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- Advice For Newly Married Couple: Marriage Words Of Wisdom For Newlyweds - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Colten ReeseAdvice For Newly Married Couple: Marriage Words Of Wisdom For Newlyweds Marriage is not a game. Once you are in it there is no way of quitting. As a married person you should know your duties and responsibilities. Here are some marriage tips for newlyweds. First; for the wife, you should ...
Views: 1283 - How To Save A Marriage With Trust Issues: Struggling Marriage Advice - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2018 from Colten ReeseHow To Save A Marriage With Trust Issues: Struggling Marriage Advice Today you can make the decision to save your troubled marriage. It will be a process but if you begin to build trust now it is possible to save your marriage today. Marriage success comes from a variety of elements in ...
Views: 937 - My Husband Controls Me: My Husband Controls Everything I Do - My Husband Wants To Control Me - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Controls Me: My Husband Controls Everything I Do - My Husband Wants To Control Me Are you married to a bossy or controlling spouse? Why do some couples control and boss each other around? People who control others with words, threats, fist, lies, and manipulative behavior usually ...
Views: 1151 - My Husband Is Not Intimate With Me Anymore: Lack Of Touch In Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Is Not Intimate With Me Anymore: Lack Of Touch In Marriage Do you know why a 90% of couples get divorce? Is your marriage getting boring? It is almost inevitable to prevent Boredom and Fatigue in a marriage, which unfortunately are the causes of most divorces as a result of loss in ...
Views: 3268 - Bitterness and Resentment In A Marriage: Overcoming Bitterness In Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2018 from Colten ReeseBitterness and Resentment In A Marriage: Overcoming Bitterness In Marriage Resentment? What's that? According to Readers Digest Family Thesaurus, resentment means bad feelings, anger, outraged spirit, crossness, bad temper, dungeon huff, ill will, rancor, bitterness, sourness, wounded pride, ...
Views: 920 - How To Start A Difficult Conversation With Your Wife: Discover The Secret To Marriage Communication Skills - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2018 from Colten ReeseHow To Start A Difficult Conversation With Your Wife: Discover The Secret To Marriage Communication Skills Communication skills can be improved Learning to communicate effectively will help couples develop a happy relationship. A relationship is a mixture of emotions which include feats of ...
Views: 640 - Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Failing Marriage Advice - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2018 from Colten ReeseSaving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Failing Marriage Advice Conflicts arise even in the happiest of marriages. However, even with conflicts you can future proof your marriage. Future proofing your marriage happens simply, when both of you learns to use just two words frequently. These ...
Views: 627 - I Resent My Husband For Not Making Enough Money: My Husband Does Not Make Enough Money - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2018 from Colten ReeseI Resent My Husband For Not Making Enough Money: My Husband Does Not Make Enough Money Most people grow up in families where no one talks about money. People may argue about money: He doesn't make enough or she spends too much. However, there generally is no real education about what role ...
Views: 2200 - How To Avoid Getting A Divorce: How To Avoid Divorce In Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2018 from Colten ReeseHow To Avoid Getting A Divorce: How To Avoid Divorce In Marriage Divorce - Poison After 25 years of married life, and observing of many marriages, partings, and divorces, I have decided to share some of my findings of how to avoid a divorce. These proposals might aid you to reach the point ...
Views: 561 - Meddling Mother In Law: Overbearing Mother In Law - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2018 from Colten ReeseMeddling Mother In Law: Overbearing Mother In Law Getting married to the one you love does not necessarily mean you'll be dealing with him or her solely. Remember the saying "marry me, marry my family?" In some cases when you're marrying a person who's very close to his or her family, you ...
Views: 760 - Separated From Wife How To Get Her Back: Separated From Wife And Lonely - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2018 from Colten ReeseSeparated From Wife How To Get Her Back: Separated From Wife And Lonely If you have just separated from your wife, there is a good chance that things are not going to be resolved any time soon. For her to take a drastic step like that means that she has obviously agonized over the decision ...
Views: 572 - How To Get My Husband To Love Me: How To Get Your Husband To Love You - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2018 from Colten ReeseHow To Get My Husband To Love Me: How To Get Your Husband To Love You Marriage is a lifelong commitment and it takes a lot of effort and understanding to maintain a good marriage. Divorce statistic has also shown that 50% of marriages in America ended up in divorce. Why is the divorce ...
