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- Can a baby boy play with dolls? - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaFor the parents of toddlers, it is very important to know what you are offering to your kids is affecting their attitudes towards life deeply. Leaving aside the evolutionary viewpoint, am focusing on the environment we provide for our kids. Many psychologists would agree that children learn ...
Views: 2361(1 vote) - Can Wearing Red Shoes Affect Your Self-Esteem? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaSelf-esteem is very well understood now-a-days as far as its definition is concerned it is to improve one’s knowledge, success rate, social and emotional life, and strive for the next level of achievement continuously. Ones overall evaluations of successes and failures become self-esteem in ...
Views: 3365(1 vote) - How Can You Think Differently! - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaTensions and worries are of dissimilar varieties. Some are based on relationships, some are financial and others are conceptual. We live in a variety of cultures, thus experiences are too complex and ambiguous at a large level. Notwithstanding, our many of the troubles could be solved through a ...
Views: 1612(1 vote) - Importance of Time in the Treatment of Psychological Disorders - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaTime is a very important factor in each and every field of life. Everybody knows its importance and management strategies very well. Unfortunately, in the field of psychology, time is not given so much importance. We go to psychologists when finish with all doctors and practitioners in the field ...
Views: 1553(1 vote) - Human Love Need Not to be Unconditional! - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe all know what unconditional love is and how to apply it in a proper way. We all know parents love for their children must be unconditional, Gods love for his creation is always unconditional, and we know we need to develop unconditional love if we love someone truly. Unconditional means, love ...
Views: 1538(1 vote) - 10 Activities To Increase Creativity Among Toddlers - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaThere are many kinds of toys that we can choose for our toddlers. In this process of choosing, parents have more decisive power and especially mothers can inculcate energy into the hearts of their children for specific objects. All kinds of toys are beneficial to children to some extent but some ...
Views: 2445(2 votes) - How Can You Motivate Your Children To Write A Book? - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaThere are many things parents can do for their children. They can offer lots of activities to facilitate their creative skills , they can explore new places to give their children new exposures, they can provide them with lots of books to read and write, and they can play with them or provide ...
Views: 1818(1 vote) - Things To Learn From Babies - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaHave you ever seen a baby? She is so cute with her tiny feet, pure smile, loving gestures and incredible affection. Have you ever realized that your child could not walk properly, could not speak fluently, could not fulfill any task given to her and could not even take food with care ( without ...
Views: 2034(2 votes) - Rich Intimacy Between Parents Brings up Confident Kids! - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2015 from Dr. Mona AeyshaHow can you give a different Background to your kids? We, being parents, want to give our kids the best of all: education, health, success, happiness and whatever they desire. To gain the goals above, we adapt different strategies and techniques. Some hire classes of different kinds to keep ...
Views: 1531 - 7 Activities to improve the Attachment and Interaction between you and your Toddlers - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaAlthough there are many activities that you can choose from to create a wonderful environment at home while playing with your kids, but in this article I will only focus on things that need no or small amount of cash and will provide maximum pleasure of interaction and attachment between you and ...
Views: 1731 - A Little Gestural Mistake Proves A Neglect For Someone! - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaConsider the following examples for a while: a. You are on your way and you come across a mother with her sweet toddler child. You start cuddling him/her and ignore the mother totally (no eye contact) b. You meet someone you know on your way, with his or her spouse. For you, the spouse is a ...
Views: 1532 - A Request To Parents - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaHow parents introduce their children to others impact on their personalities strongly. There are many examples that may clarify the concept better. Let us consider: A parent is introducing his/her child to his/her relative/friend and says with a smiling face- a. She is too aggressive. ...
Views: 1601 - A, b, c, d of Education - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaEducation is must for everyone and especially for children, it is vital than any other consideration. Informed parents in all over the world are personally involved in the enhancement of their kid’s education and career in the long run. Nobody in this global world would deny the importance of a ...
Views: 1560 - Abusive Traditions Disguised under Cultural Beliefs ! - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2019 from Dr. Mona AeyshaFrom centuries people have been learning about relationships and experiencing all kinds of abuse in their day to day life whether personally experiencing or through knowing about others’ stories. There are many kinds of abuse-child abuse, old age abuse and female-child abuse with various types: ...
Views: 1160 - Adopt a Light Lifestyle in Your Busy Routine - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2015 from Dr. Mona AeyshaUsually when we talk about the healthy lifestyle; the following comes to our mind: Eating healthy food in which fruits and vegetables are on the top of the list Doing exercise that will keep your body fit and active. For example, riding bicycle, walking, running, dancing, and other gym ...
Views: 1436 - All You Need to Do is To Choose! - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2017 from Dr. Mona AeyshaUnconscious background matters a lot to succeed in our life or live a happy peaceful life at least. Should we think about it twice before ignoring this very important aspect of our life? True, we need to explore it first. As it is very deep and complex human emotion. Let me give you an example ...
