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- Top 10 Signs of a Cheating Man - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2009 from Dan And JenniferLadies, you know in your heart if your man is cheating on you. You can feel it... Maybe you've suspected for a while that things aren't quite right in your relationship and you're worried that maybe he's stepping out on you, but you just can't put your finger on exactly what's bugging ...
Views: 2936(1 vote) - The Right Way and The Wrong Way to Kiss a Woman - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2009 from Dan And JenniferI got this email today from a good friend of mine and just had to share... One of the things, unless we're REALLY lucky in life, is that we are never taught exactly 'how to kiss'. Some get it and some don't, but mostly we learn by trial and error. Knowing how to kiss a woman the right way ...
Views: 4723(1 vote) - Should You Stay Married Just For The Kids? (Video) - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2008 from Dan And JenniferMarriage is a choice that thousands of people make every day. For many people, this is one of the best times of their lives. Unfortunately, however, marriage may not always be the best choice or the one that makes you the happiest and even worse, this is usually not realized until much ...
Views: 2326(1 vote) - Verbal Warfare! Make Up Or Break Up? (Video) - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIf you find yourself in a relationship where you find yourself constantly arguing and fighting with your partner, you're not the only one. You're also not alone if you genuinely love this person and want to make the relationship work. Are you doomed to a breakup? Not necessarily... Dear Dan ...
Views: 1968(1 vote) - 6 Simple Ways To Let Your Date Know You're Interested - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferHave you ever been out on a date with someone who you really liked, but you weren't sure exactly how to let them know that you really like them and are interested in them? It can be hard to know how to express yourself around someone whom you don't know very well yet. There are LOTS of ways to ...
Views: 6357(2 votes) - Magical Thinking About Finances Can Put A Strain On Your Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferAt some point or another, almost all of us have used magical thinking to give us the confidence to go on when a relationship hits a rough patch. Most people are able to move through this stage by taking risks to confront their partners. They realize that heated discussions, arguments, even ...
Views: 2387(1 vote) - Thinking Of Tying The Knot? 5 Tips To Make Sure You Stay Together - by Submitted on May 21, 2008 from Dan And JenniferDid you know that love does NOT conquer all? You see, often people get married with the idea that their “chemistry” or undying love for each other will keep them together forever. However, with almost 50% of marriages ending in divorce these days, it’s obvious that this ...
Views: 2041(1 vote) - 10 Tips To Infidelity-Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 20, 2008 from Dan And JenniferInfidelity can sneak up on even the most solid partnerships. According to an infidelity poll conducted by WomanSavers.com of 6,330 women, 92% believe that emotional affairs lead to physical affairs, whereas only a mere 7% believe they do not. With the increase in technology, cheating has ...
Views: 2020(1 vote) - Top Ten Tips For Dressing For Dating Success - by Submitted on May 16, 2008 from Dan And JenniferI’m all for individual style and taste but if you want to ensure that you don’t send the wrong messages, there are some style tips that you can’t afford to miss. Groom from the inside out I don’t care how hard you’ve worked, how little time you have, and bla, bla, ...
Views: 2510(2 votes) - 5 Tips For Meeting Women That Every Man Ought To Know - by Submitted on May 15, 2008 from Dan And JenniferFinally! A step-by-step guide on how to meet women that makes meeting women fun and easy for any guy! I have a question... (And you have to be honest with me here!) Is meeting women hard for you to do? Do you feel afraid when it comes to meeting women? And is that fear keeping you from ...
Views: 13345(3 votes) - Tips For Dating A Cheapskate - by Submitted on May 14, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIs your guy so cheap he squeaks when he walks? Is your girl so thrifty she uses tea bags thrice? I feel your pain. I too was a long-suffering companion of a date who felt that a root canal was preferable to spending money. Allow me to introduce him. We'll call him Rob. (I'll call him the most ...
Views: 1391 - 5 Tips To Please Your Man In Bed - by Submitted on May 05, 2008 from Dan And JenniferWant to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight! 1. The best position for his enjoyment Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” ...