Views: 585 - How To Stop A Divorce From Happening: How To Prevent Divorce From Happening - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2018 from Colten ReeseHow To Stop A Divorce From Happening: How To Prevent Divorce From Happening Marriages may be made in heaven but divorces are definitely made on earth and according to marriage counselors all over the developing and developed world are divorces are more rampant across all age groups and ...
Views: 584 - Wife Refuses To Work On Marriage: My Wife Feels Trapped In The Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2018 from Colten ReeseWife Refuses To Work On Marriage: My Wife Feels Trapped In The Marriage My wife feels trapped in the marriage and she wants me to leave her alone. For some reasons, she seems to lose her passion in the marriage. When you tried asking her many times, she will shun your questions to answer you. ...
Views: 1125 - Wife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2018 from Colten ReeseWife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth Millions of couples a year suffer through a lack of intimacy. Not all of them make it. The ones that do make it do it through hard work and possibly uncomfortable conversations. It helps first ...
Views: 1461 - DENIAL OF BAD BEHAVIOR – WHAT YOU CAN DO - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2018 from Darlene LancerDenial is serious. It’s a refusal to acknowledge truth or reality. It can have benefits, but denial can also be our undoing and have life-threatening consequences. It affects not only individuals. Denial in the form of "group-think" can dangerously take over families and entire groups. ...
Views: 1346(2 votes) - My Husband Doesn't Value Me: I Don't Feel Appreciated By My Husband - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Doesn't Value Me: I Don't Feel Appreciated By My Husband Everyone likes to be appreciated and complimented. But a woman gets disheartened when her husband is not one of them. It is distressing to realize that your husband never compliments you. You must know how to make your ...
Views: 1909 - Giving Up On Sexless Marriage: Sexless Marriage Advice For Frustrated Spouses - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2018 from Colten ReeseGiving Up On Sexless Marriage: Sexless Marriage Advice For Frustrated Spouses Having a baby is a joyous time in the life of a family to be sure. But the stresses and changes childbirth comes with can easily lead to a sexless marriage. But it doesn't have to be that way! We can learn from ...
Views: 996 - What Should A Husband Do In A Sexless Marriage: Sexless Marriage Advice For Men - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2018 from Colten ReeseWhat Should A Husband Do In A Sexless Marriage: Sexless Marriage Advice For Men Fixing a sexless marriage is no easy task. Anyone who tells you that it is a phase that will pass has never experienced what you may now be experiencing. It is estimated that 15% to 20% of couples experience long ...
Views: 6172 - Relationships: Is It Harder For Someone To Leave An Abusive Relationship If They Feel Worthless? - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to end up in a relationship that is abusive, there are at least two things that they can do. They can end up cutting their ties and moving on, or they can put up with what is taking place. If they end up drawing the line and decide to move on, it will be clear that they are ...
Views: 859 - My Husband Makes Me So Unhappy: How To Find Happiness In An Unhappy Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Makes Me So Unhappy: How To Find Happiness In An Unhappy Marriage If you are wondering how to resolve marital differences, doing so requires three important factors at the outset. These techniques associated with resolving marital differences are as ...
Views: 639 - Feelings and Violence - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2018 from Julie Roberts, Ph.D.I believe that most of the violence in society comes from our aversion to our emotions. We fight the reality of what we feel because we don’t like the feeling. We try to make it go away by resisting what is. We battle with our feelings by drinking, running, eating, refusing to feel. When we have ...
Views: 1161 - Lone Worker Personal Safety Devices - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2018 from G WILLIAMSAccording to the lone worker estate mapping report in the UK, one of the key challenges highlighted in the NHS report is the low usage of lone worker safety devices. The challenge of course is to increase funding to further improve lone worker solutions for new and existing staff. The report ...
Views: 883(1 vote) - The #1 signal that tells you it’s time to end it - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2018 from Maria DianaSure you can determine that at least one of your exes was with you longer than necessary. You are not alone! A new Portuguese study suggests that there is a reason why we are stuck in bad relationships. Here, we tell you the difference between a bump in the road and a doomed relationship. At ...
Views: 859 - How Should Married Couples Split Finances: How Do Married Couples Handle Finances - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow Should Married Couples Split Finances: How Do Married Couples Handle Finances The key to a happy marriage is working together. When things are tough, you work together. When things are amazing, you work together. If you're already doing so much work together, you could be using that ...
