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- Signs Of Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 17, 2010 from Stefan KovacSigns Of Cheating. Are the one you love cheating on you? What are some signs of cheating that correlate with a cheater? I've listed a few of the main and minor signs of cheating that cheaters usually display whether they realize it or not. No matter how hard a cheater could try to cover ...
Views: 1874(4 votes) - After the Divorce - Trust after Infidelity - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Maryann CanditoIf you’ve been the victim of marital infidelity and are now working through the divorce; healing infidelity can be a daunting process. As much as you think to yourself, how will I move on? There will come a time when you will be interested in dating again, therefore trust after infidelity is ...
Views: 3780 - How to leave Your Girlfriend without Drama - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Andre ZiziIt is hard breaking for any human to discover that the partner you trusted has actually dumped you. It's heart breaking for you, it's difficult for them, however if you really jump the gun in public place or in front of your neighbours, it’s strips both of you from your own dignity, and quite ...
Views: 6786 - How to Help Your Spouse Stop Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Angie LewisThe principles in this article can be used for the cheating spouse as well as for the loved one of an unfaithful spouse. People cheat because they lack the spiritual Christ in their life. Unfaithfulness has to do with still living for self instead of for our Creator. Put these principles to ...
Views: 2061 - How to Save Your Marriage if You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2010 from Angie LewisWhat I am about to tell you is NOT a new concept, although you will not get this kind of advice very often when dealing with a cheating spouse because most people don’t think adultery is fixable. But I am here to tell you that you can heal from the affects of adultery and be a better spouse for ...
Views: 3653 - 5 Clues That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Andrew HunterCan't put a finger on it, but is something a little weird regarding your relationship with your girlfriend lately? Gut feelings mean something – your girl may be cheating on you. Besides that gut feeling, there are other signs you should be aware of. Don't be hasty, though, these are just signs. ...
Views: 3897 - 5 Crucial Elements Of Moving On After An Affair - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterForgiving an affair is a real challenge Few events in your life will be as devastating as learning that your partner has been cheating on you. Many couples will decide to end the relationship at that point, but those that decide to try to stick it out and make it work may find themselves in a ...
Views: 8013(2 votes) - 5 Steps To Healing The Hurt Of Infidelity - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterThere are not many things you'll experience in life as painful as your partner cheating on you. There are ways to deal with the pain of infidelity if you choose to forgive it. Right now, the pain you're feeling is probably overwhelming. Believe it or not, there advantages to forgiving someone ...
Views: 6708 - What Kills Relationships and How to Save Yours - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Nicole GayleIn a moment I'm going to tell you the root cause that kills all relationship and strangled yours. Right now you're suffering because of your relationship. The emotional turmoil and pain you're in because of your breakup or relationship problem is costing you your quality of life. You may have ...
Views: 4777 - Forgiving Your Spouse For Cheating - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Dena TilsonLearning that your spouse has had an affair turns your world upside down. Once you recover from the initial shock you will realize that you have two choices about what course to take as far as your marriage is concerned. You can choose to end the relationship or you can choose to make an effort ...
Views: 4514 - Internet Business – Find Internet Business, Earn Money Through Internet - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Jigney BhachechInternet Business Ever since its inception, internet has been one of the greatest revolutions in the human history. It has invaded into almost all the aspects of human life. With the help of internet, internet business is becoming more and more popular nowadays. Online based business requires ...
Views: 1927 - Communication Tips to Help You Talk Commitment Even When You're Not Ready for Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsLindsay and Brian have been dating for about a month now. They've been spending every weekend together. Both of them are beginning to wonder if this is turning into something more. This is an exciting time for Lindsay and Brian. They are having fun together and their growing intimacy is ...
Views: 3312(5 votes) - Technology Aided Infidelity - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2010 from Miho AdkinsAt 5:00 pm he called his wife to tell her he will have supper with co workers and then go to a client meeting. Her innocent response is "Have a great night, see you later". At 5:15 he left his office and is headed to a small city some thirty miles from his office. He checked his text messages ...
