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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- What is the secret to happiness? - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2014 from Larry CraneIn truth, many of us still believe that happiness is a secret. First of all, opposite of what most people believe, happiness is available to everyone–at all times. No one is excluded. Every person, regardless of their age, nationality, level of education or success, is naturally capable of ...
Views: 1472 - What is the Work of Breaking Free from Relationship Anxiety? - by Submitted on Oct 31, 2018 from Sheryl PaulA coaching client recently said to me, “You talk a lot about doing “the work”, and I wondered for so long what “the work” was. I thought that if I understood anxiety intellectually I would feel better. And the first time I went through the course I did feel better for a while, which I know is ...
Views: 970 - What Is Your Purpose? - by Submitted on Jun 27, 2019 from Elinor StutzAs we mature, it’s natural to contemplate why we are here and question our purpose. We become more aware of time being precious and have a growing desire to be of service. As I originally entered the entrepreneurial world, my focus was on moving my business forward. At the time, media ...
Views: 791 - What kind of music helps you do your job better (and incidentally, reduce stress)? - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2019 from Wajahat AliMusic changes emotions. But any song or melody is not worth it: it depends on the problem you face, that is at least what is deduced from the results of several recent studies. The power of music is well known in many areas, such as cinema, for example; However, in the world of work we have ...
Views: 406 - What Makes A Good Healer/Therapist? - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperI was recently thinking about what factors play a part when it comes to what makes someone a good healer/therapist. During this time, I thought about the kind of people who I had worked with over the years. Over the years, I have worked with numerous healers and therapists, and I would say ...
Views: 1292 - What Superhero Are You? - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2016 from Kelley KosowHalloween is in a few days and many of us are searching for that perfect costume. I am always fascinated to see the trends in Halloween costumes. I view them as a commentary on what is relevant in today's society. This year, there is no question we are going to see our fair share of Trumps and ...
Views: 829 - What to Do When You Run Out of Things to Say - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2013 from Eduard EzeanuSometimes in conversation, you’ll run out of things to say. This is especially true if you’re kind of shy or you’re not a very good conversationalist. At certain points, you just won’t know what to say next. But you can overcome this situation quickly enough. There are a few effective ...
Views: 2134 - What's Your EQ? Understanding Emotional Intelligence - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsIt sounds like an oxymoron, doesn't it? I mean, "emotional intelligence"? Aren't emotion and intellect two very different things? Not anymore, at least according to Dr. Relly Nadler, author of The Leader's Playbook: How to Apply Emotional Intelligence. Dr. Nadler explains Emotional ...
Views: 1076 - When Anguish Overwhelms Take These 4 Steps Before Other Action - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2017 from Gary DirenfeldIt just happened. You discover an infidelity; a partner signals an intention to separate; someone has passed away; there’s been some kind of personal tragedy. In the midst of anguish life feels totally out of control; is turned upside down; is overwhelming. Anguish, in the midst of a ...
Views: 1675 - When Anxious, Start at the Beginning - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Sheryl PaulAnxiety is a messenger, a symptom, and a gift. I know that statement flies in the face of everything we learn about anxiety in a culture that is pathologically obsessed with eradicating shadow at every turn and consequently attempts to “get rid of” the symptom of anxiety as quickly and cleanly ...
Views: 916 - When It's Time To Say Enough - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2018 from Sheryl PaulFor those of you who are struggling with relationship anxiety, you probably saw the title of this post and wondered if I was going to talk about when to leave a relationship, and perhaps felt nervous that it was going to spike you. But hopefully you have enough faith in my site that you know ...
Views: 795 - When Self-Care is Driven By Products - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2021 from Rochi ZalaniThis article was originally published at rochizalani.com I was about to dismiss writing on self-care because it is a competitive keyword. Because that’s what it has become now: a keyword on Google. Have you ever come across brands forcing you to take care of yourself without selling ...