Views: 1733 - Attract What You Want! - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaI have read more than 50 books on the Law of Attraction and they all focus on the same thing but the way of expression is different. I cannot see any difference of opinion between, the writers main focus. They all believe in the state of receiving. They all agree on the power of gratitude. They ...
Views: 1933 - Big Decisions are caused by little Beliefs! - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaDecision making is very complex as many concepts play their role to make it happen. For most of the time, we don’t know which concept is leading ourselves towards an immediate decision. These are hidden concepts that make our background to work within our brains. Here, I am least interested in ...
Views: 1730 - Book Review: Rukhsati - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaIn this book I have highlighted a very serious custom of Pakistan named,rukhsati',which means sending off girls with their husbands on the wedding day. But in reality it feels like girls are the burden and guests in their parents home and are supposed to leave it one day to live finally in their ...
Views: 1945 - Can We Save Our Children From Being Aggressive? - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaAggression in children is not very common in cold countries as compared to warm places. There are many factors that contribute to the child’s aggressive behavior: weather, noise pollution, family structure, food, and parents parenting style. The most important one is ‘parents' parenting ...
Views: 1582 - Circle Of Happiness - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaHappiness is no doubt a feeling, very much desired, true, delicate and crystal clear. Everybody knows when he/she is happy with him/her, with others, with the work, with the environment and even with his/her creator. We all become happy in various degrees- average, low, high, the least and the ...
Views: 1556 - Do our beliefs help us in solving our problems? - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaThe beliefs that we love or hate usually are part of ourselves and we are primary caretaker of them. We want to preserve them at any cost and would not lose them for any price. Sometimes we have to pay a heavy price to keep our wordings, principles and beliefs. Beliefs simply represent us and we ...
Views: 1610 - Does Your Culture Support The Positivity Inside You? - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaPositivity is a universal trait and a common factor to enhance our well being over all over the world. Every day we learn about positivity and try to adopt it as much as possible in our day to day life. We love to be called as positive parents, couples, children and positive members of our ...
Views: 1570 - Emotional Immunization - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaChildren are our next generation and our future depends on them. They need to be healthy emotionally, physically and psychologically. We all know that medicines help us in curing diseases and improve our health in all over the world. Similarly we know how antibiotics prove a beneficial medicine ...
Views: 1927 - Fashion, A Part Of Culture Or A Need In Pakistan! - by Submitted on May 18, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaFashion is not bad rather a need in today’s modern lifestyle. It is not limited to only dress out-fits rather covers all aspects of life from home-décor, gardening, cultural things, vehicles, traditions, parties, vacations, hobbies, professions, to beliefs,values, thoughts, priorities and ...
Views: 2396 - Gift Giving Thoughts - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaThere are many ideas for gift giving today that psychologists have already explored it thoroughly. The gift can be as simple as a 'hello', and can be as complicated as a 'life'. Sometimes we need to hear some words of love as a gift and sometimes the 'presence of someone' becomes a gift of life ...
Views: 1392 - Habits vs Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaBeliefs, thoughts and education play a vital role in one's personality overall. Our minds determine our personality types. We all judge different things in our own unique way and this attribute make our identity distinguished from others. We just cannot survive without our brains! Some people ...
Views: 1392 - Habits vs Thoughts - by Submitted on May 25, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaThere is a lot of literature about the kinds of emotions and their implications. You must have seen people with positive and negative emotions. You also observe that sometimes we are high in one emotion and low in the other. We keep on changing our mood and emotion as well. When we continue ...
Views: 1474 - Happiness As I Perceive! - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaToday I taught myself the definition of Happiness that would best satisfy me at least and that I want to share with you so that you could think it over too. You might have the same meaning like me so this mail will affirm your belief too. When we say happiness is something you want to get ( ...
Views: 1610 - Happy Mood Brings Better Perception - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe all have different kinds of aspirations, perceptions and beliefs. There are many theories about how we form them, modify and re-establish them for our purposes. Among several theories one is that we make them instantly, indirectly, and unconsciously while experiencing a unique situation or ...
Views: 1523 - Healthy Moments - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe all learn from experiences and that is the most believing and convincing knowledge we ever gain. There is no limit to that. Let's take an example and then focus on the topic. I was wondering why I am blessed with poverty, struggle and hardships in my life since birth. All I got was not ...
Views: 1790 - How Can You Raise Your Chances Of Break-Up? - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWhen you go for shopping, you come across many products of your choice and you choose something that you like obviously in terms of beauty, quality, and price. When you have no choice available, you go to the item you are in need of. When there are some choices, you do a little comparison of ...
Views: 1489 - How Much A Product Will Cost Your Self-Esteem? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaAs a mortal human being, we just cannot deny the importance of products we use in our daily life. I am a fan of relationship science and its related benefits, but for this time, I want to highlight the benefits of the tangible items around us. As we use them often, they are closest to us, ...
Views: 1797 - How To Attract All Along With That Special One ! - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe all have different kinds of mind-sets, personalities, attitudes, beliefs, values, predispositions, perceptual tendencies, and habits overall. We live by our behavioural, cognitive and emotional trails in one way or the other. These traits are our identity, pride, recognition, esteem, and ...
