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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back in His Arms After A Breakup! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeWe all have regrets. If you agreed when your ex boyfriend said it was time for you two to move on or If you broke up with him, you may be wishing you could reverse the situation. Regrettably, you can't. The only thing you can do is look to the future and work out how to make your ex boyfriend ...
Views: 4001 - Growing Through Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2009 from Darlene LancerDivorce is a process of separation and transformation - a process that long precedes the dissolution decree. It is important to understand its stages, the cognitive, emotional, physical, legal and spiritual, which, if worked through, can substantially lessen the painful aftermath. ...
Views: 3994(1 vote) - Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You And Want You Back! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeIf your ex boyfriend still contact you after the break up there can be several mixed signals being sent. He may tell you that he needs some space or he may suggest that he wants to be friends. It is difficult to judge precisely what he is feeling or thinking when you hear from him. This is hard ...
Views: 3993 - How Do I Get My Wife To Come Back Home: How To Soften My Wife's Hardened Heart - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2018 from Sylvester DanialHow Do I Get My Wife To Come Back Home: How To Soften My Wife's Hardened Heart When you're marriage falls apart, you can't help but feel like you're a failure. You have been with your wife for so long. To think that she's coped with you until now must seem like a miracle to you. If you know ...
Views: 3990 - ***Divorce: Stop Sabotaging Your Healing Process - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2008 from Carolyn EllisAre you familiar with the phrase “The shortest distance between two points is a straight line?” While this may be true in math or drawing, it is not true in the journey of healing your heart after divorce. When dealing with our emotions, progress is definitely not linear. It’s ...
Views: 3981 - Are you Spending Enough Time Together? Relationship Counseling Advice - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2016 from Nicola BeerTime can be a big source of conflict in relationships. When you get married “your time” also becomes “their time” and if you have children then you need to also schedule in “family time” and time for family chores. Many couples I speak to are feeling so busy and stressed by feeling pulled ...
Views: 3972(1 vote) - Husband Mocks Me When We Argue: When Your Spouse Mocks You - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Mocks Me When We Argue: When Your Spouse Mocks You Those now famous words: "Can't we all just get along?" I cannot think of a husband or wife that doesn't desire to get along. Can you? Still, sometimes peace can elude us. During these times, it could be that love demands more of each ...
Views: 3972 - Motherhood and the Financial Consequences of Staying at Home - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Lori Anne ChanceToday – more than ever in recent history – mothers are choosing to stay home with their kids rather than pursuing a career after childbirth. It just makes sense; employment prospects are few and the cost of childcare is prohibitive. But before you decide to become a stay-at-home mom and give up ...
Views: 3971(6 votes) - ***Why Some Long-term Marriages End in Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishWhy Some Long-term Marriages End in Divorce Ever since the 1970’s, divorce has become commonplace. In fact, the definition of family has changed dramatically. Less than fifty percent of families are intact families with the original mother and father. Families now include single heads of ...
Views: 3961 - Midlife Crisis Husband Returns: Reconciliation After Midlife Crisis - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2018 from Jennifer SageMidlife Crisis Husband Returns: Reconciliation After Midlife Crisis It can start small. Your husband may look at his sagging paunch and purchase a gym membership, or possibly buy some trendy clothes. The next thing you know, he is driving around in a Corvette looking at girls less than half ...
Views: 3958 - ***Divorce and Children - Different Rules, Different Homes after Divorce - by Submitted on May 01, 2008 from Carolyn EllisYou're divorced and you have kids. How do you handle different rules and discipline between mom's house and dad's house? Do you have any say about what goes on in the other parent's home anymore? Here's how one of my readers expressed her frustration: "My two children are with my ex every ...
Views: 3952(1 vote) - My Wife Wants A Separation And I Don't: My Wife Wants To Separate Should I Move Out - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker Jack"My wife wants a separation and I don't." How many men do you think say that very phrase each and every day? Many do and unfortunately right now you're one of those men. Your wife has made it clear that she's unhappy in the marriage and would like a break so she can sort through what's going on ...
Views: 3944 - ***Divorce Drama - Rewriting Your Divorce Story - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2008 from Carolyn EllisDivorce generates drama. I remember riding those rollercoaster moments of my own divorce and wondering, “How is this movie going to end?” I personally love going to the movies. My favorites are the ones that have relationship plotlines that are rich, complex and surprising. ...