Views: 485 - When Sexual Desire Covers Up Self-Sabotage -- We Can Easily Get "Turned On" by People Who Spell Trouble Down the Road - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2011 from Peter MichaelsonWhat are some important features of human sexual desire? Two neuroscientists falter badly in their attempt to answer the question in their book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World’s Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire (Dutton, New York, 2011). Scouring internet data, the ...
Views: 1498 - When The Student Is Ready, The Teacher Will Appear - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is going through a tough time or is unable to handle a certain obstacle, they can have the need to find a way through what is taking place. Regardless of what it is, their life might not have been this way for very long or it may have been this way for quite some time. Either way, ...
Views: 617 - Where lies the Happiness in Life? - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2020 from Sri TulasiEach one of us has a different kind of making themselves happy. I make myself happy by writing somethings. A friend from another site gave me the inspiration to write. This is what she said to encourage me It is not about the narration or use of words when an optimistic person like you writes ...
Views: 705 - White House Market Review and Links - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2021 from hassam khWhite House Market Review and Links MARKETPLACE, REVIEW 2019 has been a stunner for the Darker Side of the web, with Dream Market closing down, Reddit prohibiting/r/darknetmarkets, and many DNMs being seized by law requirements. Knowing the Dark web, on the off chance that anything this has ...
Views: 625 - Who is an Empath? Add to the Empath Life List. - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Rose RosetreeWhew, empaths around the world are finally beginning to know they are empaths. When I published the first book for empaths in English, even I didn't use that word consistently. The title was Empowered by Empathy! Today, many people are wondering if they are empaths. That makes sense because ...
Views: 4357 - Who is really the best player in the world? - by These days, wherever you look, there is always a debate about who is the best footballer among a certain pair of players. They put their pictures, goals, assists, achievements, speed, contribution to the team and the game as a whole, their skills, salaries, endorsement, and a host of other ...
Views: 97 - Who is to blame? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Milton DeWayne BensonWho is to blame? One statement that always makes me laugh is when I hear someone say "You made me do it" or "You made me mad". DO you see anything comically wrong with these statements? Certainly when uttered as children those statements seem apropos. But I outgrew childhood in my childhood ...
Views: 1136 - Who Sits at the Head of Your Table? - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2018 from Sheryl PaulIn last week’s post, I wrote about the essential task of attending to our four realms of Self in order to find wellness and equanimity, and that in order to do this we need to have a loving, competent and clear inner parent at the helm of psyche. Just as kids feel safe when there’s an attuned ...
Views: 804 - Who's Afraid of the Big Bad Wolf? - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2016 from Yvette BethelNo animal two cultures are the same, even if they have similar qualities these characteristics manifest in different ways. I have encountered collaborative work environments where persons can be ready and willing to work together, I have also come across innovative teams that are focused on ...
Views: 1001 - Why Air Filters Are So Important - by Have you ever noticed that allergies are more prominent today than they were fifty years ago? It can be said that at that time we did not have the technology to treat diseases, but that is not the case. People had allergic reactions to rag grass, allergies to certain foods, and a very small ...
Views: 127 - Why Are Siblings So Different? - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIt is not uncommon for people to talk about how different they are to their siblings and this can be seen as a surprise, especially if they have the same parents. Due to this difference, it can be as if they had different parents growing up. One Element One reason that is often put ...
Views: 812 - Why Boring is Dangerous to Your Life - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2013 from Hal WechslerWhy “Boring” Leads to Drugs, Drinking, or Smoking • 1. Brainiacs only: what’s your brain made of? Answer: 78% water. Some of us have replaced the liquid with “fat”, hence the expression, “Fat-Head.” • 2. “So what? Who-cares? What’s In-It-For-Me? • 3. Your 3-lb brain requires continuous ...
Views: 1178 - Why Compassion Is The Essential Entrepreneurial Skill - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2012 from Pete SapperMost people exist from a two-sided paradigm of "giving" and "taking". And that's okay - it's how most of us have been programmed to operate. Unfortunately, that old paradigm has left most of us bankrupt in terms of abundance in our lives. It's a scarcity-based paradigm that gets us to "feel ...