Views: 4311(1 vote) - Top 10 Most Common Online Dating Mistakes - by Submitted on May 01, 2008 from Dan And JenniferNot having any luck dating online? You may be making these mistakes. 1. Being a Winking, IM’ng, and Email Whore Imagine if you went to a club and winked at someone all night, maybe even leered at them and you hadn’t introduced yourself yet? Imagine that you kept knocking on ...
Views: 1096 - Could Loneliness Be The Dawn Of Real Happiness And Romance? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2008 from Dan And JenniferLoneliness is one of the deepest sorrows – at its peak it feels like a quiet desperation, a yearning to melt completely with another, a slow suffocation that we can’t escape no matter what. And it was shocking to see how common it is. The media has begun to describe the spread of ...
Views: 1050 - Are You Playing The Blame Game? Do Any Of These Situations Sound Familiar? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2008 from Dan And JenniferRandy was reaching for a doughnut when his wife glared at him. Inside, Randy could feel a defiance surging inside. He reached for the second doughnut and felt smug and happy with himself. Janet struggled to maintain her composure when Jerry joked about her going to spend her morning with ...
Views: 1813 - 7 Personality Traits You Need To Survive A Break-Up - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2008 from Dan And JenniferMany years ago, when I finally overcame my extremely painful break up, I noticed a strong shift in different areas of my life. I'd become stronger, more independent, my relationship to others had improved - I was simply able to enjoy life more. That was the moment when I started to plan how to ...
Views: 5277 - How To Use Modern Technology To Add Old-Fashioned Romance To Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2008 from Dan And JenniferSo, when's the last time you used modern technology to share your romantic feelings with your significant other? The advent of the Internet, cell phones and hundreds of other modern communication tools has indeed made our world a bit more impersonal and fostered an expectation of immediate ...
Views: 1084 - Attracting The Relationship You Want Instead Of The One You Left - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2008 from Dan And JenniferUnless you have been hiding underneath a rock you have heard about the Law of Attraction in the past couple of years. Since the movie “the Secret” came out it seems that everyone has been talking about it. Basically the Law of Attraction says that you will attract what you ...
Views: 927 - Empathizing With A Wife Beater? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2008 from Dan And JenniferJim was a thirty-something man who was involved in a violent relationship. He was not proud of his part in the violence and had been attending an anger management group. He felt to blame for what had happened and was clearly confused and ashamed that he had behaved this way toward the woman he ...
Views: 969 - Are You A Stalker? - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2008 from Dan And JenniferEver feel like you're being just a little TOO persistent? Do you ever wonder why she never seems to get that email or text message you sent? And how did she miss all those voice messages you left her? Wait... could she be trying to tell you something? Ask Yourself These Questions to Decide ...
Views: 1022 - Who's Responsible For Contraception - The Man Or The Woman? - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2008 from Dan And JenniferHaving sex for the first time with a new partner is always an exercise in silent negotiation. Issues such as who will take the dominant role or when the undressing will begin abound and are often worked out using body language, eye contact, and other non-verbal communication cues. Although ...
Views: 7090 - How Can He Love Me And Still See Her On The Side? (Video) - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2008 from Dan And JenniferWhat would you do if you started dating a man and the relationship seemed perfect. Except for one little thing... You find out that he hasn't really ended his last relationship. He's still seeing his ex while dating you. He sees her, he takes care of her emotionally and financially, and he ...
Views: 2083 - Why Men Don't Say 'I Love You'... - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2008 from Dan And JenniferYour guy may change your tires, buy you presents and open the door for you at a restaurant, but he has not yet uttered those three words. Does that mean he doesn't love you? Without hearing the utterance, you may wonder what's going on in his skull. Is he just sticking around for the sex? Has ...
Views: 9142 - How Long Can You Go Without Sex? - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2008 from Dan And JenniferAlthough you're probably familiar with the terms "sex drive" and "libido," how much about your own sexual clock do you understand? For example, can you list your sexual "need" signs? How long can you go without sex before it starts to negatively affect you? Are ...
Views: 1609 - The Top 10 Relationship Success Secrets That Everyone Ought To Know - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferAs a couple’s therapist, I’ve seen a myriad of relationships styles. People who come in for counseling are clearly looking to change something they see problematic in their partnership. The problems range from the relatively benign tweaks in communication to serious pain and trust ...