Views: 3943 - Should I Stay In My Sexless Marriage - When To Walk Away From Sexless Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesShould I Stay In My Sexless Marriage - When To Walk Away From Sexless Marriage Marriages have an ebb and flow to them. Sometimes your husband and you may find that you simply can't satisfy your mutual sexual appetites. At other times it feels as though you haven't connected intimately in so ...
Views: 3940 - Jealousy - a past life regression case study - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2011 from Orly AravaMrs. Morgan is a pretty woman. 45 years of age, wavy hair and warm wise eyes. She has a 19 years old son from her previous marriage and she has been married for 16 years now and has 2 more daughters. Her husband loves her dearly and so does she. So where is the problem? She is very ...
Views: 3938 - How to Get Going with Personal Development After a Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2011 from Diane AdkinsThroughout life there is always times when you will want to improve, strive for a bit more, and concentrating on your own personal development will help you attain those goals. This is especially valuable after a divorce. It is critical to take time to grieve your divorce, but then there comes ...
Views: 3935(1 vote) - Holiday Funk? 7 Steps to Rise Above - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteThe holidays are 'supposed to be' a time of love and laughter. Families and loved ones stop their frenzied lives to get together in peace, harmony and abundant gift giving. At least that's what much of the media and advertisers tell us how it should be each year. Yet for many of us, the ...
Views: 3917(1 vote) - My Husband Hurt My Feelings: How To Get Over Hurt Feelings From Husband - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2018 from Sylvester Danial"My husband hurt my feelings." That statement is always said with some sadness. Our spouse is the person we're closest to. They are supposed to be our emotional safe spot in the world so when they say something hurtful, the pain runs deeply. One big problem in many marriages is the husband ...
Views: 3891 - My Wife Says She Regrets Marrying Me: What Shoud I Do If My Partner Regrets Marrying Me - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2018 from Sylvester DanialMy Wife Says She Regrets Marrying Me: What Shoud I Do If My Partner Regrets Marrying Me Your marriage has seen better days. You feel that emotionally you and your wife are farther apart than you've ever been. It's worrisome and you're convinced that if you ignore what's happening within your ...
Views: 3887 - Is Your Wife Falling Out of Love With You? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2017 from Randy SkiltonIt's a tough place to be. When love and a deep connection are not shared, the feelings of emptiness, anger and frustration take over and your ability to function in other roles suffer. ⦁ Why did she fall out of love? ⦁ Who changed? You or her? ⦁ Was there a specific event that brought ...
Views: 3870 - My Husband Hurt Me Deeply: How To Get Over Hurt Feelings From Husband - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Hurt Me Deeply: How To Get Over Hurt Feelings From Husband If you have lived in the same home for years, you probably have a lot of stuff stored away. However neatly packed, anything you haven't put to good use for more than a year is probably a burden rather than a blessing. In a ...
Views: 3870 - My Husband Repulses Me Sexually: I Feel Disgusted When My Husband Touches Me - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Repulses Me Sexually: I Feel Disgusted When My Husband Touches Me Over the course of a few years of marriage, things shift between a woman and her husband. In some cases, feelings dramatically change and if you're like me, you may even reach a point where you don't feel as in love ...
Views: 3850 - I Broke My Wife's Heart How Do I Fix It: What To Do When Your Wife Is Upset - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2018 from Jennifer SageI Broke My Wife's Heart How Do I Fix It: What To Do When Your Wife Is Upset You may be looking for a convenient list of the best ways to get your wife back but that would likely require some kind of miracle to really work. The specifics of your situation prevent me from knowing what one exact ...
Views: 3846 - Get Over Being Dumped - 7 Helpful Guides Towards Successful Moving On - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Johnny WayneTo get over being dumped is a challenge for you! You will have the biggest fight with your EMOTION, so be ready. It might be too painful for you to recover easily especially on facing the fact that you're done and it's over.You always suffer from the pain he caused you, you feel worthless and ...
Views: 3842(2 votes) - *** Relationship Break-Up (Part 2): Living In the Void - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2008 from Carolyn EllisThe break-up of a love relationship can be emotionally devastating. As I shared, I recently joined the ranks of the heartbroken when an important relationship I was in ended abruptly and unexpectedly. Life in the void is an important opportunity to let go of an old paradigm and prepare yourself ...
