Are You Trapped In A Sexless Relationship?

Leader, you want to hit $5k online in your business and you are stuck in a stifling relationship that does not satisfy you…

But you are committed to this person…

Great!

But this has got to be dealt with, not swept under the rug…

It is impossible to create an abundant life when there are areas of your life that are so stifled…

You do know that we are sexual beings…

And if this area feel completely blocked, it will show up in other areas of life as well.

If you are one of those who manages to have orgasms apart from your partner then at least it is not completely blocked up but surely you want to be able to enjoy this area of life with your partner as well…

To feel wanted and desired by someone who has promised to do life with you, married or not…

Because that sense of ‘being wanted’ will come with you into the marketplace and you do not then try to find approval in your prospects…

You know that you are loved and desired by your partner and so then you are free to polarize people in the marketplace because you do not need them to like you anymore…

All you want from prospects is to be able to serve them in some way…

Rather for every single one of them to like you!

If you need everyone’s approval, you will show up weak and bland in the marketplace, trying not to make any waves, hoping that people will just like you and buy from you because you are likeable…

But it does not work that way…

You have to be powerful leader…

And how?

Many MANY ways but for right now, get your sex life worked out…

1.  When Last Did You Have Sex With Your Partner?

Is this something that happens on a regular basis or as it been a while?

2. Did it end in an orgasm? or was it unsatisfying for both of you?

What happened the last time you attempted sex?  The chances are, something bad as if it was enjoyable for everyone, then you would be having it a lot more regularly.  So, think about it…

Was there pain involved?  Then maybe a medical issue that can be dealt with by popping over to your physician or it may be an emotional issue resulting in physical pain and so some talk therapy ( coaching or actual therapy) may be key to opening the door to relief.  It is incredible how much power your mind has over your physical body.

Was it emotional pain?  Do you feel untrusting of your partner and you are inhibited in his/her presence?

Being open with each other can help with this but maybe, you need some assistance/a third-party to be objective so it does not just degenerate into another yelling match.

Are you finding it hard to main arousal for the length of time it takes your partner to get to orgasm?  You want to be done fast and this can happen to either males or females.  Maybe, one of you feels a lack of time to really relax into lovemaking.  Life is busy, for sure, but some things take time and choosing to learn how to take it slow and easy will make a world of difference to the results you get with your partner.

It may also be an underlying need to avoid being caught. Having spent your teenage years trying to avoid the prying eyes of a parent as you discovered your sexuality, you may now be taking this ‘need for speed’ into your relationship and it is not conducive to a fulfilling sexual relationship.

You may feel that sex is to be endured as a result of your religious beliefs. Maybe, one or both of you in the relationship think that your higher power only wants you to have sex for the purposes of having a baby and so, though you desire to have sex just because it is fun, you feel guilty about it and end up holding back.

Leader, you need support with this.  You need to allow yourself to explore the possibility that your sexual drive was given to you by your higher power.  And like your vision, it is not there to taunt you and make you feel a longing that can never be fulfilled!  It is there for you to enjoy, to revel in, to be empowered by.

 

That is just a number of ideas that may be causing you to live in a sexless relationship.  Your individual needs may be completely different.  However, this is what I know…

For you to step into abundance, leader…

YOU MUST HEAL!

And this means being willing to do the work in every area of life…

You may be trying to ignore this area of your life because it feels like there is no solution and so you are trying to focus all your energy on building your business but you and I know that you do not feel complete.

And in some cases, you will find yourself holding back from doing the real work of money-making because you do not feel worthy of success.  After all, if the one who professes to love you  does not want you, who will want you? and so you hold back from playing full-out so that you do not discover that what you most fear is actually true!

I get it, Leader!

And Yet, it is time for freedom

Don’t you agree?

And for the sake of freedom in all areas of your life, I invite you to join me for the second run of Spirit Sex Success – A private one-on-one mentoring biz bootcamp where we handle your spirituality, sexuality, past and put a strategy in place to very speedily get you to $5k plus a month online.  Find out more and join in at RosemaryNonnyKNight.com/spiritsexsuccess.  We begin on 6th July and there are only 5 spaces.  Join in now!

Fight for, deliberately design the life you are born to live.

Because you want to!