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- How To Get Him Back Even If He’s Involved With Someone Else - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYour greatest fear now realized- you can feel your airways tightening, your stomach aching and your head spinning. The love of your life, the only man that you can only see yourself with, has a new girlfriend. All hopes of happy ending now flushed down the drain. And when things seemed down ...
Views: 15584(2 votes) - Thoughts About Confronting The Other Woman - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes it feels so good to be bad and say, “I know I might regret it, but what the hell!” Sometimes crossing the line can make you feel justified… especially if you have been wronged by the person really close to you. And nothing can push you to be a bad ass than being a victim of ...
Views: 5445(2 votes) - Body Language Cues That Say She Likes You - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWomen are truly fascinating creatures for most men. They are difficult to read and can be quite a challenge to fathom. And it becomes even more difficult for a man if he meets a woman he really likes. When something like this happens, you don’t want to miss or misread any cues that show some ...
Views: 3947(7 votes) - How To Tell A Fake Smile From A Real Smile - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraEach and every culture in the universe recognizes and acknowledges that a smiling is an expression or indication of happiness and joy. Almost everyone of us is given the ability to smile. It could reflect delight, gladness, contentment, inner satisfaction and so on. Of all the facial ...
Views: 2499(3 votes) - You Can Look Beautiful Everyday - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt's only natural for women to want to look beautiful, since they (I mean, we, are God's fairest creatures). In your own special ways, you can look beautiful every single day. Notwithstanding age, race, lifestyle or culture, it's every woman's right to feel good about herself. Here are some ...
Views: 2117(2 votes) - Build Your Credibility And Gain People’s Trust In Forum Posting - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraForum posting is an effective way of advertising your website if you use it properly. People join forums for a number of reasons—to socialize with others, to find information that they need, or for the purpose of marketing either their website or a specific product that they are selling. ...
Views: 2025(1 vote) - When In Social Media Sites, Are You An Informer Or A “meformer"? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFor us who are blogging for business, social media sites particularly Twitter and Facebook have been giving a good boost to our online network expansion efforts. In social media platforms, we are able to promote our expertise and/or our products. Today, I stumbled upon this post that tackled ...
Views: 1866 - Influencing Skills: Effective Listening For Insurance Sales - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe big secret to influencing skills is not what you probably expect. Want to know what the big secret in the world of powerful influencing is? It’s simple---listening. Yes, it is in the way you listen to be exact. You got to know and learn how to listen to explore this empowering force in ...
Views: 1597(1 vote) - Guaranteed Search Engine Optimization – Is This Possible? - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWho does not want a guaranteed search engine optimization? Or perhaps you will ask if this is at all possible - A website optimization that will surely bring in the ranking that you aim to achieve and the amount of traffic that all website owners desire to have. In the past weeks, or even ...
Views: 1443 - Experience The Rewards Of Viral Video Marketing In Youtube - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMaking your site and your products visible in social media sites could definitely give a big boost to your promotional activities on the net. We are all aware that these media sites are the in-thing these days. It is very appealing to many no matter from what part of the world they come from. ...
Views: 1430 - Better Breathing And Relaxation For A Healthy Mind And Body - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraRelaxation training is a curative technique that could be practiced or performed on a one on one basis or to a group of people. Relaxation itself is considered to benefit certain conditions like panic, anxiety, depression, hyperventilation, insomnia, and some other stress-associated physical ...
Views: 1424(4 votes) - Possible Reasons Why Men Don't Call Back After A Date - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen you're young your entire life is about the pursuit of fun. Then, you grow up and learn to be cautious; you might break a bone or a heart. You look before you leap and sometimes you don’t leap at all, because there isn’t always someone to catch you. And in life, expect that there is no ...
Views: 1374(5 votes) - The 3 Faces Of Low Self Esteem - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraDo you have a feeling that you have low self esteem? Actually, there are 3 faces of low self esteem. See for yourself if you share one of the following traits: Let's see, are you: 1) The Phony One? From the name itself, the fake one. The Great Pretender. His successful and happy exterior ...
Views: 1306(2 votes) - Create & Sell Your Own No-fuzz Products with Private Label Rights - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIf you’re tired of selling other people’s products as an affiliate you may want to go to the next level of internet marketing and actually sell your own information products such as e-books and eventually establish your name as an expert in your niche market. The problem you see is that you ...
Views: 1297 - Overcoming Workplace Bullying With Support From Others - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraHave you ever tried reaching out for your workmates or colleagues and close friends to tell them regarding your situation or experience with being bullied at the workplace, but they were not there for you? And Why Does This Takes Place? There are top 3 reasons why sympathy and support might not ...
Views: 1284(1 vote) - Prevent Fighting, Prevent Cheating – Here’s How - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen a relationship becomes a regular emotional and mental battle ground, it is most likely that either you or your partner will take refuge outside of your relationship. That is why it’s no surprise that one of the major causes of infidelity is the frequent fighting and arguing in the ...
