Quitting Just Makes Everything Take Longer So Just Don’t

The tendency of the human being is to think that if you hide away, pretend it is not happening, bury your head in the sand then somehow the storm will be taken away from you…

It never works…

You tried that already!

And it did not work then, it will not work now…

Things just got worse, didn’t they?

Slowly but surely, all that avoidance, caught up with you…

And now instead of making solid decisions, you are still hiding…

Quitting…

Backing down…

Telling yourself that you cannot do anything else…

Telling yourself that you have already tried everything…

Telling yourself that it is all happening to you and it is just too much for any one person to handle…

But where is that getting you, really?

WHERE THE FUCK IS THAT GETTING YOU?

Be honest!

Are you really doing everything you can?

Or are you telling yourself that the pressure is too high and you just need to admit defeat?

Are you looking at where you want to be – the success, the triumph?

Or are you looking at where you think it is inevitable that you must end up – in defeat, in quitting?

And in some ways, let’s be really honest here…

You want the release…

The respite…

YOU WANT TO QUIT!

But you want to be able to tell yourself that you had no choice…

So you drag this out…

pretending to be at work…

But really, just pretending…

And then you tell yourself that really you had no choice!

And I tell you (probably the only one that will ever tell you!)

STOP FUCKING LYING TO YOURSELF!

I know I am being harsh…

So harsh, in fact that you will want to turn away…

And yet, honey, I have been where you are…

AND I QUIT!

I handed in the towel…

I put my head down and pretended to die…

And for 4 fucking years, I allowed defeat to be my middle name…

I allowed myself to live in the drama of being a loser…

I told myself I had no choice…

I had to quit…

I was beaten…

And truthfully, I revelled in it!

Because then I could just passively let life happen and I would not have to be responsible…

I could blame the fact that I had tried and lost…

And try not to see that actually, I had never really played full out…

I had dabbled and dabbled at business…

Pretended to have my head in the game…

but really, I had NEVER PLAYED FULL OUT!

And I took the out just to escape the pressure of my debt…

Hey, I was pregnant, right?

Of course, I could not take the pressure…

I still remember my interview with the insolvency dude and he was trying to find excuses for me and I went along with it because how could I just say, I had quit?

Oh yeah, it was the business’s fault…

It was the economy’s fault…

It was … BLAH, BLAH, BLAH!!!!

Nope, it was MY FAULT!

My fucking fault…

And to this day, I talk about the bankruptcy and I have people telling me “Well, every successful person has been bankrupt so no worries, you are just following the trend”

They try to excuse me…

And I just smile…

Because I KNOW now that I quit…

And quitting just made my eventual success take longer…

I indulged myself in failure for the next 4 years…

Telling myself I had no choice…

It was the blank that got me…

But I was simply addicted to the drama, to being passive, to telling myself I could not do anything…

And so, nothing changed until I DID!

Until I finally actually listened to Spirit telling me what I was capable of…

Until I stopped begging and pleading for relief and started instead to go after it with everything…

Until I truly did hit rock bottom because the bankruptcy was not enough to get me there…

OH NO!

I had to keep failing, keep quitting…

Keep lying to myself…

Until I woke up 4 years later to the fact that I had to go back to work full time and put my babies in nursery…

Then I finally woke up!

I found a why strong enough to kick my ass and get me going…

THEN I stopped making excuses for myself and got on the narrow path…

And I made the fucking thing work…

no credit, no money, no NOTHING!

I had to make the fucking thing work because I chose to!

Yes, I chose to pay some expensive coach, even though I could legitimately say I could not afford it…

Yep, I FOUND A WAY!

I finally chose to win!

I stopped saying yes to stupid drama in my life…

I stopped saying yes to people…

They disliked the change…

BUT I COULD NO LONGER CARE!

I WAS DONE WITH BEING A LOSER!

And I am still done with it!

Done, DONE DONE!

Are you done yet?

Or are you still buying into your sad sorry story of woe?

YOU are winner, cloaking yourself in a gown of failure…

I know it is easier there…

I know it feels like you can hide there…

But finally, FINALLY you are going to have to WAKE THE FUCK UP and change things…

It can be today!

YOU ARE A MOTHERFUCKING CHAMPION!

And you are trying to tell me this is your story!

PLEASE!

Tell someone else that story…

I am not taken in by your drama…

Yes, I know it is tough…

Horrid, hellish, craziness right now in your head…

And you probably cannot even hear me…

No matter how blunt I get…

You don’t want to hear me…

But I have to wake you up!

I have to wake you the fuck up to the fact that you can win this…

I still look back at my time of failure and I know I could have made different choices…

I still regret the choices I did make…

Becaue I could have made different ones…

And to be honest, it was not even the bankruptcy that was the problem…

Bankruptcy just gives you a clean slate…

Sometimes, you just gotta take it…

And that part is okay when you are deliberate about it…

I know, shocking that I would say that, particularly if any norms read this…

The part that was the problem…

Was the victim identity I took on…

The pretense that something was happening to me…

And I could not do anything about it except to retreat…

That was the problem…

I ACTUALLY QUIT ON THE INSIDE…

THAT WAS THE PROBLEM!

And that, leader, is your problem too…

It is the quitting on the inside…

The taking on of the victim persona…

I know the pain feels too much to handle and so you think you have no choice but to take on that persona…

You think I should feel sorry for you…

But be thankful that I don’t

Or else, you would never win…

You would keep going down, down, DOWN…

Telling yourself that there is no other way…

YES THERE IS ANOTHER WAY…

It is just not an easy way…

CHOOSE TO WIN!

REALLY CHOOSE TO FUCKING WIN!

And refuse to settle or give into the victim…

BE THE CHAMPION THAT YOU REALLY ARE…

NOW!

Answer me this…

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT?

Then forget the nonsense and fucking go after it with every fibre in your being…

Ignore every other thing for now…

AND GET A MOVE ON!

YOU don’t make money, change lives, create success by focusing on failure…

By focusing on whether life is fair or not…

On whining about the fact that it is easier for everyone else…

Seems obvious but I think it bears restating…

You get it by digging your feet into your path and getting out there and telling everyone everywhere about how you can help them and asking them to put their money down…

You get it by fucking believing in yourself…

You fucking build that audience…

You communicate with them…

You show up!

You be persistent…

Relentless…

You tap into every freaking energy you have…

And you refuse any other alternative…

AND YOU FUCKING WIN!

WHY?

Because you refuse to quit!

I don’t care whether you go bankrupt or not…

That is not the point!

You just fucking refuse to quit!

And that is an internal decision…

So, leader, what will it be?

Lie down and quit…

Or wake up and win!

Which is it?

You better fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live…

Because you do want to!

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It is for winners and hopefully, after reading the above, you recognise what a winner is to me…

Not some person who has nothing to overcome and they just want to pretend at business…

It is for you, the overcomer, who may be stuck now but you are ready to win…

It is for you, who KNOW that yuo are born to win…

To be champion…

You know that this crazy situation is a temporary blip…

Not a permanent place to rest your head…

And you are ready to do what it takes to win…

To see the darkness and yet, look to the light…

And aim for the light…

Not just to avoid the darkness…

YOU WANT TO WIN and I can help you do exactly that…

I will do the techy work for you…

Because I want you to FOCUS ON THE WIN!

And then you had better fucking show up and claim the win…

I will tell you how…

I will coach you to win…

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And yes, it will be intense…

BUT YOU WILL WIN!

It is that simple.

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