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- Life Coaching Training - 3 Aspects of Inspired Action - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2010 from Matthew FerryPeople who are inspired seem to take action effortlessly while those who are not have to figure out a way motivate themselves into action. If things come easy you are inspired. If things are difficult you are not. If things are not coming easily, it’s probably because you are not inspired by ...
Views: 547 - Life Coaching - Fix Your Relationship Like Jennifer and Powell - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2010 from Matthew FerryToday I received a wonderful testimonial from Jennifer about how controlling her Drunk Monkey positively impacted her marriage. “I am writing this to anyone interested in creating a relationship beyond your wildest dreams & the affect of working with Matthew Ferry has had for our family –in ...
Views: 674 - Life Coaching Tips to Make Happiness Automatic - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2010 from Matthew FerryMy clients are generally the biggest of the big in their respective industries. Each of them has created massive success. Yet the process they used to get there often seems inapplicable to the other aspects of life like happiness or peace. The process is the same. You must create structures, ...
Views: 1579(1 vote) - The Positive Power of Negativity - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Matthew FerryA client read my 2009 Prophecy Letter recently and was perplexed by this statement that I’d made in the letter. “I have really mastered the use of negative experiences to my advantage. I can see more clearly then ever that negativity is awesome! So much good happens when something bad ...
Views: 948(1 vote) - Life Coach Reveals Technique for Releasing Stress - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2010 from Matthew FerryWhat makes you nervous? Usually its some future The Drunk Monkey in your head is obsessing over. The way to get relaxed is to see it for what it is. The Drunk Monkey in your head, all that talking is just trying to keep you alive longer by avoiding potentially negative experiences. This is ...
Views: 757(1 vote) - What Are Intentions & Delegations? - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2010 from Matthew FerryI’m teaching a class to 1300 people called Instant Manifestation Now. The Purpose of the class is to manifest your wildest dreams. In the class I ask my participants to write intentions and delegations every day to help clarify goals and dreams. First I ask people to dream big. What would be ...
Views: 645 - Life Coach Discusses Why Marriages Don’t Work - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2010 from Matthew FerryIn very simple terms, “You hold your spouse accountable to agreements they never made!” We all experience that intense burst of chemicals in our body during the first 18 months of the relationship. The phrase “Love is Blind” refers to that period in the relationship when we are obsessed with ...
Views: 721(1 vote) - Why Goal Setting Makes You Freeze - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2010 from Matthew FerryA life coaching client wrote in, “I have a question, When ever we are asked what our dreams and goals are, I like freeze, I can never really come up with what my dreams are and can’t find goals that excite me., its like they have been suppressed for so long I don’t even know. Its like when ever ...
Views: 722 - Life Coaching - Why Temper Tantrums Rule! - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Matthew FerryI recently confronted my client on the fact that she made me a promise and didn’t keep it. Rather then owning it, and simply saying, “You are right, I said I would and I didn’t.” … she did what most powerful people do; She used her enormous power to try and manipulate me into believing that her ...
Views: 897(1 vote) - Life Coaching - How She Gained Respect - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2010 from Matthew FerryAs a life coach I focus on a process I call, “Radical Responsibility”. It’s a term I borrowed from my mentor, Dr. David Hawkins author of Power vs. Force. It is the antithesis of being a Victim. Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” you ask, “How am I causing this?” In truth ...
Views: 974(1 vote) - Life Coach Confirms Law of Attraction Visualizing Myth - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Matthew FerryVisualizing has been taken out of context. The many great men and women who told us about visualizing produced spectacular results. Taken out of context people began to assume that if you visualize, then you will get those results too. Not true. Visualizing is the beginning of the creation ...
Views: 785 - Having a Good Life: Fitness in Every Aspect with a Life Coach - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2009 from Matthew FerryAt one point or another, you will meet a very rich and seemingly successful person. It can range from real estate brokers, salesmen, executives, business owners. They seem have the power to have all the vacations they want, stuff and investments. Good life isn't it? But as you dig deeper, ...
