I have been complaining for weeks now that I am “Stuck”. Those of you who know me and communicate with me often enough know what I am talking about……
so lets start this off with…..I really love my patients! I learn so much from them every day.

So being in this stuck state of mine has really begun to have an effect on my life. I checked my bank account today only to find that 10 transactions hit my account minutes before my deposited cheque had cleared….causing a insufficient fee of $360.00. ($36.00 per item). I have to say I was more then furious.

Here I am at work, calling the bank only to find that I am in the wrong because indeed…the transactions hit before the cheque cleared completely and those are the rules. What goes through my mind …other then the few words of disgust…the words….I AM STUCK.

So lets get back to what I learned from my patient today. Unbelievably bouncy 63 year old comes in for her yearly mammogram. I think she could detect my mood….and she seemed to want to fix ME! She had me giggling by the end of the procedure. She asked me just before she left…what is your fear? She winked at me and said…you need to put the magic back into your life.

I realized that certain events in my life, and not recognizing the events had put me back into that downward spiral of the DRAMA TRAP. You know what I am talking about…we’ve all been there. You know the trap…the whoa is me life sucks today trap. Where you think all about the negativity going on around you and wallow in it. Thats where I have been…thats where I got stuck!
Remember this equation….. E + R = O event + reaction = outcome

The events that took place got a reaction from me which lead to my outcome. The reaction I had was because of old learned emotions that I placed on anything related to this sort of event. The outcome is what I attracted.

You are the only person that can decide the outcome of the events in your life. In order to become Unstuck…think about the question my patient asked….what is your fear? When you realize your fear..also realize that you can change the emotion you have attached to that fear…and perhaps your outcome next time around will be a bit different!

I will get the magic back….now that I know how to get unstuck!

Always Learning…Always Living….

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Author's Bio: 

Melanie Eatherton is a Success Coach, Speaker, Author, Radio Show Host and Advocate for raising the awareness of human potential. She spent most of her adult life as a mammographer and this role helped her to study women.
Melanie calls herself the Law of attraction Diva, because she realized that she was the cause of her own results. Since coming to this realization and choosing to share what she learned, not only has it changed her life for the better, but it has helped many other people change their life too.