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- If You Want to See Change in the World, Do This! - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Guy FinleyAround the world today, millions if not billions of individuals are being consumed by negativity. The world and our relationship to the cosmos always run through cycles of increased or decreased activity. Right now we are in a cycle of increased activity where many people are stirred up. In such ...
Views: 864 - Special Exercises to Help You and Your Partner Grow Together - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2019 from Guy FinleyIf we want to help our partner change, we must change. There is no other way. And more: unless we’re exceptionally blessed, it’s unlikely our partner has the same wish that we do: to keep growing and exploring a love that, at the start, was filled with surprising changes, but that has lost some ...
Views: 851 - Freedom From the Fear of Feeling Powerless - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2021 from Guy FinleyTrue spiritual “power” isn’t the ability to imagine and implement an endless series of new solutions to old problems. Rather, it is a radical new and higher form of self-understanding, one that illuminates and transcends our unconscious need to have any painful problems at all. Which would ...
Views: 838 - Find Your Fearless Inner Guide - by Submitted on May 31, 2020 from Guy FinleyFind Your Fearless Inner Guide The journey to the divinity within has its dangers. About this we are clear: the inner path is lined with many trials and pitfalls. But there is nothing to be feared in this realization. In truth, these encounters are actually stages of initiation; they are ...
Views: 818 - Start Making Space for Your Partner to Grow - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2019 from Guy FinleyIt was a little before 7 AM on Saturday morning when Alex sat down in his living room with his first cup of coffee. He was up a little bit earlier than usual because a strange noise had awakened him from his sleep. So, when he looked out of his bedroom, he wasn't too surprised to discover the ...
Views: 818 - Use Every Relationship to Uplift Your Life - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2021 from Guy FinleyThe greatest, most abundant resource on planet Earth is also its least understood and utilized. Its unlimited supply is found virtually everywhere, anytime, and under all circumstances, even though few recognize its real value. What is this most precious collective resource? It is our ...
Views: 774 - Rise Above All Runaway Reactions - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2020 from Guy FinleyAs events occur, we always assume that we know what they mean for us, and we immediately fall into what feels like the appropriate emotional reaction. That reaction further influences the way we view the following events, and in this way our initial response is “confirmed.” We rarely question ...
Views: 744 - Change is Now or Never - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2021 from Guy FinleyVictory over our own lower nature is now or never. We can't end conflict later. We can't stop being sad, cruel, angry, scared, or anxious later. Thinking, or hoping, that any destination we have in mind is going to be superior to where we're presently standing is exactly why we're still standing ...
Views: 700 - The Power to Unfix Yourself from Any Negative State - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2022 from Guy FinleyWe value negative states because of the strong sense of self we get from them. This may be very difficult for us to see, but a strong light will show us the freeing facts. No one wants to believe that he or she values things like self-pity, anger, and depression. We would insist we don't, and as ...
Views: 696 - New Powers to Help You Perfect Your Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2021 from Guy FinleyThere is always a moment before a problem starts with another human being where we realize that what we want is not going to happen. Ordinarily we'll say the other person is about to "ruin my day." But there is, for those of us who want to understand, not only a way for our day not to be ruined, ...
Views: 686 - Stop Being Tricked into Feeling Bad About Anything - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2021 from Guy FinleyNo one really wants to talk about it, but the truth is, there is a kind of “evil spell” hanging over each of us and our world as well. In fact, part of this global spell is our denial of its existence. It is called suffering. Everyone does it—and, like hypnotized captives, everyone believes that ...
Views: 596 - Meet Every Moment Awake to a Limitless Life - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2021 from Guy FinleyIt’s safe to say that most us wrestle with some kind of frustration on a daily basis. This kind of dissatisfaction can be with ourselves, over what we can or can’t get done—or with others, who may deny us our wish or otherwise disappoint our expectations. Accordingly, we can feel as though we ...
Views: 566 - How to Attract Divine Attention - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2022 from Guy FinleyOver the many years now of living on a small mountaintop in southern Oregon, I have learned many invaluable spiritual lessons by observing the wildlife that shares the forest in which my small house sits sequestered. In truth, nature and her creatures are always exhibiting some of the most ...
Views: 550 - Choose to Be Part of Life’s Endless Beginning - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2022 from Guy FinleyThe universe is a work being continually perfected; though unseen, it is justice, compassion in action. Those who resist and resent what comes their way—who fight with its unending waves that rock their contrived sense of reality—are actually the ones who live without real choice. They must ...
Views: 494 - Awaken to the World that Drags You Down - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2023 from Guy FinleyLong before it’s possible for us to be spiritually reborn, we must first awaken to ourselves. Awakening is the sudden realization that somehow or other what I took to be the only world isn’t the only world.. But in a true awakening, I recognize that there’s a world beneath me. And the ...
Views: 480(1 vote) - Three False Beliefs That Poison Our Relationships - by Submitted on Aug 24, 2022 from Guy FinleyHere is a list of three false beliefs that betray our hearts and poison our relationships. The more aware we can become of these long-conditioned false beliefs and how they compromise our ability to have fulfilling relationships, the more freedom we will win from them: False belief # 1: Our ...
Views: 480 - Wake Up to the Unseen Source of Useless Suffering - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2022 from Guy FinleyThere is an unseen source of daily suffering that is the constant companion of humanity. It is in one respect one of the great driving forces behind the darkness that encompasses this planet – the unremitting wars, the violence, the greed, the fear, the desperation – all the things we see in the ...
Views: 465 - Make this Spiritual Fact Your Friend and Set Yourself Free - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2024 from Guy FinleyFreedom, real freedom, does exist. But it is not a condition or an event, nor is it found within another person's approval of us. Nor is real freedom ever a mere effect of circumstances, otherwise it is not freedom but merely a temporary pleasure we have mistaken for being the same as being ...
Views: 265 - Make this Spiritual Fact Your Friend and Set Yourself Free - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2024 from Guy FinleyFreedom, real freedom, does exist. But it is not a condition or an event, nor is it found within another person's approval of us. Nor is real freedom ever a mere effect of circumstances, otherwise it is not freedom but merely a temporary pleasure we have mistaken for being the same as being ...
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