Views: 850 - My Wife Doesn't Make Me Happy: When You're Unhappy In Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Wife Doesn't Make Me Happy: When You're Unhappy In Marriage Few, if any marriages that have lasted a significant amount of time have been without moments of unhappiness. Regardless of the relationship, unfortunately, we do not live in a vacuum and frustrating events take their toll on us, ...
Views: 1522 - How To Deal With In Laws Who Don't Like You: Husbands Family Treats Me Like An Outsider - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Deal With In Laws Who Don't Like You: Husbands Family Treats Me Like An Outsider Marriage comes with it the challenge to deal with your in-laws. Whether you're newly married or have been married for several years already, there's always an adjustment period when it comes to ...
Views: 2886 - How To Save Your Marriage If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating: How To Deal With Cheating Husband Without Losing Him - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Save Your Marriage If You Think Your Spouse Is Cheating: How To Deal With Cheating Husband Without Losing Him What I am about to tell you is NOT a new concept, although you will not get this kind of advice very often when dealing with a cheating spouse because most people do not think ...
Views: 1078 - How Important Is It To Compliment Your Wife: How To Help Wife With Body Image Issues - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow Important Is It To Compliment Your Wife: How To Help Wife With Body Image Issues In marriage, it takes two to make it work. One just doesn't have to rely on the other all the time. There has to be effort on both sides to nurture the marital bond and keep it strong moving forward. While ...
Views: 1470 - How To Understand Husband Needs: How To Understand Husband Feelings - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow To Understand Husband Needs: How To Understand Husband Feelings Once in a while the opportunity arises to think of our spouse instead of ourselves. These fleeting chances don't come along very often, but when they do, and if we grab them, the warm and fuzzy feeling it infuses in our ...
Views: 894 - Husband Says I Instead Of We: When He Uses I Instead Of We - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHusband Says I Instead Of We: When He Uses I Instead Of We As you can see in television, more and more celebrity couples are getting marriage separation advice. A lot more are happening to ordinary people. This is a fast paced world people are living in and if you do not know how to ...
Views: 2704 - Different Beliefs In Marriage: How To Make Interfaith Marriages Work - Interfaith Marriage Problems - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyDifferent Beliefs In Marriage: How To Make Interfaith Marriages Work - Interfaith Marriage Problems The recent headline about Katie Holmes breaking up with Tom Cruise is said to be because of religion. And truly, it's a sad reality that a lot of couples are breaking up these days simply ...
Views: 812 - My Husband Hit Me For The First Time What Should I Do: My Husband Hit Me Once Should I Leave Him - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Hit Me For The First Time What Should I Do: My Husband Hit Me Once Should I Leave Him A good conflict may be healthy for couples. When you argue with your partner, you're being comfortable with your own self and you're not scared of showing your true colors. However, too much ...
Views: 1279 - I Slapped My Husband And He Hit Me Back: He Hit Me For The First Time - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI Slapped My Husband And He Hit Me Back: He Hit Me For The First Time If you do not show respect to your spouse, then better expect for argument. If you want to veer away from an unhappy marriage and you want to save your marriage alone, you can do so by giving proper respect to your better ...
Views: 1466 - Signs My Wife Is Bored With Me: How To Tell If Your Wife Is About To Leave You - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceySigns My Wife Is Bored With Me: How To Tell If Your Wife Is About To Leave You As a married man, you obviously value the sanctity of the relationship you share with your wife. Marriage can be a wonderful thing, and it touches so many different parts of our lives. Our finances, sex life, ...
Views: 3346 - I Don't Fancy My Wife Anymore: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Anymore - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI Don't Fancy My Wife Anymore: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive Anymore Marriage may just be the most complex, challenging and (sometimes) rewarding thing you can get yourself involved in. What it takes to be successful in a marriage involves engaging many levels of your being at ...
Views: 2429 - Relationships: Can Someone’s Inner Critic Cause Them To Put Up With Abusive Behaviour? - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is used to spending time around people who are abusive, they can come to the conclusion that they are a victim. It is then not that one is playing a part in what is taking place; it is that this is just how their life is. So, while these people will have control over their own life, ...
Views: 664 - My Husband Doesn't Acknowledge Me: I Feel Like My Husband Doesn't Care About Me - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Doesn't Acknowledge Me: I Feel Like My Husband Doesn't Care About Me Years ago when I was working in a mental health center, I served on a committee that was redesigning the communications systems. In one meeting, a committee member named Susan said, "The receptionists sound ...