Views: 3837(1 vote) - Bring Back the Passion and Save a Failing Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Gerry RestriveraKeeping a relationship is hard if you do not know how. Even if you are in a relationship, the truth is, you and your partner are still two different people and sometimes there are issues affecting the relationship resulting to confusion and doubts. There are ups and downs in a relationship and ...
Views: 3825 - Mid Life Crisis and Self Worth - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2012 from Richard KuhnsOften we think of a mid life crisis striking in the middle of one's life. And maybe it's called middle life crisis because that's when most of them strike. Yet today, that age could range easily between 30 and 60 years of age. Carl Jung, psychologist, described the middle age crisis as part and ...
Views: 3814 - How NOT To Save Your Marriage When the Going Gets Rough - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannMen have bad habits. Men make mistakes. No surprises there, right? Unfortunately, I've seen many husbands who could have saved their marriage, but they made one critical mistake that cost them divorce. As you continue reading this article, I'm going to walk you through five critical ...
Views: 3812(1 vote) - How To Survive In An Unhappy Marriage: How To Be Happy In An Unhappy Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow To Survive In An Unhappy Marriage: How To Be Happy In An Unhappy Relationship Married and feeling desperate, disappointed, discouraged and unhappy is not what most couples signed up for when they said "I do". Married and dealing with infidelity, loneliness, low self-esteem, lack of ...
Views: 3799 - Why most teenage marriages fail - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiIf you look around, you will notice that people now have different perspectives about marriage life. Some imagine it to be a romantic fantasy. Others head for the alter because they want to appear grown up in the eyes of others. Yet others simply want to escape a bad situation at home, or in the ...
Views: 3795 - After the Divorce - Trust after Infidelity - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2010 from Maryann CanditoIf you’ve been the victim of marital infidelity and are now working through the divorce; healing infidelity can be a daunting process. As much as you think to yourself, how will I move on? There will come a time when you will be interested in dating again, therefore trust after infidelity is ...
Views: 3780 - Robin Williams' Divorce: A Symptom of the Deeper Problem - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2008 from Harold Duarte-BernhardtAfter nearly 19 years of marriage, Robin Williams and his wife are divorcing. Williams and his wife have two children together. Marsha Garces Williams filed a petition for dissolution of marriage on March 21 in San Francisco Superior Court, citing irreconcilable differences. The two met when ...
Views: 3772 - Social Media: Does Social Media Encourage Cheating? - by Submitted on May 31, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman has been with men who have cheated, she might come to the conclusion that all men are the same. And if a man has been with a number of women who have cheated, he could also come to the same conclusion. As a result of what they have been through, it would be normal for them to say ...
Views: 3761 - My Husband Says I Don't Listen To Him: Steps To Becoming A Better Listener - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says I Don't Listen To Him: Steps To Becoming A Better Listener "You never listen to me...I've asked you a thousand times to let me know when you can't pick the kids up from daycare!" In my work with couples, it is common to hear one person accuse the other of "not listening." ...
Views: 3750 - Healing After a Break Up or Divorce - by Submitted on May 25, 2007 from Susie and Otto CollinsBreaking up just about always creates big changes in the lives of people and moving on can be fairly hard. A person might be stalled for a long time and it may be very difficult to handle common activities. whether or not your relationship break up has happened it has been years or yesterday, ...
Views: 3746 - Moving on After a Tough Breakup - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaMoving on after a breakup is one of the hardest things to do. Most of the time, it's not something that just happens, but rather something you must will yourself to do. No matter how impossible it may seem, just remember that it will happen; you will move on. All you need is to make slight ...
Views: 3736(2 votes) - ***Self-Care: Stop Going For The Martyr Medal - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2008 from Carolyn EllisDivorce is one of the most emotionally demanding life transitions you'll ever encounter. One big pitfall is what I call "going for the martyr medal." You get so preoccupied and consumed with making sure everyone else is taken care of first, that your own needs fall by the wayside. Single parents ...
Views: 3723 - I Suspect My Husband Is Cheating but I Have No Proof: How to Confront a Cheating Spouse with No Proof - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Suspect My Husband Is Cheating but I Have No Proof: How to Confront a Cheating Spouse with No Proof Have you found irrefutable proof that the love of your life is cheating on you? Wondering how to confront a cheating spouse? Sometimes it is best to have a game plan in mind before heading ...