Views: 1084 - Why did he leave me? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhy did he leave me by Beth Shepherd psychic and therapist I met George six years ago and we hit it off instantly, he was everything I wanted in a man, sensible, bright, caring, loving, sexy, good looking, kind, great job, good with money, responsible and mature! I was over the moon and we ...
Views: 624 - Why do I care about what others think? - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Teppie and Christina Chartomatsidis- Do you constantly need the praise of others to feel good? - Would you feel crushed if someone criticised you about the way you look? - Are you sick of constantly conforming to what others expect - only to ignore what you truly want? - Do you spend hours thinking and stressing over ...
Views: 1221 - Why do Some Dreams Feel So Real? - by Submitted on May 06, 2019 from M Nasir AzizBelieve it or not, most of you dream every night, even though the details might slip away the moment you wake up. Most dreams are pretty mundane. Some people dream about the person they miss, or about the things they desire deeply. While a few stories in your head can be funny or ...
Views: 1109 - Why Do Some People Hoard Things? - by Submitted on May 26, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhole TV series have been made about people who are unable to let go of anything, with some of these people finding it hard to get out of their own house. In this case, they will have an incredible amount of stuff in their house. And the fact that TV programs have been created around ...
Views: 863 - Why Do Some People Only Care About Their Health When They’re Nearly Dead? - by Submitted on May 15, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperWhat I have thought about recently is why some people only pay attention to their health when they are in a really bad way. It’s a bit like only taking a car for a service when the engine is close to exploding. When something like this takes place, it is going to be clear that they have been ...
Views: 1021 - Why Do We Behave In Ways That Harm Us? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperWhat you may find is that you often behave in ways that don’t benefit you and even harm you. Further, you may find that you there are people in your life who behave in the same way, holding themselves back in the process. After you have behaved in a way that doesn’t benefit you, you may ...
Views: 628 - Why do women have crystal ball readings? - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2021 from Pearls of WisdomWhy do women have crystal ball readings? It often depends on how seriously a person takes their life. Some can be very laid back and leave it to luck to sort out their aspirations and problems - of course, those are usually the ones whose life never improves and gets worse or stays bad and ...
Views: 637 - Why Do You Want To Achieve Something? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNow that a New Year has just begun, there is a lot being said about goals and making this a year that is unlike any other. This is something that you may have heard online and/or something that the people in your life have spoken about. When I hear anything like this, it makes me think about ...
Views: 883 - Why Is Fear A Powerful Manifestor? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for someone to experience/attain something, it won’t just be a case of them having the right thoughts; they will also need to have the right feelings and to behave in a certain way. What this comes down to is that their thoughts are just one part of the equation. This might be hard ...
Views: 571 - Why Is My Husband Always Cold, Quiet and Distant With Me? - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2019 from Paul W. Anderson, Ph.D.Here’s What Lonely Wives Can Do To Thaw Out Their Husbands. Husbands want to know why their wives are always angry with them and wives want to know why their husbands ignore them. There's an easy answer to that. Over time marriages develop a polarization. For example, the more she nags the ...
Views: 848 - Why Kindness Can Open Hearts and Unexpected Opportunities - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2020 from Kare AndersonSunny Summer is past. The upcoming holidays are times of great loving and loneliness and we often don’t know who is experiencing which. For many it is a bit of both. For us all this can be a prime time for kindness, sometimes simply by sharing what we have. And kindness is often unspoken. ...
Views: 711 - Why Negative Emotions Persist - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Marie BarrettBefore answering the question of why negative emotions seem to persist more than their positive counterparts, we must consider the origins of emotions. Everything in the universe is energy; it may be physical or non-physical in our experience. Most things function as systems of energy, where ...