Views: 1399 - If You Are In Doubt, Leave It Aside For A While - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe are educated, informed, smart and vigilant. Even then we make wrong choices, wrong decisions, keep guilts and miseries. In one way or the other we suffer from our own misjudgments and misperceptions. We cannot control our mistakes from being happen and cannot save ourselves from being ...
Views: 1583 - Indirect effect of mothers' gestures on their children's personalities - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaParents do have a strong effect on their childrens personalities. Usually their attitude towards their kids and towards others is very important. Most of parental concerns are about kids education, leisure, social life and behavior in general, in terms of how they are getting along with all ...
Views: 1433 - Learning : A Basic Human Need - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe as human beings are designed to live with food, shelter, love emotions, health, relationships, and many other things common for all of us in all over the world. Our instincts, attitudes, behaviors, aptitudes and personalities are totally understood the world over. We recognize the meanings of ...
Views: 1773 - Like Your Face Your Perception Is Unique Too! - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaFigure and ground relationship is very common among gestalt psychologists. It is one of the most popular laws of visual perception which states that figure-ground organization is a type of perceptual grouping that is a vital necessarily for recognizing objects through vision. It is known as ...
Views: 1520 - Looking For Quick Fixes: No Way - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe being a human always search for easy fixes, short cuts, and quick ways to fulfill our desires, wishes, and needs. We want to be happy as early as possible. We are quite impatient and inconsistent in achieving our goals and become successful. It is our nature and we fight with our nature to ...
Views: 1709 - Mother Nature - by Submitted on May 11, 2015 from Dr. Mona AeyshaOnce upon a time, in the city of Bathgate, Scotland, a full term pregnant girl, poorly dressed, was walking around the streets of the city aimlessly, carelessly but with great passion. She was quite educated, but no work at that very moment had put her in the most vulnerable situation. She had ...
Views: 1711 - My Words - My Beliefs - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe speak languages that often represent our thoughts, cultural beliefs, religious beliefs, viewpoints and serve as communication needs in all over the world. Our languages contain different words for different feelings such as being happy, grieved, cheer full, cool, indifferent, warm, hot, ...
Views: 1658 - Neechey Lagna – a toxic concept of Patriarchal Culture of Pakistan - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2018 from Dr. Mona AeyshaIn Pakistani culture, many sayings/ concepts have taken the place of cultural things, and people consciously/unconsciously accepts them and adopt them in their life. One of those concepts is, “ to be overly obedient to your wife” ( beewi key neechey lag jana). It means that if someone is taking ...
Views: 2447 - No Objective Reality Exists Indeed! - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2014 from Dr. Mona Aeysha"Belief is defined in Webster's Unabridged Third New International Dictionary as a 'conviction of the truth of some statement or the reality of some being or phenomenon………………………… One must therefore take cognitive, behavioral, sensory, motivational, affective, and contextual factors into account ...
Views: 1540 - Not To Tell A Lie! - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWhat is right and what is wrong, we all know about it. What is truth and what is lie, we all know about it. Usually we get the message to speak truth and to be right. We internalize the idea that we need to be right and trust worthy. This principle is not very simple indeed. For most of the ...
Views: 1426 - One Picture And Two Effects: Light Or Dark - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe all have different types of personalities, attitudes, moods, emotions, languages, cultures, beliefs, values, traditions, customs, and priorities in life. We share a few commonalities and the big differences even when we live together as a family member, a part of a social group and being a ...
Views: 1598 - Our Multi-Dimensionality - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWe are not only multidimensional rather thousand dimensional bodies. One single word, e.g. love, stands for thousand expressions for thousand occasions for one person and keeps on changing its definition from time to time. The same is true with other words too. To continue with our multi ...
Views: 1415 - Quality Time - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaIn this short life, we always crave for things- sometimes for wealth, sometimes for health, and sometimes for relationships. We strive for successes, fame, and popularity. Our ultimate goal is our happiness and satisfaction to a large level. What we need to understand is that our time is the ...
Views: 1546 - Repitition And Concept Formation - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2013 from Dr. Mona AeyshaOther than genetic factors involved in our personalities, here I am focusing on the factors that shape our habits and then we develop a specific attitude towards life. At first our mothers or caregivers influence on our personality by offering us certain choices related to dressing, food, ...
Views: 1484 - Saving On Children Accessories: Tips For Parents - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaYou know children accessories are very expensive nowadays. They require food, dresses, and toys. They will push you towards economical draught in no time. So what would you do to prevent this. Here are some useful tips for you: 1. Always buy second hand clothes – whether it is your new born or ...
Views: 1769 - Secret Behind Your Choice - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2014 from Dr. Mona AeyshaWhy the Nice biscuits are nice? I do not know if you think they are nice. Anyhow, there could be several reasons for them to be nice : They are sweet They are inexpensive They are available Some has brought them for you Being a child, your mother used to offer them to you Your friend ...
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