Views: 1856 - Eating Cake - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Mike EdwardsIn a recent article by JD Dean Signs of a Cheating Boyfriend there appears a reference to a well know incorrect saying; "You can't have your cake and eat it" Why is this incorrect? Simply, you can have your cake and you can eat it, it is just that there will be no cake left. However, ...
Views: 2762(2 votes) - Can a Cheater Truly Change? - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleDo you believe the adage of “once a cheater, always a cheater”? I believe the answer lies in understanding the motivation and character of the cheater in question. People only take one second to determine whether they find someone sexually attractive. Then in only three minutes, they decide ...
Views: 3177 - Save a Marriage - Reasons For Divorce and How to Stop it Dead in Its Tracks! - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2010 from Ryan DiedrichNot knowing where to turn when you marriage is on the brink of failure is a horrible feeling. The sleepless nights, the stress at home, and the pure anxiety are all very common and you are not alone. There is a 50% that you and your spouse will end up in divorce, especially if you live in the ...
Views: 2847 - Solve Unhappy Relationship Issues and Commitment Problems—Actions Speak Louder Than Words - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbAre you having trouble finding commitment in a relationship? I have heard of many people who are very unhappy with a current association or situation in their life. It is not what they want. These people continually go around asking others for their opinion as to how to get the conditions ...
Views: 2821(1 vote) - Monogamy. Is It Worth It? - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Kara OhThis is a big subject but I have a few ideas I’d like to share from my workshops and from my studies of cultural anthropology. I believe men’s nature is to have multiple partners. Polygyny (the practice of having more than one wife at a time) is preferred by 85% of the cultures today. Think ...
Views: 2573 - Should A Woman Say Yes to Sex Every Time? - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2010 from Sonika TinkerI remember hearing years ago from a man I studied with, that he and his wife had an agreement: she was to say "yes" to him every time he wanted sex. It was the condition for the fulfillment of their monogamy promise. "If you want me to only have sex with you, then you need to provide for and ...
Views: 10239(3 votes) - Heal The Past......Heal The Present - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2010 from Adele Tartaglia INSTANT SUBCONSCIOUS REPROGRAMMING The Life Management Center 480/220-2089 eztherapy@gmail.comPart II What Can Past Life Regression Do for Us? The emotional reactions associated with past life events which are most often seen in therapy, involve emotional residues of the fear based emotions such as anger, resentment, revenge, fear, guilt, remorse; and distortions of love manifesting ...
Views: 2629(1 vote) - Why Do People Cheat? – Dealing with Infidelity - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Cindy L. HerbLately, a number of people in my life have discovered that the person they thought was totally devoted to them has been unfaithful. It has caused great pain for them. Each of us looks for love and when we think we have found it, we can often be later disappointed when we learn that our ...
Views: 3642(2 votes) - Are you stuck in the dance of guilt? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Nigel LewisThe Dance of Guilt What is guilt? Have you ever realized how you react to guilt? Most of us do what I call the dance of guilt. Life is so much about moving towards or moving away from anything and everything. When we feel guilty we often retreat into the moving away from stance. We withdraw ...
Views: 2606(2 votes) - Caught Cheating? Here's The Key To Winning Trust Back - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou never thought that this would happen. You cannot even believe that it’s happening now. Everything is so surreal, so unbelievable. You were caught cheating with undisputable evidences. Now, you have no choice but to come clean. Coming clean and ‘fessing it all up is probably the hardest ...
Views: 1485 - Sandra Bullock & Jesse James Astrology Analysis - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Gurmeet SinghSandra Bullock (born July 26th, 1964 at 3:15 AM in Arlington, VA) is an American film actress. She came to fame in the 1990s, after roles in successful films like Speed, While You Were Sleeping and one of her most recent film roles in 2005’s Crash. According to Vedic Astrology or indian ...
Views: 2875 - 3 Tips for Stopping Jealousy Before It Snowballs into Something Unstoppable - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWe've all seen cartoons in which a character shapes snow into a ball, perhaps to build a snowman. As the ball of snow is rolled, it grows bigger and bigger. Pretty soon that snowball is quite large and here comes a slope or hill... The next thing we see are the arms and legs of our ...