Views: 1997 - Why Optimally Operating Your Brain Matters So Much - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2013 from Valencia RayProductivity and performance matter, and underneath this is how we think. We load up on ‘what to do?’ but the deeper question is ‘how do we think about it?’. If we think that work and life are hard and that to be successful we have to feel pressure or stress, we are likely to dampen our level of ...
Views: 1086 - Why Paying it Forward Reaps Many Rewards on Social Media - by Submitted on Dec 20, 2016 from Susan FriesenHow would you like to be the reason someone smiles today? Doesn’t it feel wonderful and causes you to smile when you’re acknowledged for an accomplishment? When someone is truly kind to you without any intention of reciprocation? I recently discovered just how wonderful that feeling ...
Views: 911 - Why Subliminal Smile leads to success - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“Why You Should Know “Subliminal-Smiling” & “Deconstruction” of The Elements of Speed Reading 3x.” • 1. “If you’re such a ‘smart-ass’, teach me how to get more tips in my Summer job,” asked my son’s girlfriend. • 2. “You don’t want to know the physical actions, just “how-to”. Answer: it’s ...
Views: 1192 - Why Using a Broker Can Make a Big Difference in Your Investment Journey - by Investing can be a great way to build wealth and achieve your financial goals. However, finding the right investment platform and making smart investment decisions can be a challenge, especially if you are new to the world of investing. That's where brokers come in - they can help you find the ...
Views: 388 - Why We Read Our Daily Horoscopes - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonThere are some things in life, which we would like to happen, but which we at the same time feel uncertain about. The majority of us like to know, and to be assured, about important things, but it would seem that part of our learning curve in this life is to discover ways in which to deal with ...
Views: 946 - Why You Are Stuck - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Shelley Riutta"Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come live.” Howard Thurman Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you feel there is something more for you in your life but you don’t know what that is? Or you know ...
Views: 1172 - Why You May NOT Want to Use Your Health Insurance for Counseling - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2021 from kingof seoBased on a review by Gallup and Healthways, Texas has more individuals in need of health insurance than any other state. Last year, 26.8 per cent of Texans required a health plan and that ruined to 27.2 percent, or almost 6.3 million Texans, in the initial half of 2011. Since Gallup and ...
Views: 568 - Why Your Career Is More Than Making a Living - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2010 from Hal WechslerWhy Your Career is Emotionally More Than Earning a Living It was Thanksgiving Day, the clan gathered at my Mother-in-law’s home to eat and drink triple (3x) their normal calories, but all is forgiven because it is a sanctioned feast day. Why? It is a ritual for God, U.S. and the ...
Views: 1663 - Will: Can Someone Have A Weak Will If They Experienced Developmental Trauma? - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for someone to have a fulfilling life, they will need to be able to assert themselves and to go after what it is that they desire. The reason for this is that if they are unable to do this, they won’t be able to live a life that is in alignment with who they are and what they desire ...
Views: 259 - Willpower: Can A Man Have A Weak Will If He Had Controlling Parents? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, if he were to take a step back and reflect, is that he finds it hard to stick to things. So, he can come up with a goal and start taking action and then, before long, he can put it to one side. He might see that this often takes place after he has experienced a setback. ...
Views: 163 - Willpower: Can Someone Have A Weak Will If They Had Controlling Parents? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2024 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that when there is a will, there is a way. What this illustrates is how important willpower is when it comes to achieving something. This is then an inner source of power that will allow someone to get from where they are, to where they want to be. Along with this, it is this ...
Views: 140 - Willpower: Can Someone Rely On Willpower If They Have Experienced Childhood Trauma? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2021 from Oliver JR CooperOn one side, there is willpower and, on the other, there is emotional power. The former can be seen as something that comes from the mind, while the latter can be seen as something that comes from the body. At times, someone won’t feel like doing something that they know is good for them, so ...
Views: 293 - Willpower: Can Someone Use Willpower To Get What They Want? - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has gone through a difficult time in their life, it is often said that it was their will to survive that pushed them through. Part of them was not willing to give in, and this is what allowed them to keep going. Therefore, it could be said that this is a force that is not only ...
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