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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- Women Get Better With Age – and So Does the Sex! - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Allura JoyJust like fine wine, women get better with age – and so does the sex. During our younger years, social time is spent either in excessive party-mode or completely focused on academic and personal development. Curiosity about sex is generally fulfilled by amateur experimentation, books, films, ...
Views: 5255(4 votes) - Weekend Forecast; Wet or Dry? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Allura JoyA woman’s body can be just as unpredictable as the weather. When it comes to preparing for sexual activity, sometimes women can become naturally lubricated fairly easy – other times it can be quite difficult. It is important to engage in plenty of foreplay to encourage emotional connection and ...
Views: 2394(1 vote) - Could He Be Going Through MANopause? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2010 from Allura JoyWomen may not be the only ones who experience a “life change” in their bodies and emotions as they become older. Some doctors claim that many of their male patients report similar symptoms that women endure in perimenopause and menopause. Some men experience decreased energy and muscle tone, ...
Views: 2696(1 vote) - Make the Yuletide “Gay”? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2010 from Paul Novello“Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” is one of the most heartwarming Christmas songs. The haunting music and depth of the lyrics speak volumes. As gay guys we often laugh at the pun – but can we really make the yuletide “gay”? The holidays pose many unique challenges for gay men who are ...
Views: 1354 - Art of the Kiss - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2010 from Julian SaganWhen we are little kids, we use kisses throughout the day - we blow kisses to someone, brush our mouth against mommy's cheek, give a smacking kiss to our pet or favorite toy, but all of this does not even compare to the real adult kiss between two people. It is where the most interesting part ...
Views: 969 - The Circumcision Ban and the New Atheism - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2010 from Christopher EdgarYou've probably heard about a recent campaign in San Francisco, California to put a measure on the ballot banning circumcision. I think this campaign illustrates some of the troubling assumptions people are increasingly making about spirituality in our culture, and I'm going to look at some of ...
Views: 1236 - One More Secret To Creating A Super Addictive Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Jack ZellertonIf you want a woman to be madly addicted to you, then you're going to want to know how to create a deep connection. For years I've been helping guys get more sex (and intimacy) in their relationship, by focusing on two basic things: Increasing Your Sexual Value (doing things that make you ...
Views: 1110(3 votes) - How to Achieve the Big ‘O’ and More! - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Allura JoyWhen it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ...
Views: 4033(2 votes) - How to Achieve the Big ‘O’ and More! - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Allura JoyWhen it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ...
Views: 4033(2 votes) - Struggle with Sexual Satisfaction? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Allura JoyWhy is it that some women struggle with attaining sexual satisfaction? Why do some women have difficulty achieving orgasm? It has been reported that over 50% of women have some concerns about their sexuality and are not completely satisfied in this area. Most women have a sexual ‘problem’ at ...
Views: 3461(1 vote) - Look Before You Fall - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Gina HardyInspired by countless stories of friends and acquaintances jumping into relationships without "assessing" the scene, I have come to the conclusion, that to save us from self induced heartache we must indeed look before we fall in love. If possible. Easy to say when the emotions stirred by ...
Views: 984(4 votes) - Thoughts on the Mankind Project Lawsuit - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2010 from Christopher EdgarMany of you probably read the recent story about the attorney who sued his law firm, claiming his boss demanded that he attend the ManKind Project’s New Warrior Training Adventure, a weekend workshop for men, and penalized him when he refused. I won’t comment on the merits of the suit, or the ...
Views: 1699(2 votes) - Wanted: Straight Christian Allies - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2010 from Dr. Steve McSwain,Fact: I am a Christian. Fact: I am straight. Fact: For much too long, I have stood, just as much of the church has, on the wrong side of the gay/lesbian issue. Instead of standing with homosexuals, many in my tradition, and I was one of these once, have mistakenly thought we were upholding ...
Views: 1348 - Stop Premature Ejaculation – With This 95% Effective Breathing Technique - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2010 from Jack GraveWant to know how to stop premature ejaculation just by changing the way you breathe during sex? Then read on... What you may not know is that for an orgasm to happen there has to be tension in your body. Think about what happens normally to your muscle during sex just before ...