Views: 4346(10 votes) - Catching Mr. Duplicity - by Submitted on May 24, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you feel that your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you? Well, if your intuition is strongly nagging you that you are being duped, then you need to get to the bottom of it. Don’t allow a cheater to get away with his philandering. You deserve to be treated fairly and with respect! No one ...
Views: 2922(1 vote) - Letting go of a relationship - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2011 from Elsabe SmitWhy is it that we hold on to relationships long past their natural end? Think of a friendship that no longer exists. Do you still remember how your friend insulted or deserted you? You gained new friends, but you still feel that hurt. Remember that supervisor who made your life such ...
Views: 3523(3 votes) - Saving Your Marriage from an Affair - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Jay LindsayKathy found me on line and called me from her home in Atlanta. The night before, her husband Jim, a corporate executive, had confessed that he had recently ended an eight-month affair with his administrative assistant. Kathy was devastated, but she wanted to save her marriage. Now she was ...
Views: 1260(2 votes) - How My Husband Won My Heart Back: Confessions Of A Cheating Wife - by Submitted on May 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt has been said that women are less likely to cheat but when they do, the affair can be really serious and intense. That’s because when a woman cheats on her husband, she is likely to have an emotional affair rather than a fleeting one night stand. And because of this emotional intimacy based ...
Views: 13788 - Signs Of A Troubled Relationship - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s normal to have “ups and downs” in a romantic affair. But when the “down” part seizes most of your togetherness, then you have to assess: Is your relationship in trouble? One of the basic keys on how to save a relationship is being aware of it signs. Here are the signs of a troubled ...
Views: 1337(1 vote) - “He Cannot Stop Looking At Other Women!” - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEarth- composed of 70% water and 30% land. It is also made up of various elements like 32% iron, 30% oxygen, 15% silicon, 14% magnesium, 3% sulfur, 2% nickel, and then much smaller piles of calcium, aluminum, and other trace elements. It is also inhabited by “Homo sapiens”… beautiful Homo ...
Views: 2892 - Nasty Things Women Do To Men - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhether we admit it or not, as human beings, we love to do something fun and pleasurable, it’s human nature to want self-gratification. And sometimes, consciously or unconsciously, we play games to experience self-gratification. If you really think about it, it really makes sense, we spend our ...
Views: 4375 - Confront Jealousy in Your Love Relationship or Marriage - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWhen Jeff sees his girlfriend, Tami, flirting with another guy, he gets jealous-- really jealous. It can take every ounce of restraint that Jeff has to not storm over and confront the other man, and Tami too. But Jeff has promised himself-- and Tami-- that he won't let his jealousy take over ...
Views: 3292(1 vote) - Why People Have Marital Affairs - by Submitted on May 10, 2010 from Peggy FergusonWhy, when most people believe in monogamous marriages, and that affairs are "wrong", are so many couples struggling to recover from infidelity? Most people do not intend to have an affair and most couples never would have believed that it would happen to them. Affairs happen in the marriages of ...
Views: 2419(2 votes) - Save Your Relationship: Watch Out For Hidden Relationship Traps - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOften times we get to wonder why it’s so difficult to maintain a peaceful loving relationship. Why it’s hard to keep the fun and frolicking last for even a week. Why it’s impossible to have a month long of harmony in the relationship. There are times when we get tired of feeling empty in an ...
Views: 1414 - Why Things Don’t Work Out: The Truth About Bad Habits And Cheating - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s no secret that bad habits can hurt one’s marriage. But U.S. Government National Institute of Child Health and Development made a study of more than 160 relationships in Louisville University to back it up. Their study revealed that if you have nasty habits, your partner can never get used ...
Views: 2131 - Dangerous Relationship Advice That Can Kill Your Love Life - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe beliefs and rules you live in life are a huge factor on how to save your relationship. If you think that your love-affair is a huge failure because you and your partner are not following certain "rules", then it’s time to break that belief. Here are some love tips that can be hazardous to ...
