Long ago I used to think that persuading people is a hard task but as I learned more and more I discovered that people find it hard to persuade others because they do the wrong things not because its hard to persuade someone.
After working as a sales person for years and after running my own ... Views: 1617
Depression self help
I have helped thousands of people to get of depression on their own by teaching them depression self help methods.
Lots of people mistakenly believe that drugs are the solution for depression while the truth is that psychotherapy is usually much more effective for ... Views: 1607
I am sure you know one of those people who are always angry
Why do those people shout all the time?
and why do they lose their temper whenever the slightest thing happens?
In this article i will explain why are some people always angry.
Our perception changes whenever our emotions ... Views: 1593
One of the main reasons lots of people never manage to build solid self esteem is that they never manage to determine the real reason behind their lack of self esteem.
After talking to ten people who lack self esteem you will discover that each of them lacks self esteem because of a different ... Views: 1589
Everyone wants to build self confidence and the reason most of them fail is not that they don't do enough effort but its because they apply the wrong advice.
Self confidence is all about a set of beliefs that a person has about himself, in order to build self confidence successfully you must ... Views: 1584
In order to know how to make money you have to first know how to not make money.
So why is that useful?
Simply by learning about these money making mistakes and avoiding them you will be able to make money in a fast and easy way.
here is how to not make money
Play it safe: no I am not ... Views: 1584
Sounds like a weird title huh?
After all, People should give advice on how to reduce worrying and not on how to worry.
In fact I am not going to tell you how to worry more but I am going to tell you about the wrong practices some people do that force them to worry more and that ruins their ... Views: 1580
ICE
What came to your mind when you read the word ICE out loud? most probably different thoughts and things that are related to this word jumped into your mind quickly.
Your mind is just like a large computer that has billions of folder, once you access a folder you can reach all the ... Views: 1558
If you play any sport then I am sure that you find yourself energetic on some days and completely down on other days. Why do you sometimes manage to break your old records and why do you in other times find it very hard to do what you did the last time?
What many people don’t know is that there ... Views: 1554
Recently one of my friends sent me a mail asking me whether its possible to stop lying or not. After i told him that its completely possible he replied back asking me how can he motivate someone to stop lying.
In response to his message i decided to write this article so that i let everyone ... Views: 1546
We all have important goals that we want to reach but because life is full of events that distracts us many of us forget about their goals after some time or at least procrastinate so much and the result in both cases is not reaching them before their deadlines.
I have thought for days and days ... Views: 1524
We all know the famous story of Thomas Edison who kept trying and trying to invent the lamp even though everybody was against him until he succeeded.
The story of Thomas Edison is no different than the story of any other successful person. In the beginning he finds something that he believes in ... Views: 1521
“If money was equally distributed among all living people then within few months those who were already rich will become richer and those who were already poor will become poorer”
Contrary to common beliefs
Rich people aren’t the lucky ones who found great opportunities in their lives and ... Views: 1516
When couples are separated geographically by a big distance it's said that they are having a long distance relationship. There is a common belief that long distance relationships don't work and while I am not completely against that belief, still I am not completely with it. The aim of this ... Views: 1515
Impression Management
Do your friends think that you are boring?
Are you wondering why don’t people like you?
Do you think that are always misunderstood?
If your answers were yes then most probably you have just left the incorrect impression but you are not bad at all. Impression ... Views: 1495
Do you want to know if she likes you?
Are you unsure if he is interested in you?
For most people, the answers to these questions is a definite yes, and so here are some of the signals that show whether the other person was intending to flirt with you or not.
* Playing with her hair : This ... Views: 1495
Everyday millions of people try to become more confident by acquiring fame, power, money and popularity but in the end most of them never make any progress and end up feeling the same.
Most of those people were told to repeat affirmations, think positively or to believe in themselves but in the ... Views: 1492
Love or Need?
Suppose that you broke a leg in some kind of accident and had to use crutches in order to move around; as the days pass, you'll find yourself getting more and more used to them. In your current state of injury, you certainly can't walk without them, so imagine how you'd feel if ... Views: 1486
Self Acceptance is one of the most important life skills a person should be capable of.
However most people fail to accept themselves the right way because there is a very fine line between self acceptance and self deception.
Some people get self acceptance wrong by believing that it’s a ... Views: 1473
limiting beliefs can negatively impact your life and change your reality to the worse.
Because of the dangers of limiting beliefs and because of the bad impact they have you must be aware of their creation process so that you can do your best to avoid them.
In this article i will tell you ... Views: 1472
On Monday morning Sam went to a job interview hoping that he would get that job he was after. When Sam first stepped inside the building he started feeling afraid. As time passed and as his turn approached Sam became more and more fearful until they called out his name.
Sam went inside the ... Views: 1470
He is well educated
He is more successful than most of his friends
He even has a PHD degree
but the last time he was in a social gathering. He didn't find the right words, didn't feel secure and felt like a complete loser.
The man felt as if he had no self confidence and wondered, why ... Views: 1462
Minimalism is not as simple as getting rid of the extra stuff you have at home but it goes deeper to affect almost all of your life areas.
By making proper use of minimalism you can improve almost all of your life areas and live a better life.
Here are 5 ways minimalism can help you live a ... Views: 1461
You might believe that you are aware of the importance of self confidence but actually self confidence has an effect on some aspects of your life that you might have never though of, for example:
- Depression happens because of the combination of genetics and changes in the external ... Views: 1454
The problem with self limiting beliefs is that they appear so real to the extent that the person can hardly tell whether he has a self limiting belief or a real one. In addition to that whenever someone attempts to help a person remove his self limiting belief the person becomes anxious, very ... Views: 1444
One of the main reasons that makes some people believe that change is not possible is believing that their current behavior will remain the same simply because it have been there for a while.