Views: 8624 - Sensual Massage for Him - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Allura JoySensual massage is an excellent way to enhance sexual arousal and erotic pleasure. It can be a very enjoyable part of lovemaking as a way to intimately connect and lead into more in-depth foreplay. Massage may be utilized as a sexual therapy, that is, as a means of stimulating the libido – ...
Views: 3899(5 votes) - What Women Should Know About Men - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Allura JoyThe main difference with regard to emotions between men and women in relationships is in the way we communicate our feelings, wants and needs. I’ve certainly noticed from personal experience, as well as from numerous couples that sometimes men have a very difficult time communicating how they ...
Views: 2504(6 votes) - What Do Men Think is Sexy? - by Submitted on Nov 12, 2010 from Allura JoyThis question has been on my mind for quite some time, and I’ve recently asked several men, “What is sexy?” This is sort of like asking, “What is delicious?” or “What is quality?” It is all a matter of personal taste and there is no right or wrong answer. How does a woman exude sexiness to a ...
Views: 6084(6 votes) - Zen to Slim: A Simple 5-Step weight loss plan - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2010 from Edwin ThomasEverybody is health conscious these days and take care of themselves by eating right, exercising and doing the right things so that obesity does not affect them. Being slim and healthy is not just for the sake of good appearance but it keeps a lot of ailments away like cardiovascular diseases, ...
Views: 1351(1 vote) - Is Your Relationship Sizzling or Lukewarm? - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2010 from Dr. Erica Goodstone* Is YOUR Relationship bubbling, simmering or lukewarm? * Are you feeling sexy, desirable, and passionate? * Is your partner showing you the interest and attention you desire? In a recent professional list serve discussion, one of my colleagues, Julian Slowinski, PsyD, shared with us ...
Views: 4283(3 votes) - Can Marine Algae Help Prevent Cancer, STD’s and HIV? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Allura JoyNew research has found that an algae-derived compound called carrageenan is a powerful weapon against the virus that causes cervical cancer and various sexually-transmitted diseases. It is an extract of red algae – a type of seaweed found in the northern Atlantic Ocean. Carrageenan is purely ...
Views: 3351(8 votes) - The Power of Pheremones - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Allura JoyIs initial attraction and sexual arousal really only skin deep? Beyond visual appeal, there’s a subconscious scientific magnetism happening that may affect the physical desirability of those around us. Whether we realize it or not, most women and men are deeply affected by the natural pheromones ...
Views: 3984(4 votes) - Three Ways of Increasing Your Communication for Greater Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Your Relationship. - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Jim BowenAren’t sexual intimacy problems everywhere? People who have come in for emotional intimacy issues can be communicating clearly to their partner: “Get lost!” “It’s all YOUR fault!” It’s so very normal to get caught up in these communication pitfalls. It’s a negative loop of hope, desire, ...
Views: 2466(2 votes) - Why Sexy Women Make Men Feel Bad - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Donna MartinIt’s no shock that the description of women in magazines makes women feel like dirt. But did you know pictures of hot women make men feel worse, too? Everyone knows that the way women are portrayed in our culture – sexy, skinny, and tall – makes the most women feel a bit like the gum. When ...
Views: 3136(1 vote) - Six Wonderful Reasons To Make Love Now - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraIt’s normal that after spending years as a couple, your sex life becomes a little stale. The urge to do it with your lover has reached its plateau. Sex has become a part of the chores. Those sizzling, sweltering, tantric, sex has somehow become the thing of the past. Although there is no ...
Views: 899(1 vote) - How to Get Your Groove Back - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allura JoyWhen you are “in the groove”, you feel confident, sexy, healthy and strong! Being in the groove is all about attitude, and is really quite noticeable to others. People can sense your energy if you feel secure, positive and optimistic – all incredibly attractive qualities. But what happens when ...
Views: 3417(4 votes) - Embracing Menopause - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allura JoyMenopause is certainly not a time to pause from men. In fact, we need to look to our male counterparts for support through this difficult physical and emotional process. It’s important for them to at least try and understand what some women go through during this transitional time in their life. ...
