I spent the first 45 years of my life on Oughta-Pilot.
As with many others, I am the product of an emotional abusive childhood. No matter how hard I tried, I could never do anything right. Sound familiar?
When I think of how hard I worked to please my parents, my spouse(s), and others, always submitting and giving up that part of myself that was dying inside from lack of nurturing.
Even when I became a mother and responsible for someone else’s childhood, I tried so hard to live for her and make sure she was not as sad as I had been growing up.
For the next 18 years I was in survival mode; doing whatever it took to pay the bills while still trying to do what I was “supposed to do”.. The concept of enjoying life was not one I was familiar with any longer. My daughter grew, and was in Middle School when I met Dan McBride and Ken Lutz who taught me to be a sales trainer.
I’ve spent my life starting over after adversity. About every 7 years when I was little, we were blown out of our home by one typhoon or another. I made wrong relationship choices and lost everything several times including the roof over my head. I’ve been injured on the job and flat on my back from botched medical procedures; but I always get up and keep going. I share how in several of my workshops.
But the biggest change happened when I woke up one morning and declared that I was through doing what I was "supposed to" and it was time to do what I loved and what made life worth living.
I thought about my options and created this, my current incarnation as a trainer and facilitator. I did what I have advised so many of my clients to do - I disconnected my “oughta-pilot” and am living a life of my own creation, living by MY own rules.
Are you doing what you were born to do or what you’ve been told to do?
I specialize in creating possibility, rekindling passions and rediscovering what we were born to do and I reinforce that discovery by creating processes and systems to keep them available. Let's talk about what we can do to create your dream.
Spend your life chasing dreams or disconnect your oughta-pilot and live them!
Today is the tomorrow that yesterday spoke of.
The best way to get started with me is to either send me an email or give me a call. Let's talk about what you need. You can go to my site at www.deborahbeatty.com. Get in touch or a free 30-minute conversation about your dreams and needs. We'll discuss how to proceed from there!
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