Views: 993 - Does Power Lead a Faithful Man Astray? Cheating Prevention Tips - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWe read about it all of the time. Wealthy men in positions of power who cheat on their wives. Some of them have multiple affairs. Even if you aren't married to a man who is rich and powerful, you might be concerned that someday the corrupting influence of power-- or an aspiration for ...
Views: 3328 - Dealing With Infidelity: Confronting Your Spouse and the Other Person - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Daryl CampbellAll the evidence points to a hard truth that you never wanted to know and hoped you would never experience within your marriage. The person you vowed to love for better or worse has not been holding up their end of the contract. To put it more bluntly they have been cheating on you. You did ...
Views: 1365 - Of Mistresses And Lovers- Behind The Curtain Of Extramarital Affairs - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHow long have you been married- 5, 10, 20 years? You’re certain you know everything about your other half. Maybe you do but then again, maybe you don’t. Today, we will explore the forbidden world of clandestine extramarital affairs. Men are more prone to cheating, this is not surprising. Some ...
Views: 1920 - Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraOnce a cheater, always a cheater- yes we are all familiar with this maxim. However, personally, the choice to heed or not to heed this said adage depends on how sincerely sorry the person in question is. And often than not, the truth always comes out with regard to sincerity. Sadly, the truth ...
Views: 2787 - Lies Married Men Tell - by Submitted on May 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf you are involved with a married man and believe it’s going somewhere, well think again. Married men are wily, wicked creatures. They will tell you everything and anything under the sun to make you believe that you have a future with them. When in fact, only 3% of philandering married men will ...
Views: 9776 - Is Your Spouse Cheating? You May Know Who With - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2010 from Daryl CampbellIs your spouse cheating? Like many people you have probably seen the numbers. Half of all married couples have experienced marital infidelity. Some of the cultural mindsets recently on display make the question of is your spouse cheating that much more relevant. For instance online sites ...
Views: 925 - Infidelity: Is It Selfishness or Survival? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Krystal KuehnI have come across many articles and discussions on infidelity lately and find that there is a consensus. Infidelity, adultery, having an affair, cheating, betrayal... or whatever it is you want to call it, is a growing problem. Why is this? Some say that our culture has contributed to an ...
Views: 5957(3 votes) - How to Tell if someone is lying-Hints & Tips - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Justin DouglasAdrienne Rich said “Lying is done with words and also with silence”. The self always shines through and there are many little hints & tips that if you are aware of can show big lying indicators in someone. Signs of lying can be everything from voice tone, body language, changing the ...
Views: 3875(4 votes) - Steps to Take to Save your Marriage After an Affair - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2010 from Shane BoydAn extra marital affair is a blow to your face. But no matter how you deny it, it is a result of other unsolved issues in your relationship. If you want to save the marriage after an affair, you need to first decide if both of you are willing to do to it. If one party refuses, you can never mend ...
Views: 1440 - CHEATING: How to Deal With Infidelity? - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2015 from LaToya CampbellAre you married or in a relationship and suspect your mate of infidelity? Are your suspicions and accusatory behavior tearing your relationship apart? First, let us identify 20 signs of a cheating mate: 1. Your mate no longer wants sex or makes excuses to not have sex with you. 2. You ...
Views: 2328(2 votes) - Pleading Guilty When You're The Cheater - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe road to a successful relationship and commitment involves many obstacles that couples must surmount. An example of these obstacles that are often encountered is unfaithfulness. An unfaithful partner is not entirely dim-witted to miss the fact that his/her actions have a damaging effect on ...
Views: 1070 - An Idiot’s Guide To Resolving Conflict In Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMarital conflict is an unavoidable element of any marriage. A marital union that has not been afflicted by discord is like a teabag that has not been dipped in hot water—you really don’t know how strong a tea it would make to make. While conflict is often seen negatively, not all conflicts are ...
Views: 1041 - Infidelity Signs You Have To Look Out For - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Just tell me now or just kill me!” cries a wife who suspects that her husband is cheating. Maybe the worst thing to be in than finding out that your husband is cheating is when you are being kept in the dark. It keeps you awake all night, it keeps you unfocused and distracted at work, it keeps ...
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