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Your unconscious mind is that part of you that runs the blood in
your body...that beats your heart...that digests your food... makes you breath as you sleep deeply. Your unconscious is the one that does all that is vital for you to be alive.
I often say, your unconscious is like Citi bank, ... Views: 1694
"Time heals all wounds." This aphoristic bit of common sense contains very little usable information about the relationship between time, healing, and woundedness – about how time heals. However, we all probably can recall situations where this apparent dynamic seemed to hold true. An old ... Views: 1437
THERE ARE PLACES and times when being-in-the-now or, going-with-the-flow can be a useful strategy to employ. Can you think of some examples in addition to:
•Making love.
•Standing at the rim of the Grand Canyon.
•Listening as the officiate performs your marriage ceremony.
AND THEN CONSIDER, ... Views: 1210
We’ve all done it, made a resolution and in a fit of urgent determination we vow to get fit, join the gym, stop smoking or change some other unwanted habit. Then, quicker than we can say “to hell with it” our old behaviour and old self re-surfaces and with a sigh of resignation we return to our ... Views: 1424
Do you have the problem of thinking negatively, instead of positively?
Worse, what if you really don’t get it, don’t think of negative thinking as a problem? Read on.
Is this you?
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You don’t like it when people say *it* will be OK, and you KNOW *it* won’t be? You think to ... Views: 2177
Is it possible to reprogram the brain? Can reprogramming the brain change our behaviour? Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a combination of Linguistics, Semantics, Hypnosis, Behavioral and Cognitive Psychology. It’s about how we interpret the world we experience via the input through ... Views: 2105
Having arrived back from Australia the first of April, it has been an absolute whirlwind, with more going on than I could ever accomplish. The HNLP Practitioner is starting in a day, so lots of preparation for this life changing training. Additionally there are amazing opportunities to joint ... Views: 1222
Consider a life limited by terror and anxiety, in which every movement is inspected and even the minor decision is agonized over. Hours are exhausted examining daily obligations or conditions that many people carry out easily. According to the National Institute of Health, more than 40 million ... Views: 1283
This article is about how you can learn NLP Accelerated Learning Techniques by applying those techniques to learning to play guitar.
Playing a guitar requires the application of knowledge and skills in a real time environment. As such it is a great situation to develop NLP and Accelerated ... Views: 6034
We all know someone who wants to move forward but something stops them. Sometimes, we are that someone ourselves!
Can we really shape our own lives? Imagine for example being able to write your future. Can we in some way paint the picture of a real future happiness? Is it possible?
Picture ... Views: 2420
This article is about some of the down sides to the winter months and how using a few mental tools you can not only survive but thrive through the dark, cold winter months.
Research shows that there is a general increase in stress levels amongst the western population on the run up to the end ... Views: 1230
Clinical depression is a condition caused by chemical imbalances in the brain that make a person constantly feel sad, aloof, negative, and unmotivated. Depression can last for days, weeks, months, or even years. It can be triggered by anxieties, traumatic events, or nothing at all. Depression ... Views: 2580
Business was once based upon the most physical aspects of life. There were seminars and meetings all centred on gathering together all aspects of business and creating a team that moved together, thought together and lived the same business support together. Today, with the buzz surrounding the ... Views: 1281
Neuro-Linguistic Programming & The Classroom – The Short Answer
Brief (very) History
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) first burst upon the psychological therapy scene in 1975 with the release of Richard Bandler and John Grinder’s written work, The Structure of Magic. At the time, Grinder ... Views: 1636
Couple of years before spelled the disappointments of hundreds and hundreds of badminton followers at the Beijing Olympics 08. The long looked forward to badminton finals concerning world number 1, Lin Dan, along with the number two, Lee Chong Wei.
Just when every badminton followers thought ... Views: 3406
If you are continually struggling with the same issues day-after-day, week-after-week, maybe it is time for a change. If you want to progress your career, or your life, maybe a NLP training course is right for you.
What is NLP?
Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a set of models of how ... Views: 1402
NLP training online can be used as a great way to develop an individual personally. By using these unique training programs you can achieve personal development through a variety of ways. One of the best ways is to adopt a suitable Neuro-Linguistic training method. NLP is actually a collection ... Views: 2264
You’ve all learned a lot about state control and will know the first principle, ‘you go there first’ and then you take the other person with you. How exactly do you do that?
Well perhaps you’ve answered something like – you know what the state feels like, so you get that feeling and maybe you ... Views: 3200
Lets start this article with a a simple question:
"When approached by a colleague, family member or staff member with a problem are you a talker, interrogator or a listener?
With a bit of self awareness it's not hard to see which one we are:
Talkers do just that, they just talk...and ... Views: 1645
Ok so go with me on this… if your car is your brain, and petrol and water are the fuel that make your car run smoothly, then the fuel that makes your brain run smoothly are the foods you eat, the drinks you drink, and the thoughts you allow yourself you have.
I’ve written before about the ... Views: 2103
Rapport is one of the most important characteristics of human interaction. Simply speaking, building rapport or being in rapport is being on the same wavelength, or the same page as the person with whom you are communicating. Rapport is also a feeling of harmonious connection between people or ... Views: 2970
Relationships are fragile. You can start or end a relationship in
1 minute. If you want to end it, everyone knows how to do this
one so I won't talk about it.
Now, keeping a relationship is what almost anybody wants to
master: "How to stay in good terms and have better
relationships?"
That's ... Views: 1755
Think about your family. Your children are the most precious thing you can have. Nurture them. Love them. Calm them down. Have fun with them. Create your life with them. Teach them the simple truths of life.
Think about yourself. Too many people sacrifice themselves and that’s the only thing ... Views: 1465
Coaches, mentors! I have a great tool for you. This tool will help your clients eliminate a limiting belief in 10 minutes or less. I promise you that.
But you need to do something special. You need to go to the nature. Take your car, bring your client and tell him that he’s going to have a ... Views: 5471
Meaning is the bread we eat every minute of everyday. We create meanings all the time about all sorts of things: ourselves, others, food, nutrition, exercise, God, wealth, happiness…etc.
Meanings don’t exist outside. You won’t say: “Please go to the fridge and get me some meaning” or “Oh my ... Views: 3217
The power of NLP comes from its fast and effective way of dealing with problems and difficulties. If we could summarize NLP in one equation, it would be: present state + resources = desired state.
The present state is where the person is, with his challenge, difficulty or problem he wants to ... Views: 1935
NLP has developed a number of tools to reprogram yourself, change a habit or solve a problem. Hypnosis has discovered that by altering a person’s state, you can ask the subconscious mind to change a belief, a behavior, a way of thinking or a habit almost instantly. Of course as the proverb ... Views: 1688
It is so easy to think that we’re right. It is so easy to think that our way of thinking is the way par excellence. We’re so caught up with our daily life that we don’t realize or don’t want to admit that other people may also be right.
Well, according to NLP and Alfred Korzybski, developer of ... Views: 1733
For several years now, lots of authors have talked about emotional intelligence in the family and in the business or the organization. We are now shifting towards spiritual intelligence; term popularized by Stephen Covey in his book "the 8th Habit"
In the article entitled" The Spiritual ... Views: 1469
"Not That! This!" The NLP Visual Swish Technique
NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, is all about effective communications. Some of those communications are between people, and some are within our own mind. When we clearly communicate and instruct our own unconscious (creative, ... Views: 2875
So what does personalized learning really mean and why is everyone within the education and training communities getting so excited. In the first of three articles we take a look at personalized learning , from an NLP perspective .In this the first of three articles we profile the Auditory ... Views: 1745
Motivation, Reinforcement, Support and Accountability
Behavior change is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If that were true, then all the information campaigns on how to improve your health would have made behavior-related illnesses a thing of the past. And birth control information ... Views: 2264
This is the time of the year many publications will offer advice as to how to make or maintain lifestyle choices into the New Year. These include losing weight, quitting smoking and a variety of life-altering quests that begin strong and through sheer ‘power of will’ should work. Then, within ... Views: 1432
I am sat, writing this at the end of December 2008 I have met and talked with quite a few people that would like next year to be different from the last. This article contains a few ideas as to how you can make that happen more easily.