Views: 2871(3 votes) - What Are Your Sex Expectations? 20 Ideas Of Discussion For Sex Expectations - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Steve TuckerOur lives are full of expectations, dreams and goals we want to accomplish. We all have expectations, dreams and goals for our marriage and many of those are in the area of sex. Unfortunately, many couples never take time to sit down and actually discuss their sex expectations. We may feel ...
Views: 7139(1 vote) - Benefits of Sex - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Julian SaganThe prestigious business-magazine Forbes, famous for its richest people of the world ratings, suddenly decided to digress from the boring economic reviews. The recent issue of the weekly magazine pleases the readers with the detailed story on the benefits of active sex life. The journalists have ...
Views: 1693(1 vote) - What Women Want - Asking for the Pleasure You Deserve - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allura JoyFor women, sex is much more than just a mechanical biological activity. We want an extraordinary holistic experience with an attentive, perceptive and expressive partner who is willing to delve into the depths of our soul, sharing absolute bliss in divine union. Is that too much to ...
Views: 2597(1 vote) - HOW TRAUMA SHAPES SEXUALITY - by Submitted on May 25, 2012 from Roni Weisberg-RossWhy would a woman who was sexually abused as a child have rape and submission fantasies that sexually excite her as an adult? Why would another woman who suffered physical abuse as a child now enjoy role-playing dominant/submissive sex games? Why would a man raped or taunted by classmates as ...
Views: 8436 - The Bullying Epidemic - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from amy lewisBy the time this article is published,it will have been a day or two since I read an article about a young man in college whose body was found Monday.He was a student at Ruetgers University in New Jersey who commited suicide. His roommate and a friend of the roommate,placed a webcam in the ...
Views: 1470(1 vote) - What do Women Want from Men in and Out of the Bedroom - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Luminessa EnjaraThis is an age-old question that has been asked for decades and more. According to one woman’s opinion, Dana Perch a professional matchmaker, women want a man who is self-confident. “Confidence... not arrogance, not dominance, not one-upsmanship, not useless bravado, not macho heroics. Women ...
Views: 2323(1 vote) - The Women’s Sex Appeal - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Donna MartinUsually the sexiest women don’t call men names and they don’t sympathize with other women about how their men disappoint them. The sexiest women I know sincerely like men. They think men are pretty great. Rather than being threatened by a man’s testosterone, they respect how it makes men ...
Views: 8255 - SEX AS MEDITATION - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Darlene LancerAll the times you’re disinterested in sex or just too tired, consider this: Sex doesn’t have to be about orgasm. Wrote Thoreau, “We need pray for no higher heaven than the pure senses can furnish, a purely sensuous life.” (The Writings of Henry David Thoreau, 1906). Yes, through lovemaking, ...
Views: 2572(1 vote) - What is sex addiction? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2010 from Beth SocialHere are ten characteristics that can indicate sex addiction: Uncontrollable sexual behaviour; Considerable consequences caused by sexual behaviour; Not be able to stop despite these considerable consequences; Persistently pursue self-damaging behaviour or behaviour that carries with it big ...
Views: 1421(2 votes) - Aphrodisiac Foods that Boost Sex Drive and Desire - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Dr Andrew NapierIt has been believed since ages that there are certain foods, spices and fruits which have innate qualities to works as aphrodisiac and pump up human desire and capacity for lovemaking. However medical science does not agree to the concept completely and still treat this as a placebo effect for ...
Views: 1172 - What to Avoid When in Bed with Your Woman - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Dr Andrew NapierMany women are more sensitive in bed. They do not open themselves easily. Unlike male, a female partner needs more energetic approach to get the desired degree of arousal. They need more time and more stimulation to get ready for the intercourse. Some women hate if their male partner does ...
Views: 846 - How to Be More Attractive to Women - Men Learn to Master the Game in 5 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Rebecca MillsGuys does that lovely lady elude you? Do you head with gusto to the bars and clubs only to return without her number? If you're a man and you want to know how to be more attractive to women then you need to keep a few points in mind: 1. Looking good and spelling pretty is not just for the ...
Views: 1876(5 votes) - A Plethora of Problems - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Dr. Dennis NederDoc: I have been dating my girlfriend for the past 14 months, and we have endured many situations. The one I need help with is her past. She has told me she has been with 7 guys prior to me. She originally told me 6, but I found out and not from her it was 7. She didn't tell me because I know ...
