Are you suffering from dis-ease or dissatisfaction, are you leading a small life? Most people are, we all have talents that go unrecognized we all have voices that go unheard and we all have something to say, to teach, to write about and even to sing.
Because fear rejection, or what others might say about us or think about us if we came out of our shell, we stay locked up and imprisoned in our homes, jobs and relationships that don’t serve us, and we plod along through life waiting for the break that never comes.
We feel that no one knows we exist, that no one knows what we are capable of, that no one hears us or sees us for who and what we really are, and if they did wouldn’t they be amazed.
As Thomas Edison said “If we did all the things we are capable of we would literally astound ourselves” what if that is true? The question then is “what if”?
Rather than looking back and asking “what if I had done things differently would I be happier now”, (bearing in mind that the past is over and has no bearing on the present) we could ask ourselves what would happen If, or how would it be if we stepped out of our self imposed imprisonment or our comfort zone?
What would it be like if we dared to tell people or show people what we can do, taught them what we have learned, wrote that book or sang that song? What if we dared to lead a bigger life doing more, being more having more, what if we dared to dream and make those dreams a reality how would it be?
In reality the opportunities present themselves daily and possibilities are endless we just miss them whether deliberately or mistakenly. The first step is to ask yourself “how will it be if I never put myself out there, if I never break down the barriers?” “How will it be if I’m never recognized, if I’m never heard, if I’m never seen?” The answers may be too painful to bear.
The remedy is to challenge yourself to step out and make yourself known, to be seen and heard, to stand in who you are and what you do in all your glory. This is the most powerful action you can take for yourself, and the first step toward this would be to get the help and support of a life Coach who can work with you personally to help you become who you truly are, to do what you are meant to do, and to have what you truly deserve out of life to finally realise those dreams.
Start today to think, play and act BIG, you are more than you appear to be, greater than you imagine.
Jan Perkins is a Life Coach living and working in Dorset U.K specialising in Weight Loss and Personal Development. Jan is commited to her own constant improvement and empowers others to do the same. You can contact Jan at http://www.lifematters4u.co.uk
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