Pressure from sociological forces such as TV
programming, movies, advertising, family, and
friends dictate that you must pair off for a
long-term relationship and join the herd or
“couples only” club.

While this is easy for those who happen to be
fated to have a relationship with a compatible,
long-term partner, what about everyone else?

Based on our extensive empirical research, you
meet who you’re meant to meet when you’re
meant to meet them. For those who don’t meet
“the one” before age 30, 40, or whatever other
age they feel they’re supposed to secure a
“permanent” partner, it can cause a lot of anxiety
and even depression.

If you’re single, rather than focusing on what
you don’t have in your love life, we recommend
embracing the benefits; there are many of being
on your own, and we list some of them below.

1) Freedom. As a single person, you can do what
you want, when you want. Yes, in a karmic sense,
everything you do, say, and intend comes back to
you either in this life and more often in a future
life, but when you’re single you aren’t accountable
to anyone else.

2) No compromising. Even people in compatible
relationships need to compromise occasionally.
As a single person, you don’t need to surrender
anything unless you choose to.

3) More time to focus on other areas of your life.
Career, health, friendship, and other goals can
take center stage with all the energy you need to
accomplish them.

4) No in-laws. As a single person, there are no
obligations to spend time with people you may
not really want to.

5) Solo vacations are fun (you meet more people).

6) If you live alone, your space is yours to do with
as you please.

7) You can live out your fantasies, within ethical
and legal boundaries, and no one will try to stop you
or tell you that you are “wrong” if they don’t happen
to agree.

8) You never have to deal with telling someone it’s
over and having them try to guilt you into staying
together.

9) No pressure to perform in bed when you don’t
feel like it.

10) You can flirt with anyone you want and not feel
guilty.

11) You never have to be concerned or anxious
about whether or not your partner is living up to
his or her promises when you’re not around.

12) You can be intimate with who you want, when
you want (responsibly and safely, of course).

13) Being single means you’re operating in your
flow, at your pace, and you’re not psychically blown
off course by another person.

14) No pressure to do what you’re “supposed to” do
on holidays (e.g., Valentine’s day, etc.).

15) No emotionally unhealthy reliance on others to
be your “everything,” which always leads to
disappointment, or pressure from another to fulfill
all their needs.

16) Your m.o.n.e.y is your m.o.n.e.y and you aren’t
responsible for a partner who may not make good
financial choices.

17) Everyone changes and evolves at different
rates. Because you’re single, you don’t have to put
your relationship ahead of your spiritual growth, or
feel guilty about leaving a partner behind if they
choose not to be the best they can be or if you’ve
grown apart to the point of no return.

If you mistakenly buy into the myth that you need
a partner to be happy, being single can be lonely
at times. But on a spiritual and soul level, you are
never really alone, so enjoy your days of being
single while you can.

Copyright © Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Author's Bio: 

Scott Petullo and Stephen Petullo are identical twins and have been exploring metaphysics since the early 1980’s. They are experts in the fields of prediction, personal fate, love life, and past life regression, and are natural psychics and mediums. Get their free report: 13 Spiritual and New Age Myths and 11 Questions to Ask Before Hiring a Psychic. www.mystictwins.com www.holisticmakeover.com