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Taking up space is one of the alpha male characteristics that a guy should display to attract women. Men can attract women for a date by taking up space in public places. Also men who can take up space in a social event usually find themselves attractive to most women who usually come over to ... Views: 4378
I am surprised that, in this day and age, I still am asked: “What can women do in bed besides lying back and thinking of England?”
In case you are not familiar with this expression, it is an English saying with roughly the same meaning as “to grit one’s teeth”, i.e. to put up with what is ... Views: 4377
The ear is one of the erogenous centres of a woman’s body. Since ears are very sensitive, touching, kissing, sucking and even gently biting her earlobes, can send her into a sexual tizzy.
Turn up the temperature by touching her ear with your fingers and tongue, followed by small, slow ... Views: 4371
None of us are born good kissers. We all have to learn how to kiss, mostly through trial and error, and, although some of us have a lot of kissing experience it does not mean we are good at it. Here are some tips and advice on how to be a good kisser.
Most of the time your kissing partner ... Views: 4358
Swinging Heaven is place of freedom of expression. All that you want to explore is available there. I enjoy knowledge that it gave me, so I decided to share it with others as well. What does Swinging stands for? Well I first got introduced to the Swinger lifestyle through UK swinger friend. I ... Views: 4326
There he is, that guy you had been admiring for some time now. Will he ever notice you? You have to let him know you are there. If not you tell his pal that you would like to meet him for a drink. The butterflies are flying around in your belly, you turn your head for a moment and turn back ... Views: 4298
* Is YOUR Relationship bubbling, simmering or lukewarm?
* Are you feeling sexy, desirable, and passionate?
* Is your partner showing you the interest and attention you desire?
In a recent professional list serve discussion, one of my colleagues, Julian Slowinski, PsyD, shared with us ... Views: 4283
What is intimacy? I think it's a special feeling of closeness where we can be ourselves with each other. When we can be completely free to say whatever we want -- no matter how personal or sensitive -- then there is intimacy.
What is chemistry? I think chemistry occurs when people feel a ... Views: 4196
There is a powerful vital life force energy that resides within each of us. Like a raging river, this vital energy needs a channel to flow and be fully expressed. When we allow it to move through us for example with our writing, artwork, or music…by expressing our passions, we allow the river of ... Views: 4177
Reading a woman's body language sure is an intriguing feat and everybody would love to decode what she really means and finally get to read her mind. However, we all have this belief that women are all the way complicated and the more we try hard o attract them, the more messed up things become. ... Views: 4146
Charisma and eye contact go hand in hand. When you have the charming appeal that attracts others you have a higher quality of life, in many areas of your life, both personal and business. Charisma is something that individuals possess naturally and individuals develop, and when you seek to ... Views: 4103
When I bring this topic up with clients, or when I am speaking to a group, I am often met with shocked gasps, disbelief, confusion, curiosity, and even distain. Many women fear the thought of a becoming woman being passionate, open and sharing, and fully satisfying herself and her husband. There ... Views: 4067
Sometimes, a friendship loses its fire and it’s no longer the way it once used to be. Have no fear; there are effective methods to revive a friendship and make it like new again.
There are plenty of reasons why a friendship can lose some of its strength, although it’s a fulfilling friendship ... Views: 4047
When it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ... Views: 4033
When it comes to getting ‘turned-on’, men are mostly driven by visual and physical stimulation. For women, sex is much more of a mental and emotional experience. Stress is the most common obstruction in being able to feel optimum sexual pleasure. If your mind is full of distracting thoughts or ... Views: 4033
Some extra lubrication can greatly improve sex or masturbation, but it's important to use a product that's designed specifically for your body. Hand lotions, petroleum jelly, and other substances might look the same as your favorite lube and even be just as slick, but they're a poor substitute ... Views: 3967
I Don't Enjoy Being Around My Husband: I Don't Like My Husbands Personality
This culture we are now living in has ingrained the thought of upgrading into our lives. Our desktop computers, cars, cameras, laptops, cell phones, perhaps even our properties are continuously prospects for ... Views: 3951
Most men have no clue how to touch a woman. They don’t know when or how they should make that first contact, either.