Views: 1277(2 votes) - Paid Surveys - Extra Money Online - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn this day and age where everyone is online, companies use paid surveys to test a new product to a targeted market and do enhancements on products already in the market. They need to know what the buying public wants. Large companies have their own marketing and research departments that employ ...
Views: 1191 - Things To Prepare When Starting An Online Store - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn this day and age we are what you may call people on the go. A better description would be people who have so much to do with so little time. We prefer everything to be at our fingertips—we have drive through banking and drive through laundry. At the same time most of us do our business ...
Views: 1188(1 vote) - Life For Rent: Confessions Of A Mistress - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe mistress, you can’t hate her enough. If you can skin and burn her alive, you know you would. You can’t help but be overwhelmed with anger. But stop, pause and ask yourself- is all that hatred and anger worth it? “When a wife gets into all kinds of trouble to get even, she is only ...
Views: 1130(1 vote) - Bouncing Back From Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSometimes life can be pretty funny- it throws you a curveball, hands you a lemon, or knocks you for a loop, but being aware how to approach failure can be the first step to success. In life and in relationships, it is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you lived so guardedly ...
Views: 1117(2 votes) - The Essence Of Self Motivation And Positivity In Life - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhy We All Need Self Motivation. Each one of us goes through sad and happy times. When you’re down and out, you absolutely need the help and support of your loved ones, family and pals. Count yourself to be one of the lucky individuals if you have your network of support system from those ...
Views: 1089(1 vote) - The Importance Of Website Traffic Monitoring - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraSo you’re getting 1,000 hits a day on your site. But how many of those hits convert into sales for you? 50%? 25%? Or less than 10%? While it is important to drive traffics to your site, it is more important to get the sales from all these visits. You can do this by tracking and analyzing website ...
Views: 1073 - Pleading Guilty When You're The Cheater - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe road to a successful relationship and commitment involves many obstacles that couples must surmount. An example of these obstacles that are often encountered is unfaithfulness. An unfaithful partner is not entirely dim-witted to miss the fact that his/her actions have a damaging effect on ...
Views: 1070 - Ideal List Building System For Amateur Internet Marketers - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou may have heard this line for the nth time: “the money is in the list”. I may sound redundant in repeatedly saying this but successful internet marketers can further prove this fact. Mainly for this reason, most online marketers pay particular attention to having a good list building system. ...
Views: 1050 - An Idiot’s Guide To Resolving Conflict In Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMarital conflict is an unavoidable element of any marriage. A marital union that has not been afflicted by discord is like a teabag that has not been dipped in hot water—you really don’t know how strong a tea it would make to make. While conflict is often seen negatively, not all conflicts are ...
Views: 1041 - Relationship Advice For A Long And Lasting Bond - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIn a relationship there are always a lot of ways to make it a long lasting one. But how come many people can't attain a long lasting bond? There are broken marriages, broken relationships with the opposite sex and broken friendships. Broken things are just around us. We can see it ...
Views: 1032(3 votes) - The Benefits Of Sales Leadership Training - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe Benefits and Advantages of Sales Leadership Training. It is widely accepted and recognized that the staff or employees have to be trained some new skills in order to prevent being stagnant. A situation like this not just regresses the person’s development, but also the company’s, too. In ...
Views: 1030(4 votes) - Infidelity Signs You Have To Look Out For - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2010 from Menno Spijkstra“Just tell me now or just kill me!” cries a wife who suspects that her husband is cheating. Maybe the worst thing to be in than finding out that your husband is cheating is when you are being kept in the dark. It keeps you awake all night, it keeps you unfocused and distracted at work, it keeps ...
Views: 1020 - Anger Management: Knowing Your Own Temper - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt is needless to say that anger exists in every human being. Whatever we do and wherever we go, we can't avoid this feeling. All people get angry. But the question is that how can we avoid being temperamental ones. Do we have to keep off from the things that makes us angry? What if those things ...
Views: 986(1 vote) - Doable Ways To Affair Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAccording to studies, sixty percent of men and forty percent of women will have an affair at some point in their relationship. This statistic shows that people who stay loyal and faithful to their partner is a part of a growing minority. Before I met my wonderful partner, Andy, I had my fair ...
Views: 983(1 vote) - He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not: Ways To Know He Loves You - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraStop plucking the petals off the daisy; it will never give you the real answers. Looking for Mr. Right is never easy, but one doesn’t really need special senses to know if your man is in love with you or not. And those plucking petals won’t tell you if he is in love with you either, but paying ...
Views: 974(1 vote) - How My Husband Won My Heart Back: Confessions Of A Cheating Wife - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt has been said that women are less likely to cheat but when they do, the affair can be really serious and intense. That’s because when a woman cheats on her husband, she is likely to have an emotional affair rather than a fleeting one night stand. And because of this emotional intimacy based ...
Views: 965 - Train People Using Streaming Video Service - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraBeing an entrepreneur these days would require so much creativity. Oftentimes, aside from employing those “secrets” to becoming a success in your field, one must also consider using a creative approach towards promoting a business. For online marketers, the use of streaming media (audio or ...