Views: 3711 - Why Are Divorce Rates Increasing in the United States? - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2012 from Cindy .HolbrookThe divorce rate in the United States has increased tremendously over the past 75 years. Analysts have several theories on the reason behind this. The divorce rate is an alarming 45-percent for a first marriage and over 60-percent for a second marriage. Based on my personal experience as well ...
Views: 3709 - Broken Relationship Grief - How To Beat The Stages Of Break Up Grief Fast - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from JD DeanCoping with broken relationship grief commences with understanding just what each stage is. When you know this it's simply mind boggling how much of a calming influence this tends to have on you and whilst the anguish associated with a separation won't magically go away, knowing what you should ...
Views: 3702 - What You Should Consider Before Getting Back With Your Ex - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaA relationship, like a favorite article of clothing, can provide a certain level of comfort and familiarity. At times, however, that comfort and familiarity may actually be detrimental. If a relationship has ended, sometimes the loss of that comfort can cause a person to rush right back into ...
Views: 3695 - ***The Real Truth About Divorce Rates - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2012 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. There is an old saying among those who specialize in statistical data, and it goes like this – “Statistics are for liars and damn liars.” The famous Missourian, Mark Twain (Samuel Clemens) said it even better when he opined “It ain’t what you don’t ...
Views: 3683(28 votes) - Chicken For Thanksgiving: Dealing With Divorce And Major Life Transitions during the Holidays - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2007 from Dr. Tolu AdeleyeImagine having a chicken dinner on Thanksgiving! What would Thanksgiving be without the turkey and the trimmings? To many people, it wouldn't be Thanksgiving. Ironically, we eat more chicken than turkey on a year-round basis. However, we have grown accustomed to eating turkey on Thanksgiving ...
Views: 3676(3 votes) - *** Control Your Mindset: You Are What You Think - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2007 from Carolyn EllisAfter you separate or divorce, the most important tool you have at your disposal is your mindset. What are you thinking? What are you telling yourself? Is your goal to "survive" your divorce? Do you feel like you're a failure or "damaged goods"? Your thoughts have a powerful impact on your ...
Views: 3669 - My Wife Doesn't Want To Spend Time With Me: How To Convince My Wife To Spend Time With Me - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Doesn't Want To Spend Time With Me: How To Convince My Wife To Spend Time With Me "My wife doesn't want to spend time with me," said the confused husband. It's how you're feeling right now, isn't it? Your wife is avoiding you. It feels as though she's doing whatever she can to not be ...
Views: 3669 - How to forget your old relationship - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanHow to forget someone you love Long ago when it used to take me more than three days to forget about someone I used to do the same wrong practices people do when they get into a relationship but as I read a lot about psychology I discovered that forgetting someone you love would take a maximum ...
Views: 3667(1 vote) - My Husband Always Comes Home Late: What To Do When Your Husband Comes Home Late And Drunk - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Always Comes Home Late: What To Do When Your Husband Comes Home Late And Drunk Are you tired of your marriage relationship in its present state? Do you feel you've given until you can't give anymore? If you answered yes to either of these questions, then I want you to do one ...
Views: 3664 - Husband Picks Fights Over Nothing: When Your Husband Keeps Picking Fights with You - He Purposely Starts Fights - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2018 from Henry JosephHusband Picks Fights Over Nothing: When Your Husband Keeps Picking Fights with You - He Purposely Starts Fights One of the biggest contributors to divorce is fatigue and emotional exhaustion. Couples allow things to get so bad that by the time meaningful intervention is sought one or both are ...
Views: 3663 - Cutting Cords of Attachment -- Could That End an Addiction? - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2010 from Rose RosetreeBrain imaging shows that a failed love relationship can be as hard to release as a cocaine addiction. What wasn't studied for this article in the Journal of Neurophysiology? Cutting cords of attachment. By Rose Rosetree, author of "Cut Cords of Attachment: Heal Yourself and Others with Energy ...
Views: 3658(4 votes) - Divorced Dads Tips: The Winning Argument In Family Court - Part 2 - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2008 from Danny GuspieDISCLAIMER: The following is NOT legal advice, nor is it a substitute for legal advice. If you are in Family Court you will need legal advice, so please see a lawyer. Winning the argument when you’re a divorced dad in Family Court is not easy. But it can be done. I know, because I have ...
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