Views: 966 - Jealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyJealous Of Wife's Past Lovers: Wife's Previous Partners Is jealousy a problem in your relationship? Does it keep you awake at nights? Are you experiencing feelings of insecurity and even low self esteem because you feel so jealous over your partner? Then here is the only choice you have if ...
Views: 2950 - Wife's Past Bothering Me: Forgetting My Wife's Past - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyWife's Past Bothering Me: Forgetting My Wife's Past Overcoming feelings of jealousy in a relationship can be extremely hard to do. Once jealousy takes root it feeds off itself, justifying itself and seems to nurture an environment that welcomes it. So overcoming jealousy is never going to ...
Views: 3191 - How to Stay Safe in an Unsafe World? - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2018 from Perfect Home DefenseFor many, it seems like a daunting prospect to keep yourself safe in this world. Rape, burglary, accident, assault- anything can happen with anyone. There is a crime news every other second in the US, according to the statistics. Police say, however, crimes can be prevented most of the ...
Views: 743 - Your Wife Has Lost Respect For You: How To Deal With A Disrespectful Wife - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyYour Wife Has Lost Respect For You: How To Deal With A Disrespectful Wife Your wife has lost respect for you. You irritate her whenever you talk to her and she criticizes you all the time. You can see signs that your wife has lost respect for you. How can you regain back your respect ...
Views: 999 - Emotional Neglect In Marriage: Emotional Abandonment Shut Out By Your Spouse - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyEmotional Neglect In Marriage: Emotional Abandonment Shut Out By Your Spouse If a healthy intimate relationship is to stay that way, there has to be an abundance of emotional and physical intimacy in that relationship. But what is the connection between the two? Is one a pre-requisite of ...
Views: 2314 - Marriage Without Affection Or Intimacy: Lack Of Affection From Husband - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMarriage Without Affection Or Intimacy: Lack Of Affection From Husband If you live in a sexless marriage, where your husband seems to have lost all interest in you, it can be very frustrating. Intimacy plays a very important role in strengthening the bond between a husband and wife. This ...
Views: 7928 - My Husband Puts Me Down In Front Of His Family: When Your Husband Puts You Down - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Puts Me Down In Front Of His Family: When Your Husband Puts You Down Some words have fangs. Among the sharpest are those classified as negative labeling. Negative labels come in the form of adjectives: "You're lazy, selfish, unreasonable, insensitive, etc.," and also in nouns: ...
Views: 1709 - Husband Puts Me Down All The Time: Why Does My Husband Put Me Down In Front Of Others - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHusband Puts Me Down All The Time: Why Does My Husband Put Me Down In Front Of Others In terms of your health, happiness, and deepest values, one of the worst things that can happen is to live with a resentful, angry, or emotionally abusive partner. The worst thing you can do, in terms of ...
Views: 1212 - My Husband Is Verbally Abusive When He Drinks: Why Is My Husband So Mean To Me When He Drinks - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Is Verbally Abusive When He Drinks: Why Is My Husband So Mean To Me When He Drinks Anger and abuse in relationships are about blame: "I feel bad, and it's your fault." Even when resentful, angry, or emotionally abusive people recognize their behavior, they are likely to blame it on ...
Views: 3200 - My Husband Speaks To Me Disrespectfully: Husband Disrespects Me In Public - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Speaks To Me Disrespectfully: Husband Disrespects Me In Public A quarter century of working with chronic resentment, anger, and abuse of all kinds has firmly taught me what the ancients knew. The only way out of the relentless pendulum of pain that keeps loved ones hurting each ...
Views: 1567 - My Husband Is Always Angry and Moody: Why Is My Husband So Moody Lately - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Is Always Angry and Moody: Why Is My Husband So Moody Lately Most marriages die a slow, agonizing death from too little compassion. Compassion is sympathy for the hurt or distress of another. At heart it is simple appreciation of the basic human frailty we all share. When you feel ...
Views: 1679 - I Can't Talk To My Husband About Anything: My Husband And I Can't Talk Without Arguing - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI Can't Talk To My Husband About Anything: My Husband And I Can't Talk Without Arguing While communication is clearly vital for the preservation of your marital relationship, research has consistently demonstrated that men and women express themselves far differently from one another. For ...
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