Views: 1270(5 votes) - Build a Healthy & Exciting Love Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Donna MartinA strong and healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve the people’s life in all aspects, strengthening their health, their mind and their connections with others as well. However, it can also be one of the greatest drains if the ...
Views: 1324(2 votes) - How to Be Sexually Attractive to Any Man or Woman : From the Inside Out! - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Rebecca MillsDo you want charisma in your life? Do you want to have people listen to you and do what you ask them to do? Do you want your love interest to be besotted with you? Well, charisma, thankfully, is something you can develop over time and it doesn't always have to be something you are born ...
Views: 6349 - Learn How To Address Peyronie's Disorder - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2010 from Paul RodgersWhile there are procedures in place which has the potential to help minimize, if not fix, peyronie's thoroughly - such as penis corrective surgical treatment and manhood enlargement tools - indeed preventing peyronie's before it happens is still not workable. Precisely what is ...
Views: 1281(1 vote) - Definition of Animal Magnetism - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Etienne CharlandAnimal magnetism refers to a person's sexual attractiveness or authentic charisma. Simply put, the better a person feels about himself, the better people feel around him, which creates a magnetic presence. The controversy with science is about whether this is due to body language, voice tone and ...
Views: 4218(4 votes) - Tantra Massage, Tantric Sex and Massage Techniques - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2010 from Ryan MuttTantra has a much more meaning than what we understand. Its origins are in India and dates back over 5000 years ago. Without using a lot of words, tantra focuses on energy, sensual energy distribution across the body and not so much the mind. It teaches us how to open our hearts and our ...
Views: 3475 - Sensual Massage Techniques - Give Maximum Pleasure to Your Partner - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2010 from Ryan MuttSensual massage is also known as erotic massage and it is only done by lovers or husbands and wives. This service is not available in spas. The first few steps are quite clear; prepare the room, light it up and warm it. Warming the room involves warming also the oil or lotion to be used; which ...
Views: 4086(1 vote) - Hot Foreplay Tips and Techniques to Spice Up Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2010 from Ryan MuttForeplay is another term used to refer to the warming up of both of you for the eventuality. It is an art that has been perfected with time. It has its own instincts and procedures; it involves taking turns to tease and please one another. Good lovers move together in turns giving one another a ...
Views: 4777(1 vote) - Sex and Aging - How Aging Affects Sexual Health? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2010 from Ryan MuttAge as we all know, is not a disease to be wished away, it comes automatically pressing hard on every bit of our well being. It sends shockwaves to many who are got unawares making them curse each and every bit of lost life. Sexuality is the in thing, there is no doubt about it and this is one ...
Views: 968 - Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) that You Ought to Know - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2010 from Ryan MuttAs the world is getting more open to sex and as people are changing their sexual values and behavior, the cases of sexually transmitted diseases, STDs, are also increasing rapidly. Despite the warnings and teachings about the dangers of unprotected sex and of exceeding the normal limits in ...
Views: 940 - Men—Want Better Sex in Your Marriage? Be Seductive - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2010 from Claire HatchWhat happened to the sexual revolution, anyway? I know a lot of my male clients feel like the sexual temperature at home feels a lot more like the 50’s than the 70’s. As a marriage counselor, I a have bird’s eye view of this phenomenon, so I thought I’d offer up my observations. After all, ...
Views: 1767 - Women-Want Better Sex in Your Marriage? Stay in the Game - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2010 from Claire HatchFor too many married women, their sex life can best be described as a sad stalemate. Which is not at all what they signed up for. As one of my marriage counseling clients put it, “I did not get married to fight about sex for 40 years.” Nor did you aspire to feel like co-CEO’s of your ...
Views: 1817 - How to Flirt With Men - Seductive Body Language You Can Use! - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2010 from Connie LewisHave you ever watched "Gone with the Wind"? Scarlett O'Hara is famous for her iron will and seductive wiles. But beauty was not her main weapon when it came to seducing men. In fact, the novel clearly says that Scarlett was not beautiful...But men didn't realize this when they were caught by her ...
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