Views: 1203 - 5 Ways To Avoid Striking Out This Friday Night - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2008 from Dan And JenniferAre You Tired of Striking Out Night After Night? Most guys think that women like 'bad' boys so they try to portray this image and simply end up looking like a jerk. What a woman really wants is a man who will keep her interest, has great confidence, who is not afraid to stand out, and is ...
Views: 2917 - Commitment Issues... And Another Woman! (Video) - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2008 from Dan And JenniferI think we've probably all been in, or have known someone in this situation... You meet someone really great, you have a lot in common, you have so much fun together, you really click. There's just one little problem. He already has a girlfriend! The particular type of man that I'm referring to ...
Views: 870 - How To Win Back A Gemini... - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIt may be hard to 'lose' a Taurus, but it's just as difficult to keep a Gemini. The sign of the Twins is known for being fickle and flighty, stimulation-seeking and superficial. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and information. The winged messenger is faster than the speed ...
Views: 13621 - Finding A Rhythm That Works When She's "On Top" - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2008 from Dan And JenniferBeing in the "on top" position during sex can be a nerve-wracking experience for both women and men. The expectation to please and to make the person "on bottom" orgasm can easily turn a playful sexual experience into an emotional disaster. Although it's commonly assumed that ...
Views: 12621 - It's Just You And Your Hand Tonight! - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2008 from Dan And JenniferThe hot new song from Pink which is all the rage these days - and one of the top songs on iTunes - has an unusual title that many people haven't noticed. It's called "U + Ur Hand", as in "You and Your Hand". There's this expectation that any woman in a bar is looking for a ...
Views: 1361 - The Secret To Lasting Romance: How Subtlety Could Save Your Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2008 from Dan And JenniferYou can't really blame some modern men and women for rolling their eyes at the idea of old-fashioned romance. The phrase brings to mind antiquated images of dramatic gestures, overly poetic assertions and a sort of starry-eyed obliviousness that most contemporary lovers find pretty silly and ...
Views: 2385 - Satisfaction or Frustration - How Would You Describe Your Sex Life? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2008 from Dan And JenniferA while back I sat with a beautiful older woman who had been struggling with depression for most of her life. She and her husband have been married close to 40 years, and their relationship has become distant, though they still report to love each other. I was shocked to learn ...
Views: 1351 - How To 'Lose' A Taurus Man - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIt's not so easy to get dumped by a man who dislikes change. Of all the zodiac signs, Taurus is the most stubborn, a true creature of habit. The Bull is an earth sign (along with Virgo and Capricorn), focused on tangible progress and concrete results. He's attached to his treasured possessions. ...
Views: 13795 - 5 Wicked Ways To Get Kinky In The Kitchen - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIt's no surprise to learn one of the sexiest places in a house is the kitchen; the delicious smells, the beautiful colors, the way everything simmers together, tempting our senses into complete and utter abandon... Unfortunately most of us never get the opportunity to fully explore all of the ...
Views: 4857 - Blue Pill Anyone? Maybe It's Time For Some Natural, Herbal Viagra Alternatives - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2008 from Dan And JenniferUnless you've been under a rock for the last few years, you know that every middle aged man has at the very least thought about getting his hands on some of those magical little blue pills. Viagra and Cialis are everywhere! Are Male Erectile Dysfunction Pills Actually Safe? Of course, we've ...
Views: 1448 - Rock Star Syndrome - Are You In Love With Him Or The Idea Of Him? (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2008 from Dan And JenniferEvery little girl grows up wanting to be a beautiful princess. So is it any wonder that young girls are so attracted to rock stars, movie stars, and pop idols? After all, they're waiting for their gorgeous prince to ride in and rescue them, after which they'll fall in love, get married, ...
Views: 1119 - Porn Addiction! Huh? Women Addicted To Porn?!? (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2008 from Dan And JenniferEveryone likes to think it's just men that watch porn. Wives and girlfriends everywhere, high on false righteousness, patrol their man's computer to make sure it's still virgin. And God forbid he actually watches porn on TV. After all, porn's just downright wrong, isn't it? Or is it? But here's ...
Views: 4068 - Why There's Still Hope For Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2008 from Dan And JenniferWhy do we cry at weddings? I think its because we are all hopeless romantics. We all want the dream of a lasting connection that keeps us engaged and invested. We want to feel hot about our lover 30 years into the marriage and we want that for others. We cry because we want it ...
