broken trust caused by emotional infidelity is much more difficult to forgive than the damage done ...
Views: 30662(2 votes) - Addressing a Betrayal or an Emotional Affair by Linda Lipshutz, MS, ACSW - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from linda lipshutzI Want to Believe Him, But………. In today’s world, we like to think of ourselves as worldly and open-minded in our love relationships, but what happens when our instincts are telling us that something is not quite right? Listen to your Gut Feelings!!!!! It wasn’t too long ago that family ...
Views: 2105(1 vote) - Am I Having an Emotional Affair? This Quiz Will Reveal the Truth - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2013 from Jacob ElichmannAre you unsure whether or not you have strayed into the realms of emotional infidelity? Are you worried that perhaps someone other than your spouse has become your top priority? Or maybe you're here reading this because your husband or wife wants you to see for yourself that your ...
Views: 4752(1 vote) - Are All Men Genetically Wired to Cheat? The Truth May Shock You - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Andrew HunterDid you know that scientists have discovered an actual gene that they believe may have a correlation to a man’s likelihood of cheating on his partner? This gene is called allele 334 (if you had a habit of sleeping through your biology class, like me, an allele is part of a chromosome). A man ...
Views: 3873(2 votes) - Are you stuck in the dance of guilt? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Nigel LewisThe Dance of Guilt What is guilt? Have you ever realized how you react to guilt? Most of us do what I call the dance of guilt. Life is so much about moving towards or moving away from anything and everything. When we feel guilty we often retreat into the moving away from stance. We withdraw ...
Views: 2606(2 votes) - Bouncing Back From Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes life can be pretty funny- it throws you a curveball, hands you a lemon, or knocks you for a loop, but being aware how to approach failure can be the first step to success. In life and in relationships, it is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you lived so guardedly ...
Views: 1117(2 votes) - Breaking Up With Someone You Love - It is just a phase - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoFor most of the lovers out here, even the concept of breaking up with someone you love, may be hard enough to make you feel devastated. It is a human instinct to avoid thinking and imagining things that they rarely wish to see taking place. Nevertheless the reality of life is that we often have ...
Views: 3475(1 vote) - Broken Heart and Infidelity Advice: “I didn't realize that I was the 'other woman'” - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsA breakup can be excruciating to go through. The end of your relationship can evoke feelings of loss, grief, sadness and anger. In these moments of pain, it might seem that you will never be as happy again. You may wonder if you'll ever have another love like this. Patti feels this ...
Views: 1800(1 vote) - Catching Mr. Duplicity - by Submitted on May 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you feel that your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? Well, if your intuition is strongly nagging you that you are being duped, then you need to get to the bottom of it. Don’t allow a cheater to get away with his philandering. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect! No one ...
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