Views: 1448(1 vote) - Creative Visualization : 10/10 Positive Visualization Technique - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2009 from Matthew FerryCounting your blessings each day is essential for positive growth. God/Source/Universe is happy to provide for you as long as you are happy about what you already have. If you are dissatisfied with your current situation, that energy muddles up your intentions. The more dissatisfied you are, ...
Views: 1630 - How to Manifest Your Desires with The Contribution Game: Applying The Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2009 from Matthew FerryWhat is The Contribution Game? How will it manifest my desires? Who Will You Meet Today? What does it have to do with The Law of Attraction? Remember: Every person you meet is important. Every person you meet has been sent to you. You are in the right place at the right time, all ...
Views: 1450(2 votes) - Applying the Law of Attraction - How to Manifest your Intentions - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2009 from Matthew FerrySimple : Just keep doing what you are doing. Manifesting is not think and wait. When Law of Attraction is moving successfully in your life, you are in action. You are alive. You are inspired. You are thriving. You are naturally in action all day every day. Most people think manifesting ...
Views: 1729(2 votes) - Use Your Prosperity Consciousness to Make Money - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2009 from Matthew FerryProsperity is often associated with money. The more money you have, the more prosperous you become. This has become a common belief that is false. Most of our lives, we have been taught by the our instinct and society to be "go-getters"; meaning, we have been taught to always grab the ...
Views: 2337(3 votes) - The Energy of Force vs. The Energy of Inspiration - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2009 from Matthew FerryThe energy generated from fear, stress and upset is the energy of force. Force takes incredible amounts of energy to exert and therefore it does not have lasting power and it drains you of your own life force. The problem is that most everyone was conditioned with force. Get to school on time ...
Views: 703(1 vote) - Power and Force - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2009 from Matthew FerryWhen you get the vital difference between power and force, you will engage in a process that will assist you in releasing fear and unlocking unexplainable joy. As you let go of forcing your life, living with “have to do” and “need to do” you suddenly discover that ...
Views: 697 - Give Up Your Righteousness - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2009 from Matthew FerryEvery one of these experiences helps us make new decisions about the world, our desires, and the meaning of life itself. Taking this into account, you now realize that there are no two beings that have had the same experiences. No two people, in other words, live in the same world as you do. In ...
Views: 629 - You Aren't Wired for Happiness - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2009 from Matthew FerryYou are a practicing Being Unstoppable! You are someone committed to having it all...right? You want the money, you want the freedom, and you want the joy of existence...you want to be inspired and in action on your dreams...feeling the exhilaration of being a fully engaged adult on this ...
Views: 615 - What You Want Will Manifest Better Than You Could Have Imagined in the First Place - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2008 from Matthew FerryWhat you want always manifests. And better then you could have expected. Sounds great doesn’t it...But the reality is, THE DRUNK MONKEY CAN’T STAND THAT. Warning! Warning! Warning! Monkey Alert!!!! Your mind thinks it is psychic and can predict the future...so when you take an ...
Views: 694 - Life Coaching: When you Spot it, Acknowledge it - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2008 from Matthew FerryWhen you spot something synchronistic acknowledge it. Get yourself in high alert today. Be alert to the miracles that are happening. Notice how you think of people and they call. You think about something and it happens. You have this power. You have the power to influence reality. When ...
Views: 730 - You Aren't Wired for Happiness - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2008 from Matthew FerryYou are a practicing Being Unstoppable! You are someone committed to having it all…right? You want the money, you want the freedom, and you want the joy of existence…you want to be inspired and in action on your dreams…feeling the exhilaration of being a fully engaged adult on ...
Views: 754 - Why Top Sales People Achieve Stellar Results with Life Coaching - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2008 from Matthew FerryAll the top sales people who are committed to having a fulfilling experience in life are in a life coaching program. Well, I say all and that is a bold statement. I’ll explain. So many of the top salespeople I have worked with don’t care about having a fulfilling experience. They ...
Views: 742 - Give Up Your Righteousness - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2008 from Matthew FerryThere are six billion people on this planet. Every single person has a completely different perspective. You know that every single person has had billions of experiences. Experience shapes our opinions, judgments, ideals, preferences, and ultimately our view of life. Every one of these ...
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