Views: 892 - Is It Evil To Say I Love You With No Intention Of Getting Married? (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2008 from Dan And JenniferI love you! Love you too! I love you more! No, I love you more! AAAAAhhhh! Stop it! You hear it every day... people casually throw these magical words around like there was no tomorrow. Sometimes it's a replacement for "talk to you later" when you're going to hang up... "Luv you. ...
Views: 1163 - Gasp! Do People Actually Have Oral Sex? (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2008 from Dan And JenniferEveryone has their own sexual preferences, whether it's plain old missionary position, lights off, oral sex, anal sex (gasp!), or any one of dozens of exotic sexual activities. Of course, nobody thinks of what they like as a weird fetish. No, what they like is always "OK" and ...
Views: 3652 - How Well Do You Really Know Your Partner? 1000 'Must Ask' Questions For Couples - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2008 from Dan And JenniferHow compatible are you really with your partner? Down deep, where it really counts? How would you know? Just because you like the same types of foods and pets certainly does NOT mean you'll have a happy, blissful, long-term relationship. Do you know why your mate does or doesn't attend church? ...
Views: 5625 - Danger! Is Too Much Sex With Your Wife Bad For Your Health? (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2008 from Dan And JenniferHaving hot, passionate sex with someone you love is a wonderful experience, certainly more fulfilling than sex with someone you barely know. And having lots of sex and erotic adventures with your partner is usually a really good thing. But how much is too much? Here's a question from ...
Views: 4313 - Emotional Competency Builds Healthy Passionate Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2008 from Dan And JenniferExplore the Logic of Passion Emotions are the primal bonds of our relationships. They are authentic, immediate, intimate, passionate, and memorable. They provide a window into another’s most genuine thoughts and feelings while they reveal our own true selves. Emotions are colorful, ...
Views: 1227 - Weathering The Storm - How To Survive Stressful Times Together - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2008 from Dan And JenniferLife doesn’t always go smoothly, have you noticed that? It’s easy to feel in love and happy with your partner during times of success and relative calm. But times like that don’t come along all that often. My husband and I figure we have had one year that was ...
Views: 2930 - Help! My Husband is Addicted to Porn! (Video) - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2008 from Dan And JenniferOK, fine... We all have different views on pornography and sexually explicit movies and pictures. Some people take a firm stand against porn, while others use porn and erotic movies to enhance and spice up their sex lives. And these days, internet pornography is easily accessible to those ...
Views: 1670 - Why Do Happy Couples Suddenly Fall Out Of Love? - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2008 from Dan And JenniferIt seems to be a complete mystery. Something we cannot understand. And yet it happens every day all around us: People who used to love each other madly suddenly fall out of love, just like that. What are the reasons? Sarah's Story: Sarah and her boyfriend had been the perfect couple. It was as ...
Views: 16884(1 vote) - Astrological Compatibility: Are The Stars In Alignment For Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Dan And JenniferSome partners are possessive, while others don't even ask where you were all night. And when it comes to independence, it can be maddening if the two of you don't have a good fit. You may want your main squeeze to be with you all the time, while your honey bristles at being under a tight leash. ...
Views: 4255 - The Hidden Dangers Of Trying To Control Your Husband Or Wife... - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Dan And JenniferThere is a beautiful little town just south of where I live. It has peaceful, quiet, tree-lined streets with beautiful homes both old and new. It is the perfect example of small town America, a place where many of us dream of raising our children, a place that we think of as being safe. Last ...
Views: 1145 - How To Stop Resentment From Killing Your Relationship (Video) - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2008 from Dan And JenniferAfter being married for a while, many couples find themselves in a situation where one partner feels angry, hurt, and/or resentful toward the other. They feel that they're the only one who's made sacrifices for the relationship, that they gave up their dreams, so that their partner could ...
Views: 1211 - The Battle of the Sexes - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2007 from Dan And JenniferGrowing up in the 60’s with a liberal mother I was all over the women’s movement. We marched for Choice, we burned our bra’s, we shouted out “Equal Rights for Equal Pay!” And, we did a lot of good. Things have changed. They are not yet as equal as they should be ...
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