Many people are looking for the changes on the outside, ... Views: 997
As parents and teachers, we need to enhance our abilities tocreate a relationship of trust with the students or thechildren we interact with.
The task sometimes seems hard and we often feel discouraged. Fortunately, there is hope with the visionthat both teachers and children can discover the ... Views: 1840
With the field of hypnosis becoming increasingly respected and accepted amongst the medical profession as well as the self improvement movement more and more people are happy to try hypnotherapy for themselves. One question often pops up in peoples’ minds though before they are willing to put ... Views: 4154
There are a number of variables to consider when discussing the topic of hypnotize someone, such as: how well a person responds to suggestions, what they expect, what they believe, worries, and his or her ability to trust the hypnotizer. When a person agrees to an induction, it is important not ... Views: 1978
In NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) we talk about people’s “maps of the world.”
This term describes a person’s unique experience of reality. A map is not reality itself, only a representation of it, just as a map of Yellowstone Park is not the park itself, but a two-dimensional ... Views: 1538
To arrive at a point of understanding with another it helps to understand they are not using the same map you are.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) tells us that even though we may believe other people are like us, the truth is each of us has a unique personal perception (or Map as we ... Views: 3092
Are you easily influenced by people? Do you have less confidence? Do you feel insecure? Are you challenged under some conventional beliefs? If the answer of any of these questions is yes then you need to consult an NLP training expert. NLP is surely your possible solution to solve all these ... Views: 2198
“To be blind is to miss out on so much beauty but most of us waste this valuable gift by only choosing to see negativity.”
We all perceive the world through our senses, primarily the Visual – Auditory – Kinesthetic senses. In NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) we add in Olfactory (smell) and ... Views: 1829
This article was written with my dual perspective as an Aikido instructor, and as a certified trainer in NLP.
Aikido is a martial art that can help a person achieve a greater sense of relaxation and well-being, grace, balance, compassion, and overall awareness.
The principles of Aikido ... Views: 2505
NLP is becoming a familiar buzz word among forward-looking business, self-help and self-improvement circles. But what exactly is NLP and how can it help me?
This article will cover the basic precept of NLP techniques and provide an example of how they can be used to change the perceptions ... Views: 3448
This is a subject I’ve become aware of after living my life in my own comfort zone for many years, and having been through such a transitional period recently, I’ve come out the other end feeling better than ever; so I decided to briefly touch on the process for this month’s blog.
Many people ... Views: 2567
“To be always intending to make a new and better life but never find time to set about it is as... to put off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to the next until you’re dead.”
- Og Mandino
Procrastination is the easiest thing in the world to perfect- and one of the ... Views: 1738
"You may believe that you are responsible for what you do, but not for what you think. The truth is that you are responsible for what you think, because it is only at this level that you can exercise choice. What you do comes from what you think." ACIM Chpt 2/Vi2
NLP is the study of how we ... Views: 1492
Translating NLP for Abroad -- The French Experience
by Brian Van der Horst
NLP is taken perhaps more seriously in France than in any other country in the world. In 1985, when I began teaching NLP in Paris, my company took an informal poll. Nearly 95% of the French companies and 75% of the ... Views: 2678
George, the entrepreneur is fantastic at closing deals, he seems to know exactly when to ask for the order and spots opportunities and closes orders that his colleagues simply miss.
Fiona, the coach is amazing at helping people to change rapidly and when she meets her peers they often ask "how ... Views: 893
Sometimes, I wonder if people actually know themselves well. After all, we human beings are social beings and often, hide in the shadows of society in order to avoid many painful truths about ourselves.
Do you really know you?
If you haven't thought about it yet, perhaps it is time to ask some ... Views: 1989
Achiever,
If you strive setting NEW goals,
if... you constantly excavate
inside your own mind to extract
powerful characteristics...
if ever you wished someone,
sometime, showed you
how to *unlock* the
hidden cells inside
your ... Views: 3887