Views: 960(1 vote) - Goal Setters: Exploring The Secrets In Goal Setting - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAs goal setters, usually, we set our own goals. And some of these we accomplish, whilst others we never attain at all. So, what is the difference-- why is it that some goals we are easily able to accomplish yet others we can’t reach although we invest a lot of time into something we do not get? ...
Views: 952(1 vote) - For The Love Of Money: The Truth About Financial Infidelity - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFinancial infidelity, you may not know about it, but you may guilty of it. Financial infidelity is every bit as damaging to the relationship as the physical one. As one husband says, “It’s one thing to fool around. It’s another thing to fool around with my hard-earned cash.” When money ...
Views: 943(2 votes) - Make It To The Top With Personal Power - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhen you are at the top of a big organization or business, you need Personal Power, so that people and your subordinates and your peers are motivated or animated behind your vision regarding in which direction your business is headed. In this case, you would find that the farther the ...
Views: 943(1 vote) - How To Make Your Own E-book - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraA lot of people have made money online writing eBooks or electronic books. You can do the same as well. Think writing is the last thing you think you can do and that you’ll never be caught dead doing that sort of stuff, think again. You can make your own eBook. Let me tell you it’s not as ...
Views: 935 - Dear Married Men: Keep Your Balls To Yourself - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraExtramarital affairs, it seems as if everybody’s doing it- Presidents, Senators, Governors, golfers, bosses, friends, cousins, family members… you thought, why not try the fun and excitement yourself. If they can do it, why can’t you, right? Well, if those people can give you a piece of advice, ...
Views: 927(1 vote) - Do You Know That Being Confident Affects Other People? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAnd not just being confident--some other human emotions also. And why is that, you ask-- it's because we as human beings normally take in some of the emotions of people we're in contact with or those whom we saw. After that, we experience a change in our own mood though you know that nothing ...
Views: 910(1 vote) - Showing Appreciation To Your Clients Without Breaking The Bank - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWe should accept the fact that our customers and clients want to feel appreciated by us. Yet how many times did we fail to grab that chance to show our appreciation to our various clients and customers? Moreover, how many instances do we apply the excuse of not having the cash to do something ...
Views: 907(4 votes) - Simple Yet Effective Reminders To Increase Site Traffic - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraFor any website to generate income, the website owner must first find ways to attract people to visit his web page. We are all aware that a successful online business starts with a good number of site visits from its target audience but this is not too easy to achieve. It is a big challenge ...
Views: 905 - Contextual Link Building: Is It Worth Your Money? - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraAs internet marketers, we are all aware that link building is an essential part of our daily undertakings. To be specific and to give further emphasis, the more links our websites get, the higher search engine rankings your site will get. Aside from the traffic that you will get once you once on ...
Views: 901 - Impressive Web Page Templates To Freshen Up Your Site - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWeb sites are said to be born almost by the minute these days. Just imagine babies being born every minute, too. That is how fast web sites propagate. So, how do you make your web site compete for internet users’ attention? There are many ways actually and one of them is by maintaining good web ...
Views: 895 - Finding The Best Web Hosting Service For You - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraCertain things in life you just don’t gamble with—a good doctor, a good lawyer, and even a good accountant. This is because they need to be good as they can affect you in more ways than one. The same can be said about finding the best web hosting service out there for your growing company. ...
Views: 895 - In A Limbo On How To Improve Search Engine Rankings - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWe all have to admit that in one way or another; all our search engine optimization efforts are geared toward pleasing the big G. Yes, I’m referring to Google. I want to land on the top pages of their search engine results and I’m sure you are also aiming at the same target. To have high ...
Views: 894(1 vote) - The Real Score Behind Online Product Surveys - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThere are many companies offline and online that venture into online product surveys before they launch a particular product in the market. For practical reasons, more companies realized the value of conducting an online product surveys instead of sending our teams of surveyors in the field. ...
Views: 890 - How Important Is Product Launch Management To Your Sales? - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraTo answer the question above, product launch management is very vital because this is where marketing and promotions begin. Without it, I can’t imagine how you are going to reach out to your target market or even get yourself noticed online. It must be emphasized to internet marketers with their ...
Views: 889 - Jump Into The Bandwagon And Make Real Money Online - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraThe other day, I read from somewhere (must be in one of the online discussion sites that I frequent) a statement of an internet marketer stating that he had been struggling to find a profitable niche that he can venture into. Further, he said that internet marketing has left very little space ...
Views: 887 - Getting A Second Chance At Love - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraYou meet an awesome guy whose friendly, sincere, is charming, and has a good heart. A gentleman to the core, the one you’d bring home to– – –meet the parents. He was the kind of man that you’d think most women longed for and that everyone adores. What seems so perfect going on with your life ...
Views: 884(6 votes) - Giving Your Email Marketing A Whole New Look - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraTake a look at your email marketing materials. Does it look like spam mail? If it does, then other people will also see it as spam. This perception hampers the success of your email marketing campaign. Spams generally are perceived as unwanted, unsolicited emails, flooding your inbox and ...
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