The key to how to seduce a woman is anticipation. There are small ways to initiate this anticipation and they involve something called kino maneuvers. The first one involves ... Views: 3919
History of Valentine’s Day
The day itself was established in 496 AD and was later removed from the Christian calendar of events by Pope Paul VI in 1969. By the nineteenth century it slowly became customary to exchange gifts such as cards, chocolate, flowers etc. Today, the 14th of February is ... Views: 3864
I miss my ex boyfriend so much it hurts; You had been in a relationship with a guy and the two of you broke up, and it was your thought. Now that he is gone you are having second thoughts about the break up and why you initiated it. Why did you break up? This is something you need to take a hard ... Views: 3854
Want to understand what women think is eye-catching in a guy? Many people around the world think that women merely desire men that happen to be loaded, jerks, military guys, tall, good-looking, celebrities, young, or any mixture of these attributes.
In fact, what women think is enticing ... Views: 3819
In the movie Date Night, Tina Fey and Steve Carrell play a couple struggling to revive the romance of the early days of their relationship. When they confront this issue, they turn to fantasies as one way to re-ignite the spark. Steve confesses that his fantasy is to be with 3 other women, to ... Views: 3779
It was only a few short years ago that pole dancing was reserved for strip clubs now it is used in mainstream exercise classes. Get the best of both worlds by performing spicy routines for your partner in the privacy of your own bedroom. The safety of being in your own environment and performing ... Views: 3710
We did an online poll for my visit with on-air personalities Woody & Jim today on 107.5 The River in Nashville. The question was, “Which is most important to you?” The choices were: 1) your mate takes care of his/her body and keeps looking good, 2) your mate fulfills your sexual desires but lets ... Views: 3691
A kiss should be not just for a sign of foreplay; it could be a way to express your passion, enthusiasm and devotion to your partner. It can certainly attract two people experience the charm of being with each other.
Why "French Kiss"? Charming, highly intimate and sexually stimulating, a ... Views: 3580
The most important factor that a woman has to pay attention to if she wants to look good in her lingerie is she herself. It's simple; if she feels awesome while wearing certain lingerie, then that is the right lingerie for her. It is also very important that the lingerie is comfortable, soft and ... Views: 3530
Do you want charisma in your life?
Do you want to have people listen to you and do what you ask them to do?
Well, charisma, thankfully, is something you can develop over time and it doesn't always have to be something you are born with. There are several tips to creating charisma in your ... Views: 3527
Dear Dr. Romance:
My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever I bring up the topic, she is always mad at me. I don't know; maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help.
Dear Reader:
You can't have phone sex with your girl if she doesn't like it, and you can't force her to ... Views: 3501
Forget the Spanish Fly, Rhinoceros horn or other rumored aphrodisiacs, the most natural libido enhancers are easily accessible and good for your overall health. For thousands of years, humans have been experimenting with various foods and herbs to improve health conditions and support sexual ... Views: 3478
Once the chemistry starts to dwindle in the relationship you may start to wonder whether there is a way to get it back. Is there a way to spark the fire again or are you doomed to be without chemistry for the rest of your relationship?
Fortunately there is a way to develop that chemistry ... Views: 3471
On your next anniversary, her birthday, or just a special Friday night, give a gift that will make a difference in your relationship: a couple's night at a yoga studio.
Some yoga studios have special workshops for couples which include soft lights, music and sensual massage. No prior yoga ... Views: 3348
Over the years, the people I have worked with have used various words to describe the end result of their compulsive sexual behaviors: words like shame, anger, depression, anxiety, disappointment, self-hatred, hopelessness and helplessness, usually describe their subjective experience after the ... Views: 3307
Life brings with it so much opportunity, so many directions and so many interesting people. But which opportunity, direction or person do you choose? How do you know? When is the right time to do the right thing, to make that decision to choose passion over your current situation which may be ... Views: 3288
I Still Love My Ex Boyfriend but He Has Moved On: My Ex Is Dating Someone Else Already and It Hurts
Your boyfriend broke up with you and you are wondering "how to get my ex back", even though it seems that your ex boyfriend has moved on? You can get him back, even if he is dating someone ... Views: 3243
If you’re a guy and you’ve been hanging around a girl you like quite a lot, but nothing sexual happened between you, chances are you’re in the friend zone. Here’s how to escape it.