The person who smokes might label himself a smoker and so make it harder to believe that he can ... Views: 1439
How did you feel the last time you were criticized?
Am sure you felt bad because no one likes to be criticized however the real problem with criticism is not that is hurts but the real problem is that it ruin one’s self confidence if the wrong actions were taken.
Most people do certain ... Views: 1431
A friend of mine had intense hatred towards her job, she used to explain to me how much she suffers every morning on her way to the office and how horrible she feels at the end of each weekend.
Whenever my friend told her friends or relatives about her problem they always gave her the same ... Views: 1430
If you have a bad car then you have a hard time for about 2 hours everyday. If you have a bad job then you will have a hard time for about 8 hours a day, if you have a bad relationship then you will have a hard time all day long!
Relationships are a vital part of our lives, if we didn’t ... Views: 1424
Lots of people spent years trying to become confident without succeeding.
When those people begin the quest they usually start by looking for online tips that can help them become confident quickly and this is usually what they come across:
• Say "I like myself" everyday out loud Not ... Views: 1423
She is really arrogant
Jason has never managed to have a successful relationship with a woman. He grew up as an introverted and shy adult who believes that all beautiful women were arrogant.
Sam had a similar problem, he always had troubles talking to members of the other sex which resulted ... Views: 1423
Life is full of challenges as you already know. Some people always get self confidence wrong because they try to understand it without connecting it to life challenges.
Imagine that you were born on another planet where no difficult tasks ever were demanded from you. Would you feel ... Views: 1415
We all have goals and tasks that we want to accomplish but unfortunately we don’t always find ourselves motivated to do our tasks or to pursue our goals.
One of the big differences between successful people and those who didn’t succeed yet is the ability of the first group to motivate ... Views: 1395
Time is the most precious asset you have and even though most of people are aware of this fact still some of them keep wasting time.
Most people don't waste time on intention but instead they do some mistakes that kills their time without noticing and that's why in this article i will point ... Views: 1390
Depression results from chemical imbalance in the brain. This fact is known to almost everybody but ask any person what causes this imbalance and you will find that he doesn’t know the answer.
Depression happens when a person loses hope in getting something that he wanted to get badly. This ... Views: 1390
When Andre Agassi won the cup and became the champion he was asked how he it feels like he replied saying:
"I have already won Wimbledon at least 10,000 times before"
People first laughed because they believed he was joking but when Andre explained that he had visualized himself winning ... Views: 1386
When self confidence is mentioned what usually comes to the mind of people is approaching the opposite sex or starting conversations with strangers and while both acts require a good amount of confidence still there is another type of confidence that is much more important that all other ... Views: 1383
There is no doubt that people who live consciously eventually become happier and successful than those who don’t.
Like every other thing that can be developed and learned conscious living is a skill that can be acquired through knowledge and practice.
In this post I will tell you about 5 ... Views: 1382
Do you think that if you were living alone on an island you would have been doing the same things you are doing now?
A very big part of our behavior, actions and thoughts are highly affected by the people around us even if this is not apparent to us.
Peer pressure or the pressure a person ... Views: 1379
From the outside depression might seem like a complex phenomenon but as soon as you get a deeper understanding of people’s psychology you will find that depression is one of the simplest mood disorders.
The mistake most people do when dealing with depression is trying to blame the chemical ... Views: 1377
So why is that useful?
Simply by learning about these money making mistakes and avoiding them you will be able to make money in a fast and easy way.
Here are the ways not to make money
Don’t follow new trends: If you don’t follow the new trends, if you don’t always check what’s new and ... Views: 1376
Its feels really bad when someone steels something that you own. I still remember how bad I felt the last time my car’s rear sign was stolen and am sure you felt really bad the last time someone stole something from you too.
But if something as little a 100 dollars or a car sign can make us ... Views: 1376
Dreams can be an expression of the desires we want to fulfill, the reflection of our fears or our current emotional states or even a suggested soloution by our minds to a problem that is bothering us.
One of the most common misconceptions about dreams is believing that symbols have universal ... Views: 1376
What most people don’t know about dreams
Dream interpretation is one of the most exiting topics I came across in my journey to learn psychology.
Even though dream interpretation is extremely popular online still its one of the most misunderstood topics by common.
In this post I will fix ... Views: 1375
Certainly we are all aware of the health effects of having a positive attitude throughout life and of the improved mood we are going to experience if we remained positive yet sometimes we betray our knowledge and dwell into negative thinking for prolonged periods.
I have been searching for ... Views: 1362
Most people try to spend time alone when they have a fight with their spouse. As soon as they fight together everyone leaves the other and goes to their friends or relatives. Since both of them are still carrying intense anger emotions, they start mentioning each others mistakes in front of ... Views: 1355
most people fail to build self confidence because they don’t work on fixing the right areas where they lack self confidence. I gave the example of the successful person who lacks confidence because of problems in his social life and who never manages to feel confident even though he is achieving ... Views: 1355
Broken hearted?
Don’t worry, here 10 things that you can do in order to recover in few days:
1) Kill uncertainty: People usually accept death faster than they accept breakups because when it comes to death people are 100 percent sure that the dead person cant return back once again, in short ... Views: 1348
We all want to be productive but sometimes we find ourselves procrastinating and wasting our time without intention.
I interviewed many people who are known for their productivity and also interviewed some of the procrastinators I know and as a I result I discovered 7 points that could you ... Views: 1347
Do you know how babies learn to grasp objects?
They first hold the object incorrectly so it drops from their hands
And then they hold it incorrectly the second time and it drops again
And then they hold it incorrectly for the third time and then it falls again
And then they hold incorrectly ... Views: 1342