The friend zone is an emerging concept in to world of dating and male-female encounters. This term is used to ... Views: 3240
One thing I hear often from clients is that they are afraid to communicate their particular fetish, fantasy, or desire to their significant other. In a perfect world, partners would hold for each other a space of unconditional love within which the couple could explore together like children in ... Views: 3202
"Passionate Detachment"
Carlos Castaneda has written a series of remarkable books in which he describes his shamanic apprenticeship with the Yaqui sorcerer Don Juan. Don Juan advises Castaneda that a man of knowledge (an impeccable warrior) chooses a path and follows it with heart, acting as ... Views: 3199
Men seem to be more interested in meeting a girl for the first time and hooking up regardless of what she looks like. Are they attractive enough for a one night stand? Research shows that men are less picky in terms of who they will have casual sex with. Women tend to increase what is wanted in ... Views: 3168
Love's secret is always lifting its head out from under the covers, "Here I am!"
—Rumi
Your bedroom should be a luscious retreat, a place that satisfies your every desire. It has the capacity to offer you a cozy bed to lie in for an afternoon nap, a love seat designed for you and your ... Views: 3072
A few weeks ago, while watching ‘Robin Hood’ starring Russell Crowe, I found myself cringing at the predictability of the plot. I am usually not so squeamish about my buttons being so obviously pushed. However, I walked away from the experience with a few observations about the preparation of ... Views: 3067
Amanda feels unloved and under-appreciated in her love relationship. She's dated Jeff for 2 years now and she's starting to wonder what she's doing in this passion-less relationship.
To Amanda, it seems that Jeff is more willing to spend a weekend fixing her broken toilet, than he is to ... Views: 3065
Passion drives us! It is what makes us get up in the morning, ready to conquer another day. Passion is that desire that pushes us to go beyond what anyone else thinks is possible. It is an unquenchable thirst to do what we love. Passion could be described as “doing what you love and loving what ... Views: 2916
DO YOU HAVE A MENTOR?
Mentors can be from the past, present or even fictional. Shahrazad is strictly fictional but I feel she could be real – a composite character of realness, and she is my mentor because for me she is real.
PARALLELS WITH LIFE
Fiction can be so real because it draws upon ... Views: 2910
How do you know when a man is in love is a very common question among women. Unlike us, men don't always feel the need to share what they're feeling. If you're with a guy who doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve, it can be a bit confusing. Trying to decipher what he's feeling based on his ... Views: 2902
“Genuine leaders never pursue or expect adulation or “star” status. When they receive it, they accept it graciously and move on to the next challenge. Leadership is not about personal victory. It is about winning through teamwork and positive energy by and for every member of the team.”
~Wayne ... Views: 2902
Powerful Tips for Nurturing Your Relationship
Is it Time to Rekindle the Romance?
1. INTEGRATION IS KEY
MAKE ROOM FOR YOU: Remember the movie Jerry McGuire when last line was “You complete me” and everyone thought that was so romantic? This is precisely that we want to shift away ... Views: 2900
The thought of kissing a girl, especially one that you care about very much, is an exciting prospect, especially if you have not kissed her before. And, it's normal to feel a bit nervous before your first kiss. The good news is that it's easy to learn how to kiss a girl and the following tips ... Views: 2876
Sex is important. Few of us appreciate just how important it really is. A linguistics professor recently came forward with a theory that language itself was initially invented with the primary purpose of giving us a way of alluding to sex. Indeed language was only used to communicate ideas such ... Views: 2833
Have you ever marveled at how a couple dancing can flow with grace and energy and then your eyes shift from seeing them as singular entity and you distinguish the distinct movements of each person? While as a couple the dancers display harmony, each dancer also expresses his or her character ... Views: 2780
Keeping the passion high in any relationship depends a lot on how safe you make it for your partner to say the truth to you. We like to say we want to hear the truth, “even if it hurts us,” but actually we often act in ways that make it difficult or even impossible to do that.
If you tend to ... Views: 2760
In a previous piece, I talked about the role of open- and closed-ended questions to get feedback from our partner after a sexual experience.
You might begin asking for sexual feedback by using a few open-ended questions. If your partner is not forthcoming, or you wish to get clearer answers, ... Views: 2742